Ukukhulisa umntwana onobuchule kunokuba nzima kwaye kufuneke, kwaye iimfuno ziqala ukususela ekusaneni. Kakade ke, abazali abaqhelanga ukuba umntwana wabo unesipho ngenxa yokuba ezininzi iimpawu zabantwana abanesakhono azibonakali kangangoko. Ngokomzekelo, abazali abayazi ukuba umntwana wabo omncinci unememori kakuhle okanye izakhono zokuqiqa. Abazi malunga nekhono lomntwana lokusombulula ingxaki okanye ukuyiqonda okanye ukudibanisa.
Kodwa ukungazi ukuba umntwana akanalo isipho akuthethi ukuba akukho zibonakalo kuwo onke okanye ukuba abazali abakwazi ukwenza ukuqiqa. Ukuba sele sele benomntwana obonisa iimpawu zobungqina, kunokwenzeka ukuba umntwana omtsha unesipho. Okanye ukuba omnye wabazali bobabini unesipho, mhlawumbi umntwana usuphethwe ngenxa yokufumana isipho esizuze njengefa.
Ziziphi ezinye iimpawu zentsana ephilileyo?
Ingaba abazali bayazi ukuba umntwana wabo unelungelo okanye akunjalo, banokubona ubungqina benye yempawu yabantwana abanesipho : imfuno yokuvuselela ingqondo. Kuye kubonakala ukuba abantwana abanobuchule babudinga ukukhuthazwa. Ngelishwa kula maintsana, abakwazi ukwenza okukhulu ukufumana ukuvuselelwa kwengqondo. Xa bekhulile, banokukrazula baze bajikeleze bahlole ihlabathi elibajikelezile baze bafumane ukuvuselelwa kwengqondo, kodwa nje kuphela ukuba beyiintsana, abakwazi ukujikeleza kakhulu. Okona baninzi abanokukwenza ukujika iintloko zabo.
Isana elinesiphiwo esinokubangela ukuphazamiseka ngenxa yokungabikho kwezinto ezintsha ukuhlola ngokubonakalayo. Yaye xa badibana, benza konke okwenziwa yiintsana zonke. Bakhala baze baphikisane. Abazali balezi ziintsana abanesineke bayazikhungatheka ngenxa yokuba abazi into ephosakeleyo.
Ingaba Ukuxubha Kukho Colic okanye Into Enye?
Ingane yabo isele idle.
Kungenzeka ukuba wavusa okanye avuke ixesha elifutshane nje, kwaye i-diapers ihlambulukile kwaye iyomile. Into yokuqala abazali becinga ngayo. Yintoni enye ebenokubangela ukuba le nto ikhale kwaye ixabane?
Ukuxubusha kungabangelwa into elula njengokunqongophala kwengqondo. Abazali abaninzi abaneintsana ezinamakhono bafumana ukuba ukuba batshintshe umntwana wabo okanye bajonge rhoqo rhoqo, umntwana uyayeka ukukhala nokukhwaza. Usana lufuna nje into entsha ukujonga. Ngexesha elizayo usana lwakho lukhala kwaye awukwazi ukuqonda into engalunganga, zama ukuhambisa umntwana wakho. Ngamanye amaxesha konke kuthatha ukuthatha isihlalo sokusana ukuze umntwana abhekane nesikhokelo esahlukileyo.
Iintsana ezinamandla kakhulu zinokudinga ukufuduka rhoqo, ngamanye amaxesha rhoqo rhoqo ngemizuzu engama-20!
Kubalulekile ukuba uqaphele, nangona kunjalo, ukuba umntwana usenokuba nocolic okanye into enzulu. Ukuba ukukhala kuqhubeka, kufuneka uxoxe naye kunye nezingane zakho. Nangona kunjalo, ukuba umntwana wakho uyeke ukukhala emva kokuba uhamba naye, amathuba kukuba le ngxaki yukungabikho kwengqondo yokuvuselela.