Yintoni ongayenza xa umntwana wakho wenqaba ukusebenzisa i-potty kwiimeko ezithile
Ngamanye amaxesha ukuqeqeshwa kwamathambo kungumsebenzi ophazamisayo nodidekayo, mhlawumbi ngakumbi kubazali bethu kunabantwana bethu. Phakathi kweengxaki zokuqeqesha zangasese onokujamelana nazo ngunyana owathi, nangona esebenzisa ubumbanyo rhoqo ekhaya kunye noluntu, wenqaba ukuyisebenzisa ekunyamekeleni okanye esikolweni. Njengoko kukhwankqisayo njengokuba oku kunye nomnakekeli wengane yakho, akuqhelekanga.
Izizathu ezicacileyo zokuthi kungani umntwana wakho wenqaba ukusebenzisa indlu yangasese kumntu onomnakekeli kunokuba nzima ukuyiqonda kwaye kungathatha ixesha ukujonga ukuba yintoni isizathu kunye nendlela yokuyisingatha ngayo. Kwakhona kunokwenzeka ukuba umntwana wakho uya kugqiba isigqibo ngelinye ilanga ukuba afike esikolweni kwaye awusoze wazi ingcambu yokuxhatshazwa kwayo kwangaphambili. Ngaloo nto imilingo ingabonakali izayo nantoni na ngokukhawuleza, unokuba ufuna iindlela zokumnceda ukhululeke usebenzisa i-bathroom yokunakekelwa kwamanzi ngoku. Isinyathelo sokuqala kukuzama nokuchonga oko kunokubangela ukuchaswa kwakhe. Ezinye iindlela zokuqwalasela:
- Iintloni zingenza kube nzima kumntwana wakho ukuba azive ekhululekile ukuya kumntu onoxanduva lwakhe lononophelo losuku lwakhe.
- Kusenokuba nento ethile malunga nokuhlambela umntwana ongeyithandi, kwaye oku kubangela ukuxhalabisa.
- Unokwesaba ukuba neengozi esikolweni ukwenzela ukuba uzive ekhuselekile kwi-diapers.
Iindaba ezimbi kukuba ngeli nqanaba lophuhliso , isigama esiluqulekileyo somntwana singenza kube nzima ukuba akuxelele into ephosakeleyo (kwaye akanakwazi ukuba yintoni eyenzayo ukumelana nokusebenzisa indlu yangasese nangona kunjalo). Iindaba ezilungileyo kukuba unako ukumnceda ngokunika ezininzi iinkqubo eziqinisekisiweyo kunye nokuzama ukucwangcisa izicwangciso ezihlukeneyo zodwa zijongene nezizathu ezinokubandezeleka kwakhe.
Akunakwenzeka ukuba uya kutshintsha ingqondo yakhe malunga nobusuku ngobusuku, nangona kunjalo. Oku kuya kuthatha ixesha kunye nomonde omkhulu kuwe kunye nomnakekeli wakho omncinci.
Ukunceda umntwana onamahloni
Into ebaluleke kakhulu xa ujongana nomntwana onamahloni kukuphepha ukugxotha ukwesaba kwakhe okanye ukugculela intloni. IiNkcazo ezifuna ukuba "ayeke" ukuba neentloni ziza kwenza ukuba azincede. Ukuba udlwengulo ludlala ekuqeqesheni ngamanzi esikolweni, mhlawumbi kwakuyinto ebalulekileyo kwezinye iindawo ezinzima apho. Umncedi wakho uncede njani unyana wakho ukuba azive ekhululekile xa uqala ukumshiya? Wamfumana njani ukuba asebenze nabanye abantwana? Ezinye zezi zicwangciso ezifanayo zingasetyenziswa kule meko.
Okona kuncinci, abasebenzi kufuneka benze umzamo wokumbuza ukuba ufuna ukusebenzisa le potty kunokuba amlindele ukuba afike kubo. Umnakekeli onamava unokuhlala eqonda iimpawu zomntwana enesibindi esipheleleyo okanye uyazi ukuba umntwana ulungele ixesha elithile emva kokutya nokusela. Kwaye ukuba akafuni ukuba nabani na ahambe naye, abasebenzi kufuneka baqiniseke ukuba indlu yokuhlambela imiselwe ngendlela yokwenza kube lula ukuba ahambe yedwa. Kwakhona kunceda ugqoke umntwana wakho kwiingubo angakwazi ukuzikhupha kunye nokuzihlalisa (izikhwebu ezinamanzi, amabhande, njl).
Ukuzisa ukutya kwakhe esikolweni kungayona ndlela efanelekileyo yokwenza umntwana wakho azive ekhululekile. Nangona ephikisana nokusebenzisa okokuqala, unokuqhubeka nokuwugcina esikolweni se-nursery ukwenzela ukuba xa ekulungele ukuzama, unentuthuzelo eyongezelelweyo yokusebenzisa isihlalo esiphezulu esilungeleyo kwaye siqhelene.
Ukujongana nokukhathazeka
Ukuba uyakrokrela ukuba umntwana wakho akayinto ehlazileyo kodwa ubonakala esaba (ngokukhawuleza okanye ngokugqithiseleyo) kokusebenzisa ubumbane esikolweni, kubalulekile ukuzingela isizathu. Abantwana kunye nabantwana basesikolweni basenokubonakala bakha "imigaqo" yabo kunye namabali kwimimiselo yansuku zonke. Ingxenye yale nto ihambelana nokuthiwa ukucinga ngemilingo, yinto efana nayo eyenza uneminyaka emibini ubudala ukugxininise ekusebenziseni kuphela isipuni esinepinki (kuba ukutya akuyi kuluva ngendlela elungileyo kunye nezinye izinto) okanye iziphumo kuye kubhebha kuba eqinisekile ukuba abantwana bayakwazi ukulala phantsi.
Ukuba umntwana wakho unyanzelekile ngokungasebenzisi i-potty potty, kungenzeka ukuba wakha uxhumano kwingqondo yakhe phakathi kwamanzi kunye nento engathandekiyo.
Ngaphambi kokuba ucinge ngeenqwelomoya ezintle, ke, qwalasela ukuba zikhona izizathu ezichanileyo kunye nezikhonkco akafuni ukuzenza. Jonga ngeenxa yokuhlambela esikolweni sakho somntwana. Ngaba kukho umfanekiso eludongeni angayithandi? Ingumnyama kakhulu? Intombi yam sele yenqabile ukusebenzisa i-potty kwiziko lokunyamekela kwosuku ngoba "lathi lihlekisayo" (ukuhlaziywa komoya kwakomeleleyo kwaye iyancipha kwizinto ezivumbayo). Kwakhona, iilwimi zesigxina somntwana zingenza kube nzima ukuba akuxelele into ephosakeleyo, kodwa ukuba uyakrokrela into ethile, unokuyikhomba kwaye uyibone indlela asabela ngayo.
Isizathu senkxalabo asikwazi ukuba sisemzimbeni kodwa singadibana nesimo esiqhelekileyo abasisebenzisa esikolweni. Ngaba abantwana basebenzisa ibumbi kwiqela? Abanye abantwana banokufumanisa ukuba ukudibanisa. Ziziphi izinto ozenzayo ekhaya ukuze ube nabasebenzi abazitholayo? Ezinye iintsapho zineengoma abayicula ngexesha lokutywala okanye zivumele umntwana ukuba afunde kwindlu yangasese. Ukwenza loo masiko inxalenye yamava esikolweni se-nursery ingahamba ixesha elide ukwenzela ukuba umntwana wakho okanye umntwana oneminyaka emibili azive ekhululekile. Yaye ungazivumi ukuba unyanzelisa abasebenzi. Ngokuqinisekileyo banomdla wokufumana umntwana oqeqeshwe kakuhle kwaye kufuneka bazimisele ukwenza oko kuyenzayo ukuze bamncede.
Ukujongana Neloyiko Lengozi Esinye isizathu sokuba umntwana wakho angasifuni ukuba ngumnye wabasebenzisi basebumbini kwisikolo samabanga asekhaya kukuba akayithandi into eyenzekayo xa "abo bantwana" benengozi. Buza abasebenzi ukuba zithini iinkqubo zabo xa umntwana ebamba okanye enentshukumo yakhe ebantwini. Ukuba ucinga ukuba basebenzisa iindlela zokuqeqeshwa zangasese ezingalunganga , kufuneka udibanise loo mlawuli kumphathi wesikhokelo.
Unokubuza umntwana wakho oko akubonayo kwenzeka. Mhlawumbi ubona umntwana ekhala emva kwengozi, akafuni ukugxila kwingqalelo, okanye ufuna nje ukuphepha ukuba abe ngumhlaba kumaphephethi. Kule meko, unokufuna ukubona ukuba unokwenza umonakalo kunye nonyana wakho: unokugqoka iincindi zokuqeqeshwa ezinjenge- Pull-Ups "xa kunjalo" kodwa kufuneka uzame ukusebenzisa indlu yangasese xa kufuneka ahambe.
Ukulawula Isifiso Ukuba Njengawo Wonke Uhlobo Lonke lube luhluke, kodwa ndiyazi ukuba xa endala yam ibonisa iimpawu zokuqeqeshwa kwamathambo akukho nontanga yakhe eyayiqeqeshwe yangasese. Wayekwazi kakuhle ukusebenzisa i-potty ngokwayo, kodwa ngenxa yokuba abalingani bakhe bebanomdla bebehlala kwiingqungquthela kwakungekho nto eyayishukumisela ukuba aye endlini yangasese. Akukho mntu wayemele ayeke ukudlala ukuze atye! Kwakhona, umnakekeli wayengaphantsi kokuxhasa. Kwakuyinto elula ukuba yena abe nabo bonke abaneminyaka emibini ubudala kwiphepha elifanayo, waziva. Kwakudingeka sibhekane neemeko zentloko ngokuqinisa izinto esizilindeleyo kwaye sidumise intombi yethu eyayingadingi i-diapers. Siye saxelela ngokucacileyo umgcini-mgcini ukuba asiyi kumvumela ukuba agqoke i-diapers emini. Ukusebenzisa i- reinforcements njengeesatidi esicatshulwa kunokunceda umntwana abone ukuba "inkunzi enkulu" ikhethekileyo.
Njengoko nayo yonke into ehlobene nokukhulisa abantwana, ukuhambelana kubalulekile. Ekubeni uyazi ukuba umntwana wakho ulungele ukupheka, kulungile ukummisa ukuba ulindele ukuba asebenzise ubumbane ekunakekeleni kwelanga. Qinisekisa ukuba abasebenzi bayamnika ithuba lokusebenzisa ubumbulu imihla ngemihla kwaye bahlala behle xa bemxelela ukuba bayakwazi. Wena kunye nomnikezeli wakho womntwana kufuneka ukhuphe ukuguqula ubumbano kwizinto zokulwa kunye neentlungu, nangona kunjalo. Ukumphoqa ukuba ahlale apho, amgwebe ngenxa yokwenqaba, okanye ukwenza amazwana angcikizayo uya kwenza umntwana onqwenela ukumbamba aze anqabe ngaphezulu.