Xa umzali oswelekileyo efa, umzali ongekho phantsi kunye namanye amalungu entsapho unokukhathazeka ngaba ngubani oya kufumana ukugcinwa komntwana. Abo bafuna ukunceda bafanele bafunde malunga neenkqubo ezifanelekileyo zokulandela kunye nenkundla yentsapho yasekuhlaleni ukufumana ukugcinwa kwabantwana ngokusemthethweni. Ulwazi olulandelayo malunga nokugcina umntwana emva kokufa komzali kunokukunceda ulungiselele.
I-Custody emva kokuba Umzali aphelile
Umbuzo othi ngubani omele afumane ukugcinwa kwengane xa umzali oswelekileyo efa uyinto enzima. Nazi abaviwa abanokuthi bangathanda ukukhonza njengabalindi:
- Umzali ongekho-mgcini, ukuba ubabini bavunyelwe
- Ootatomkhulu
- Ezinye izalamane, ezinjengeenkazikazi, oomama okanye abazala
- Abahlobo beentsapho ezifana noomama okanye oomelwane
- Urhulumente
Lo wokugqibela ubonakala njengendlela encinci. Nangona kunjalo, ukuba akukho zindlela ezingezinye, umntwana angaba yiwadi yeburhulumente. Xa oko kwenzeka, umntwana ungena kwinkqubo yokukhusela . Ngelishwa, akukho ndlela yentsapho echaphazelekayo yokukhetha ikhaya elincinci okanye kwindawo leyo. Kwiimeko ezininzi, ukuhanjelwa kungasungulwa kwiziteshi eziqhelekileyo, kodwa izalamane ezinqwenela ukuhambela ukutyelelwa zingathanda ukucinga ukuba zingenele indima yomgcini esikhundleni. Oku kuya kuthintela imfuno yokunakekelwa kwabantwana.
Amalungu entsapho axhalabileyo angafuna nokukwazi ukuba ngaba umntwana owamkelwayo usebenzisa inkqubo yokukhusela. Ngokwenene impendulo nguwe ewe, kodwa abantwana abaninzi abasondezayo abazange bamkelwe. Kwakhona, esi sizathu esichukumisayo sokuzithandela njengomgcini.
Ukufa kunye noKufa kwabazali
Njengoko kuchaziwe ngasentla, umzali ongekho phantsi unokufumana ilungelo lokugcina umntwana xa umzali okhuselekileyo efa.
Nangona kunjalo, ukwenzela ukuba oku kwenzeke, kufuneka kuzalwe umtshato. Ukuvuma ngokusemthethweni ukuzala kuyadinga:
- Isayinwa yenguba ye-biological kwisitifiketi sokuzalwa, okanye
- Ukuvuma okumisayinwe kwifom yesibini, kufakwe enkundleni
Ubaba ophilayo unokuqalisa kwakhona ukuhlolwa kwezilwanyana emva kokufa komzali osisigxina. Amazwe aneenkqubo ezithile zokuvuma ukuba umntwana unomntwana. Ukufumana ulwazi malunga noko ukulindela xa uqala ukuhlolwa kobuntwaba, jonga kwiikhokelo zakho zokugcina abantwana.
Umntu wesithathu kufuneka afumane njani umgangatho woNyana
Inkundla iza kubhekisela ekugcinweni komntwana wesithathu, njengokwenza umhlobo wentsapho ngumlondolozi womthetho. Oku kukhathazekayo xa umzali oswelekileyo efa, kwaye kukho naziphi na iimeko ezilandelayo:
- Azikho izihlobo eziseduze ezicela inkxaso yenkxaso yabantwana
- Kukho ubudlelwane obusondeleyo phakathi komntwana kunye nomntu wesithathu
- Ukugcinwa kweqela lesithathu kubakhonkcenkcesha bomntwana.
Kufikelela ezinkundleni ukugqiba isigqibo sokuba ngaba kunikwe imvume yokugcina umntu emva kokufa komzali. Nangona kunjalo, abantu abachaphazelekayo abanqwenela ukuqwalaselwa kufuneka baqhube phambili ngokukhawuleza kwaye bavumele inkundla zikwazi ngentshisekelo yakho, ubudlelwane bakho obukhoyo kunye nomntwana kunye nawaphi na amava afanelekileyo okanye iziqinisekiso emva kokufa komzali.
Kubuhlungu kakhulu kumntwana kunye namaqela onke achaphazelekayo xa umzali oswelekileyo efa. Kunzima nakwabathandekayo ukuba bafumane ngubani omele afumane ukugcinwa kwengane yomzali wakhe osweleyo. Ukufumana ulwazi oluthe xaxa malunga nokugcinwa kwabantwana emva kokufa, bhekisa kwiikhokelo zokugcinwa kwabantwana kwimeko yakho okanye uthethe negqwetha elifanelekileyo kwilizwe lakho.