Bobabini iilwimi kunye nolwimi lobugcisa luhle
Ngethuba leeseshoni zokuqeqesha ngamanzi, abazali bahlala becinga ukuba yiyiphi imigaqo ekufuneka bayisebenzise nabantwana. Ingaba ulwimi olufana nokunyakaza kwesibilini okanye umchamo olufanelekileyo, okanye ngaba abazali kufuneka basebenzise amagama amaninzi anjenge-poop ne-pee?
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Ingaba ukusebenzisa iilwimi ezichanekileyo kwiimpawu zomzimba kunye nenkunkuma kuyisigqibo esisigqibo somntu kwaye rhoqo iquka imbali yentsapho yakhe.
Abantu abanabantwana abathi "i-pee" kunye ne "poop" baya kusebenzisa le migaqo kunye nabantwana babo.
Akukho nto iphosakeleyo ngayo nayiphi isitayela. Awuyi kwenza umntwana wakho naluphi ukungabi nabulungisa okanye ingozi ngokusebenzisa amagama angumntwana ukuchaza ezi zinto. Ungumntwana, emva koko, kwaye ngaphandle kokuba uceba ukumfihla, ekugqibeleni uya kufunda emibini imigaqo kunye ne-slang eyokukwenza ube yinto epheleleyo. Ukubiza i-penis ngokuthi "wee wee" ngoku ayiyi kuchaphazela oko.
Ngokufanayo, kukho indawo eninzi yokwazisa imigaqo echanekileyo ngoku ukuba ngaba ungathanda ukwenza. Ngokumnika zombini amagama, unokucinga ukuba unokumdibanisa naye, kodwa into echasene nayo iyinyani. Uyamnika iindlela ezininzi zokuzivakalisa kunye nolwazi oluninzi lokwenza oko xa ekulungele. Umama angasebenzisa olunye uhlobo lweelwimi zobumba kunye nobawo bangasebenzisa omnye, okanye unako ukudibanisa.
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Udideko lwenzeka, nangona kunjalo, ukuba ugqiba ukuphelisa okanye ukuphazamisa amagama athile okanye ukongeza imvakalelo embi kumagama.
Ngokomzekelo, ukuba unganeliseki kakhulu ngamazwi akho umyeni wakho usebenzisa, unokufuna ukucinga ukuba kutheni le nto. Ngokomzekelo, ngaba ufumanisa ihlazo okanye uvakalelwa kukuba unamahloni ngala mazwi nangona kungengamagama aqalekisiweyo kwaye kuya kulungele ukusebenzisa uluntu? Esi simo sengqondo sinokudluliselwa kalula kumntwana wakho, ngakumbi xa wena kunye nomlingane wakho niphikisana ngayo okanye uyala okanye ulungise phambi komntwana wakho xa basebenzisa la magama.
Ufuna umntwana wakho akhululeke ukuthetha malunga nazo zonke iinkalo zokusebenzisa indlu yokuhlambela kunye nawe, kwaye kungase kube lula kwaye ukhululekile ukuba unyana wakho athi, "I-poo poo ibuhlungu" kunokuba, "Ndikunzima ngethambo lam ntshukumo. " Oku kuyinyani ngokukodwa ukuba akanalo umyalelo oqinileyo wezakhono zolwimi .
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Ukuba amagama okanye umlingane osebenzisayo ayifanelekanga, nangona kunjalo, kwaye ayinakusetyenziswa malunga neqela labangontanga bakho (oku kuthetha amanye amamazana nabantwana abaselula okanye nawuphi na umntu onengqiqo owake wafumana umntwana), ngoko kufuneka uxoxe malunga nokusebenzisa eminye imiqathango efanelekileyo. Akukho nto emnandi okanye efanelekileyo ekufundiseni umntwana omncinane ukuba afunge. Kwaye akunakwenzeka ukufundisa umntwana omncinci ukuba kuhle ukuthetha igama elilodwa ekhaya kodwa ungasebenzisi igama elifanayo kwivenkile yokutyela. Ngoko, ukuba ukhangele ukusebenzisa enye ingongoma yefuthe, qiniseka ukuba ukhuselekile ukusetyenziswa kuluntu.
Ukuba unyana wakho usele usebenzisa amagama ayeza kuthwala i-R-rating, yima ngokukhawuleza kwaye wenze konke okusemandleni akho ukungawunaki ukuziphatha kwintombazana yakho. Kuyakulingela ukuba wenze into enkulu ngokuchasana namagama okanye ukudala ilebula eyoyikisayo ("Leli gama elibi!"), Kodwa eli qho lisoloko lenza ingxaki ibe yimbi ngakumbi kwaye inika igama eliphosakeleyo ngokugqithiseleyo kumntwana wakho.
Iziqhamo ezingavumelekanga zithandeka kakhulu kulo mzekelo kwaye ukulungiswa kolwimi olufanelekileyo kunokuba luhambe ixesha elide ekutshintsheni ukuziphatha.
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Enye into ekufuneka uyiqwalasele yinkathalo yabantwana. Xa ndandithwala amaqela ezincinane, andizange ndidibanise ukusetyenziswa kwamagama. Abanye abantwana babeya kuthi bafuna ukuhamba. Abanye bacela ngokuphandle ukuba basebenzise indlu yokuhlambela. Enye intombazana yambiza ngokuthi "bum bum" kwaye yayisoloko ihleka iklasi kuba kungekho mntu wambi wabiza loo nto. Kwibala lokudlala kwaye ngexesha lokudlala abantwana babenandipha ukusetyenziswa kwanoma yiphi na amagama amatsha awamva (inxulumene nobumbanyo okanye ayikho), kodwa ndandisebenzisa nje ulwimi olufanayo kuyo yonke into.
Ndandisoloko ndithi "ngamanzi" esikhundleni se "indlu yangasese", kwaye ndandisoloko ndithi "ipee" kunye "ne-poop."
Kwincwadi yakhe ethi Girlfriend's Guide to Toddlers , uVicki Iovine uyayifumanisa kakuhle, esithi, "Kubuhle ukuba ufundise umntwana wakho ukuba acele umboneleli wakhe wokunyamekela ukuba unako ukuya kwindlu yokuhlambela ukuba angabikho (njengoko ndifungayo intombi yam ufundiswe ngumama ococekileyo) xa zonke ezinye iintsapho zixelelwa ukuba lixesha lokuhamba? Akunakukunceda kodwa kuba luncedo kubaqeqeshi bamanzi ukuba babelane ngolwimi oluthile lwamanzi. " Buza umboneleli wakho unakekelo lomntwana amagama asetshenzisiweyo kwizikole zasesikolweni kwaye ufake olo lwimi kwi-repertoire yakho yasekhaya.