Umntwana Wakho Akunakulungele Ukuqeqeshwa Kwamathambo
Yintoni omele uyenze xa ukuzama kwakho ukuqeqeshwa kwamanzi kungabonakali ukusebenza? Umntwana wakho angasebenzisa ibumbi xa umthabatha kuye ngexesha elide, kodwa akayi kulusebenzisa eyedwa. Endaweni yoko, unokumtshintsha apho ekhona kwaye akabonakali engqondweni. Uthi ukhule ukhungathekile xa ufuna ukumbamba yonke imini ukuze umthabise ebhodweni.
Yintoni omele uyenze?
Impendulo inokumangalisa. Oko kufuneka uyenze ukuyeka uqeqesho lwangasese. Oku akusiyo imbuyiselo, cingisisa ngathi kufana nokuthatha ikhefu. Isizathu sokuba umntwana wakho asebenzise le potty cishe ukuba akalungele ukuqhuba isitya samanzi.
Ukulungelelwa koPhulo
Ngaphambi kweenyanga ezili-18, abaninzi abaselula abanakho ukulawula umzimba kunye nokuchaswa ukulibazisa ngokukhawuleza ukuba bafike kwi-potty. Ukuba ubamba umntwana wakho ngexesha elifanelekileyo kwaye uyifake kwindlu yangasese, uya kuyisebenzisa, kodwa oko akuthethi ukuba ulungele ukufika ngexesha lakhe.
Kukho imiqondiso emininzi yokulungela ukuqeqesha zangasese kunye phakathi kwabo:
- Inomdla kunye nomnqweno : Oku kuthetha ukuba umntwana wakho ufuna ukuya ebhodweni kwaye akhathalele ukupenda xa engekho ebhodweni. Uyaqaphela ukuba yengozi kunokuba afuna ukwenza ntoni. Kufuneka akhulume ngamanzi kunye nokubuza imibuzo. Ufanele abonise ukufuna ukwazi ngezinto ezinobumba njengezindlu zangasese, zangaphantsi, iphepha langasese kunye nesiphatha.
- Ixesha elide loomisa : Oku kuthetha ukumnikezi ngokugqithiseleyo ukunyanzelisa umntwana wakho ukuba ahambe. Ukuba uhlala eyomile ngokwakhe kwiiyure ezimbini ukuya kweyesihlandlo, ke amandla akhe okunyuka, okwakubalulekile ukuqeqeshwa kwamanzi okuphumelelayo. Ngokungaziphoqeleli amanzi, lenza amathuba amaninzi okuphumelela kunye nethuba elingaphantsi lokungaphumeleli.
- Ukwazisa : Oku kuthetha ukuba uyazibona xa epholileyo okanye ekhwabanisa kuqala, kwaye kamva kwixesha uyazibona izibongozo eziza ngaphambi kokuba zimanzi okanye zimele zichaze. Kwakhona kufuneka akwazi ukudibanisa izibongozo kwisenzo kwaye akwazi ukuzithuthela kwindawo yokuhlambela emva kokuba enze uxhulumaniso. Ngokuqhelekileyo, ukuqonda akuvelwanga de kube ngumntwana oneminyaka eli-1 ubudala, kwaye ngelo xesha ufunda nokuhamba. Kodwa kusenokuba neenyanga ngaphambi kokuba ahlanganise kunye nesibongo sokuhamba, ukukwazi ukuhamba, kunye nezinye izakhono zokuchasana nokuphazamiseka, ukususa iimpahla zakhe, kunye nokuhlala ehleli ngamanzi.
Inkqubo yoQeqesho lweThutho
Ukuba uthatha inkqubo yokusebenzisa indlu yokuhlambela kwaye uyiphule phantsi kwamanyathelo amaninzi, unokubona ukuba kutheni ukuqeqeshwa kwamanzi kuyinkqubo yengqondo yomntwana osemntwaneni kwaye kutheni kuthatha ixesha kunye nokuzikhangela ukwenza ulawulo.
Ezinye iinkqubo zokuqeqeshwa kwamanzi okuqala zinomzali ojoliswe ngaphezu komntwana, njengengqeqesho yokuphuza abantwana , kwaye ufuna ukuba ubambe umntanakho ukuchama. Kodwa kubaninzi, kukulungele ukuthatha ikhefu kwaye ubuyele ekuqeqesheni kwamanzi xa umntanakho wengqondo kunye nomzimba wakho ulungele ukuthatha umsebenzi. Kuya kuba nzima kakhulu ukuba unokwazi ukulinda.
> Imithombo:
> Indlela Yokuxelela Xa Umntwana Wakho Ulungele. I-American Academy yePediatrics. https://www.healthychildren.org/English/ages-stages/toddler/toilet-training/Pages/How-to-Tell-When-Your-Child-is-Ready.aspx.
Ukulungelelwa kwengqondo kunye neZakhono zoMbane ezifunekayo kwiQoqo lokuQeqesha. I-American Academy yePediatrics. https://www.healthychildren.org/English/ages-stages/toddler/toilet-training/Pages/Psychological-Readiness-and-Motor-Skills-Needed-Toilet-Training.aspx.