Ukuqeqeshwa kwamathambo ngeengubo zangaphantsi mhlawumbi yeendlela ezininzi oza kuziva malunga namanye amama xa uceba lo msebenzi obalulekileyo. Abanye abazali bafungisa ngale ndlela esebenzayo (kodwa idle) xa abanye bekhetha indlela yokudonsa .
Yintoni esebenzayo kwaye into engayiyo xa kufikelele ekuqeqeshelweni kwamathambo kuphelele kuwe nakumntwana wakho. Sekunjalo, akusizi buhlungu ukuba ufunde malunga neenzuzo kunye neengxaki zokusebenzisa iingubo zangaphantsi ezahlukeneyo ngexesha lokuqeqeshwa kwamanzi .
Ngaphantsi kweengubo
Iinkonzo:
- Ixabiso
- Ukuhlaziywa
- Kulula ukuba umntwana akhuphe phezulu
- Ubunzima ngokwaneleyo ukuba umntwana uzizwa emanzi kwaye engcolileyo
- Okunye njengokuba abantu abadala bembatha
Umgcini:
- Ukuba umntwana unengozi, utshintsho olupheleleyo lwezambatho luhlala luyimfuneko
- Udala ezininzi zokuhlamba
- Ayikukhusela indawo xa ihamba kwimoto okanye ekuphumeni
Izindwangu zoQeqesho zengubo
Iinkonzo:
- Ukuhlaziywa
- Ingabizi ngaphezu kweengubo zangaphantsi, kodwa zingabizi ngaphantsi kweebhulukhwe zokuqeqeshwa ezilahlayo
- Ukhuni ngokwaneleyo ngamanye amaxesha ukukhusela iindawo, kodwa ungcini ngokwaneleyo ukuba umntwana uziva emanzi okanye engcolileyo
Umgcini:
- Ngamanye amaxesha alinelanga ngokwaneleyo ukukhusela iimpahla zangaphandle, ngoko utshintsho lwezambatho luyafuneka xa kwenzeka iingozi
- Udala ezininzi zokuhlamba
- Ngamanye amaxesha akayi kukhusela indawo xa ehamba ngemoto okanye ekuphumeni
- Ngaphantsi kweengubo zangaphantsi zabantu abadala
- Kunokuba nzima ukuba umntwana akhuphe phezulu
Iingxowa zokuqeqesha ezilahlayo (njengePull-Ups)
Iinkonzo:
- Khusela iimpahla zangaphandle xa zenzeke ingozi
- Ingaba yintshintsho enhle evela kwidrafer ukuba umntwana angakhathazeki ngeengubo zangaphantsi
- Ukulahlwa
- Akukho Lahla
- Ukhusela iindawo xa ehamba ngemoto okanye ekuphumeni
Umgcini:
- Ixabiso
- Kufuneka uye esitolo xa uphuma
- Umntwana kaninzi akaziva emanzi kwaye akaqondi kakuhle
- Uvakalelwa njenge-diaper, ngoko umntwana akanakuvakalelwa ukuba akukho mfahluko phakathi kokubekwa kwi-diapers kunye nokufunda kwi-potty
- Ngamanye amaxesha kunzima abantwana ukuba banyuke okanye baphume
- Akunjalo nakwimpahla yangaphantsi yabantu abadala
Unokukhetha enye indlela kuphela, edlalwa njalo ukuze ikhuthaze ukuvumelana kunye nokuphelisa ukudideka. Okanye, unokukhetha ukusebenzisa iingubo zangaphantsi emini kunye neentsuku zokuqeqeshwa ezilahlayo ebusuku okanye ngexesha le-naps, njengabazali abaninzi. Esi sicwangciso esihle kuba abantwana bafumana ukulawula ngexesha lokulala emva koko bahamba ngexesha lokuvuka.
Ekugqibeleni isigqibo siya kuwe. Umntwana ngamnye unesimo sakhe sengqondo, ngoko-ke akukho nto ingqinelana-ubukhulu becala-konke kuphuma apho. Ungesabi ukuzama indlela uze utshintshele kwenye xa umntu engasebenzi. Emva kokuba ufumanisa oko kusebenzayo, gcinana nayo, qhubeka uhamba nomonde. Omncinane wakho uya kuhamba "pee pee kwi potty" ngexesha!