Yintoni ongayenza xa i-kiddo yakho eqeqeshwe ngamanzi ephantse ihamba ngesiteyithi sezantsapho
Iimeko ziqhelekileyo. Uyenzile ngokusebenzisa i-hellacious, kodwa ekugqibeleni uyaphumelela, iveki ye-mopping up pee kwaye (ekugqibeleni) ukunikezela umvuzo xa uthe u-pee uthi ekugqibeleni uyenze ebhodweni. Unokugqiba lonke uhambo olujoliswe kuyo ngaphandle kokufuna ukutshintsha iingubo zomntwana wakho. Umntanakho ngokusemthethweni uqeqeshiwe ngamanzi.
Emva koko kukho into enkulu eyenzekayo: Inkulu nomkhulukazi bafika ukutyelela ngeveki; yakho kiddo uyagula; okanye utshintsho lomsebenzi weshedyuli lomama.
Ngokukhawuleza le ntliziyo entsha, ukugula, ukuqheleka, okanye ukungaqiniseki kunokukhawuleza ukuphazamisa isisindo sokutya kunye nokuthumela umntwana wakho onamandla entloko kwindawo yokubuyisela i-backslide.
Nantsi iindaba ezilungileyo: Awodwa. Iingcali ziyavuma ukuba ukuqeqeshwa kwamathambo okuqhelekileyo akuqhelekanga. Impendulo ingabangelwa kukutshintsha ubomi obunzima okanye uxinzelelo, okanye into elula njengengubo, uthe uWorkney Parchman, oqhuba isikolo sovuyo iMontessori kwisikolo saseChicago seHlathini Park.
"Ukuba umntwana wakho wayegqoke ibhulukhwe e-elastic estratiweyo ngexesha langasese, mhlawumbi banakho ukuwadonsa phezulu nangaphezulu xa kudingeke," kusho u-Parchman. "Ukuba baqala ukugqoka i jeans kunzima kunene umntwana ukuba asuse amabhulukwe ngexesha lakhe. Ngenxa yoko, banokuzithobela iingozi."
Indlela yabafundi bamakhredithi "yokufunda zangasese" kukufundisa abantwana ukuba "baphulaphule imiqondiso yabo imizimba yabo ibanika yona."
"Andiyikuvuza abantwana ngenxa yokusebenzisa i potty ngempumelelo - ngaphandle kokukhuthazwa ngamazwi - kuba ukuqonda kwabo ukufezekisa kubonelela ngokufanelekileyo," watsho.
Ngamanye amazwi, injongo kukuba baqhutywe kwangaphakathi kwaye abaxhaswa yimibandela yangaphandle, njengengqayi ye candy nanini na. "
Kodwa kubazali abaninzi abavuza okanye bafumbathise umntanana wabo kunye ne-candy okanye i-stickers emva kokuphumelela kwamanzi, ukuyeka inkqubo yokuvuza kungekudala kungabangela i-backslide, utshilo u-Ashley Hickey, onguchwepheshe wezakhono zobungcali kunye nomnikazi we-Potty Training, LLC.
Abanye abazali bathabatha inxalenye yomvuzo kwinqanaba elitsha ngokuphonsa iqela elincinci - elipheleleyo kunye nebala lokuhlambulula, izipho kunye nekhekhe - ukufumana uqeqesho lwabantwana abasemncinci kunye nokuhlamba.
UHickey uthe akakwazanga ukuphawula malunga nempumelelo yale maqela; nangona kunjalo, "ukuba umntwana ukhuthazwa kakhulu yiqela, ngoko umvuzo omkhulu wokufunda isakhono esitsha."
Ngoko ungayifumana njani ukufumana umntwana wakho osemva kwindlu yokuhlambela kunye nobumbulu?
Ukubambisana kubalulekile.
"Umnakekeli kufuneka ahambisane nomgaqo-nkqubo ukuze abuyele umntwana kwindlela," utshilo uParchman. "Ngokuqhelekileyo ndicebisa abazali ukuba balandele izikhokelo ezifanayo abazenzayo xa umntwana wabo eqala ukusebenzisa indlu yangasese."
Oku kuthetha ukuba kufuneka umelane nomnqweno wokufikelela kwi-diapers.
"[Ukubuyela emuva kwi-diapers] kuza kubangela ukuba inkqubo iqale kwakhona," kusho uHickey. "Ukuba uqala ukuyeka uqeqesho, kuya kudideka umntwana kwaye kuphazamise umzali."
Umxhasi uyavuma.
"Abahlayiyi abalahlayo bawuguqula ukuvalelwa komanzi kwaye umntwana akakwazi ukuziva umphumo wendalo kwaye ungakhululeki ukuba ube neengozi," watsho.
Mhlawumbi kubaluleke kakhulu, musa ukulinganisa ngokukhawuleza kwizingozi njengotyikitya lokuba umntwana wakho wayengakulungele ukuqeqeshwa ngamanzi .
Ukugqithisa kungumqolo omncinci, "u-Parchman uthe." Ukuba umntwana wakho wayesebenzisa ngempumelelo indlu yangasese ngaphambi kokukwazi, kwaye uya kwenza kwakhona. "
Ukuthatha amanyathelo ambalwa emva koqeqesho lobumbanyo kunokuziva ngathi uqala ukusuka kwisikwere esinye, kodwa ungakhathazeki. Gcina upholile kwaye ekugqibeleni, umntwana wakho oza kuphinda abuyele kumzila.