Ekhuselekileyo, Izindlela Ezinyanisekileyo Zokubamba Umntwana

Ukubamba umntwana ngumsebenzi "onjalo". Abantu abaninzi bathi banokubamba umntwana iintsana. Nangona oku kunjalo, kukho iindlela ezininzi ezahlukahlukeneyo zokwenza. Kukho amaxesha apho kufuneka uyenze ezinye izinto ngelo xesha. Udinga ukhetho kwiimeko ezahlukeneyo. Funda iindlela ezahlukeneyo ezikhuselekileyo zokubamba umntwana onokubonisa abanye ukuba uqinisekise ukuba umntwana wakho uhlale echanekileyo ngokufanelekileyo.

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I-Cradle Hold

Ukukhwela umntwana kuyinyani kwaye kulula. Faka intloko yomntwana kwintonga yesinye seengalo zakho kwaye ugobe enye ingalo yakho malunga nomntwana okanye ubambe ingalo yokuqala kunye nengalo yesibini. Esi sikhundla esihle sokuthetha nomntwana okanye ukumjonga. Abantwana abaninzi balele kakhulu kule ndawo. Kwakhona sikhundla esihle sokuqala, ngokukodwa kubantwana abancinci okanye kubantakwabo.

Oku kusetyenziselwa njengesimo sokuncelisa ngotata abaninzi. Kwakhona sikhundla esikhulu sokunxibelelana kwesikhumba kunye nesikhumba .

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IBelly Hold

Isisu sinobume obukhulu beintsana ezincinci . Faka isifuba somntwana phantsi kwesinye seziphambili zakho. Sebenzisa enye ingalo yakho ukuze ubeke umva kumntwana ukuze umgcine ngokukhuselekileyo. Unokwenza oku kwinqaba yakho okanye uyisebenzise ukuze ugqeke. Ukuthuthuzelwa kwesi sikhundla kuxhomekeke kwixesha lezandla zakho. Ukuhluka kukubeka isandla esisekelayo phakathi kwemilenze yomntwana ukuze kubekho ukukhusela okukhuselekileyo. Unokuphinda uqhube imilenze yakho encinci ukuze uncediswe uncedo kwi-gas relief.

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I-Hip Hold

Xa umntwana usenokuba nokulawula kakuhle kwentloko kunye nentamo, ibambelelo le-hip yindlela efanelekileyo yokuxhoba umntwana wakho. Hlalisa umntwana kwelinye lamathambo akho okugquma elibheke ngaphandle kwaye ugobe enye ingalo yecala ecaleni lesinqe somntwana. Le yindlela enhle yokuba umntwana akhangele ngeenxa zonke, kodwa ke kukunika isandla samahhala. Unokudibanisa oku kunye nokusetyenziswa kwesiringi okanye omnye umntwana ophetheyo.

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Ixhoba

Ibambe iqhosha lomnye uluntu lomntwana. Unqanda umntwana wakho ehlombe kunye nengalo yecala elifanayo, wimboze ngaphantsi kwayo. Sebenzisa enye ingalo ukuba ibambelele kumqolo wakhe kunye / okanye ukuxhasa intamo yakhe. Iintsana zilala kakuhle kule ndawo, nazo. Kwakhona kuvumela ukuba bakuve intliziyo yakho ibetha kwaye iphefumula. Esi sikhundla esihle malunga naluphi na ubudala. Njengoko umntwana ekhula, imfuneko yokuxhasa ingaphantsi.

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I-Sling Hold

Isalathisi sisisombululo esikhulu esikuvumela ukuba uthwale umntwana ongezandla. Ingane yakho inokutsalwa kwiindawo ezininzi, kubandakanywa nezikhundla zokunesi. Isalathisi sinceda kakhulu kubazali baninzi, njengoko kungacetyiswa ukuba kuthwale amabini okanye iintsana ezandleni zakho ngaphandle kokusebenzisa into enjenge-sling, ukwesaba ukuba ungawa.

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Beka izikhokelo zokubamba umntwana wakho

Unokwenza isigqibo malunga nemithetho yokhuseleko ejikeleze ngubani onokubamba umntwana wakho nento oyifunayo. Ngaba uvumela abantu abangabaziyo ukuba bambambe? Uneminyaka engakanani abantwana kufuneka babe nayo ngaphambi kokuba babambe umntwana wakho? Ngaba ufanele wenze abantu bahlambe izandla kuqala? Kuthiwani ngabantakwabo? Imithetho yakho ingaquka:

• Ukuhlamba izandla ngaphambi kokuba ubambe umntwana
• Akukho kubamba umntwana emele
• Akukho ubambe umntwana xa ugula
• Ukubamba iintsana enye ngexesha (ngamawele)
• Ukungabambeli umntwana ngaphandle komntu omdala okhoyo (kubantakwabo abadala)

Igama elivela kwi-Verywell

Ukubamba umntwana kungokwemvelo, kodwa abo abangaqhelani nayo bangadinga ukulungiswa kakuhle ukuba benze ngokukhuselekileyo. Thatha ixesha lokubonisa abantwana bakho, iqabane kunye nabahlobo iindlela ezichanekileyo zokuzala umntwana wakho.