Ngaba akuyi kuba yinto emangalisayo ukugubha kufuphi nomntwana wakho kwaye usenokukwazi ukwenza izinto zifezeke ngezandla zombini? Abazali abaninzi baye bafumanisa ukuba ukubethelwa komntwana kubancedisa ukwenza oko. Ngokunyuka ekuthandweni kobantwana, kubalulekile ukuba uqiniseke ukuba uthwala umntwana wakho ngokuchanekileyo. Iimpawu zokugcina abantwana ezikhuselekileyo zigcina umntwana ukhuselekile kwaye abazali bakhululekile kwaye bayonwabile.
Ngezantsi uzakufumana imithetho yokukhusela umntwana okhuselekileyo.
Okokuqala, yintoni inzala? Ukubeleka umntwana kuye kwadlula ixesha elide kubakho iintsana. Abazali basebenzise into ethile-isalathisi, ingcezu yengubo okanye isithinteli esikhethwe ngokukhethekileyo ukuze unamathele umntwana (okanye encinci) kubo ukuze bangenasandla. Abantu abaninzi badibanisa umfanekiso womama osebenza nomntwana emva kwakhe xa becinga ngetye. Ngoxa le nto ikhona, ukuzala abantwana kubandakanya ezinye izithuthi zanamhlanje ezikhoyo kwibhokisi enkulu ebantwaneni. Ukwazi imithetho yokukhusela umntwana okhuselekileyo kuthetha ukuba unokukhetha umntwana ophethe umntwana onokufanelana nawe nomntwana wakho.
Umntwana Ungabonakali
Lo ngumgaqo obalulekileyo kubantwana. Ukuqinisekisa ukuba unokubona umntwana ngexesha lonke ugcina umntwana wakho ekhuselekileyo. Uya kukwazi ukuba umntwana wakho unesidingo kwaye uyakwazi ukuphendula iimfuno zakho zomntwana ngokufanelekileyo. Kufuneka ukwazi ukubona umntwana wakho kwaye ujonge rhoqo.
Ukuba usebenzisa umthutha onentsana yakho ngasemva kwakho, lo mgaqo uthetha ukuba indwangu ayifuni intloko yengane yakho kwaye unokwakheka kwisibuko okanye omnye umntu abone ubuso bomntwana wakho. Ngaphandle-ngubani ongeke afune ukukhangela phantsi aze abone ubuso obumnandi bomntwana obubuhlungu kuwe?
Ingane i-Ribcage
Uhlobo oluyingozi kakhulu lwe-sling "yi-sling sling".
Akuzange nje kuphela ukuba la maqhekeza aphule umgaqo wokuqala ngokugubungela ubuso bomntwana, bavame ukuphula umthetho wesibili: umntwana wakho ufuna ukuphumla kwi-ribcage yakho. Oko kuthetha ukuba ukubethela kwakho akulinyanga phantsi okhalweni lwakho. Umthwalo omhle, ophezulu (mhlawumbi phambi kwakho okanye emhlane wakho) ukhululekile ngakumbi kumntu ogqoke umntwana. Abanye abantu bathanda ukubiza lo mgaqo "umntwana ubangelwa". I-sling ifuna ukulungelelaniswa ukuze ivumelane nomnakekeli, makube ngumkhulu ngamnye kumncedisi ngamnye okanye zombini. Ukuba i-sling yakho ayilungiswanga ngosayizi, ungadinga ngaphezu kwesinye slingathi ukuba wena kunye nomnye umntu uceba ukumbatha umntwana wakho.
Ingane Ingumntu
Lo mgaqo ungabonakala ungabalulekanga, kodwa xa ubona indlela oku kusebenza ngayo uya kuqonda ukuba kutheni sitsho umntwana kufuneka abe ngamehlo. Ukuvumela umntwana ukuba ahlale kwindawo yokulala, unokusondeza isisu somntwana kakhulu. Ukukhupha i-chin's baby close close to their chest kungakwazi ukuphazamisa indlela yabo yokuhamba. Ukuba nomntwana othe tye uvumela umntwana ukuba ahlale echanekileyo ukuze umntwana aphefumle ngokukhululekile. Lo mgaqo unenzuzo yokuvumela umntwana ukuba abe nehlabathi elibangqongileyo: iintsana zifunda ezininzi ngehlabathi ngaphakathi kwizithuthi zabo!
I-Hips yaseBantwana iyakhathazeka
I-pelvis yengane isasakhulayo ngexesha leminyaka embalwa yokuqala.
Amathambo athambileyo kunye nemigqomo evulekileyo yenza ukuba bafumaneke ngakumbi kwiimeko ezibizwa ngokuba yi-hip dysplasia. I-Hip dysplasia iyenzeka xa ibhola kunye nomxube wezandla eziqhekezayo zingekho. Ngenxa yokuba iminyango yabantwana iguquguquke, kubalulekile ukuba sikhusele i-pelvis yengane xa sithwala. Gwema abathwali abathintela imilenze yomntwana ngokuthe ngqo okanye obambezela umntwana ngecala. Umntwana wakho othintela umntwana kufuneka avumele umntwana ukuba ahlale kumphathi kunye nenkxaso yamathanga akho emntwaneni. Xa ubeke ngokuchanekileyo, amadolo akho umntwana uya kuhambelana kunye okanye aphezulu kunamajoyina ayo. Abanye abathwali abatsha banokuze banike umtya weenyawo ukunciphisa uxinzelelo kwi-pelvis yengane.
Ingane yakho iya kubonakala njengomqhubi we-sumo okanye umntwana we-koala kwi-carrier yabo. Baya kuba bekhululekile ngakumbi kulolu hlobo lokubetha.
I-Babywearing yindlela enhle yokugcina abazali baxhamle kwaye bancede ukunciphisa inani lexesha abantwana bekhala .