Uninzi lwabanamhlanje banomdla ongenzi. Kunoko, baxakeke kwimidlalo okanye kwezinye izinto emva kwemisebenzi yesikolo , okanye baye bafihla izindwangu zabo kwi-electronics. Abazali abaninzi banzima ukufumana ixesha elifanelekileyo kunye .
Ndandisandul 'ukuthetha noAJ Hamler, umbhali weencwadi ezininzi zokubumba, kuquka incwadana yakhe yakutshanje, "Yakhele noTata." Nangona ezinye zeeprojekthi zijoliswe kubantwana abancinci, ezininzi zazo zifanelekile kubaselula.
Enye yeencwadi zakhe, "ii-Birdhouses & More," inikeza imiyalelo yeendidi ezahlukeneyo zabazali kunye nentsha engayakha ndawonye.
Ndambuza uHamler imibuzo embalwa malunga nendlela abazali abanokuqalisa ngayo kwiiprojekthi zokhuni kunye nentsha yabo. Nazi iimbuzo zam kunye nezimpendulo zakhe:
Ziziphi ezinye zeenzuzo zabazali kunye nentombazana esebenzisana ndawonye kwiiprojekthi zokhuni?
Ngokuqinisekileyo nayiphi na into eyenziwa ngabazali kunye nentsha eyenza kunye yinto elungileyo - ukuhamba, ukuhamba, umdlalo olwabelwana ngawo, nantoni na emibini iyonwabile kwaye inokunceda ukwakha okanye ukuqinisa ubudlelwane . Nangona kunjalo, imisebenzi eyenza into ehlala ihlawula iindleko emva kokuba umsebenzi uphelile.
Iprojekti eyenziwe ngamaplanga, ingakumbi eyiluncedo efana nedesk, ibhasiksi, ukuma komculo okanye nantoni na enjalo iya kusetyenziswa iminyaka emininzi. Njalo xa zisetyenziselwa kunokukhupha iinkumbulo neemvakalelo zexesha elichithwe ngokusebenzisana kunye neprojekthi.
Ngokomzekelo, iminyaka emininzi edlulileyo ubaba (umthi owenziwe ngumthi ngokwakhe) kwaye ndawunqumla umthi omkhulu we-cherry owawa phantsi kwipropati yakhe. Sisonke siyinqumle, siyifake, siyilayishe isigxina sayo emotweni yam. Wayegcina esinye isiqingatha.
Ngoku, ukusika iinkuni mhlawumbi kusezintanyeni zento oza kubeka ngayo "njengeprojekthi eyenziwe ngamaplanga," kodwa thina zombini sasebenzisa iiplanga esizidibene kunye ngaloo mini ukwakha ezinye iiprojekthi.
Ubawo sele sele ehamba phantse unyaka ngoku, kodwa ndisenayo enye ye-cherry yashiya kwisitolo sam, kunye nezinto ezininzi endizenzayo kuyo. Njalo xa ndiyibona okanye enye yale projekthi endiyenzile nayo, ndicinga ngaye.
Ziziphi iintlobo zeeprojekthi ezinokubambisana kunye nomntwana kunye nentombazana?
Impendulo elula kukuba, nantoni na. Nangona kunjalo, le projekthi kufuneka ifaniswe, ukuba kunokwenzeka, kwinqanaba lamava elivisayo. Iiprojekthi eziphambili zizenzeke ngokukhawuleza, njengedesiki okanye ibhokisi lokubhengezayo endikhankanywe ngaphambili, kodwa nayiphi na iphrojekthi edidekayo yokwenza yinto ekhethekileyo.
Ukuba kuyinto into eyenziwa ngumntwana okanye ifuna, kodwa ayinabo bonke izakhono, umzali unokusingatha nantoni na eyinkimbinkimbi kwaye ushiye amaqela afana namava asemva kubo. Ngomqondiso ofanayo, umzali ophethe iingxenye eziyinkimbinkimbi zeprojekthi yithuba eligqibeleleyo lokufundisa izakhono ezintsha kumntwana ngomzekelo.
Luhlobo luni lwekhwalithi lokusebenza ngamaplanga kufuneka umzali abe nalo?
Kucacile ukuba, ukuba umzali ungumfundi onobuchule ngokobuchule ngokohlobo kunye nobubanzi beeprojekthi zibaninzi, kodwa umzali akadingeki ukuba abe nesakhono esiphezulu (okanye uqoqo olubanzi lwezixhobo) ukwakha iiprojekthi ezintle ngokulandela izicwangciso ezilula zokufumana izinto ezinokubonakala zilukhuni, kodwa zinyani.
Ngokomzekelo, ndakhela itafile yepikiniki eya kubonakaliswa njengeprojekti yokukhupha umagazini we-woodworking. Itafile ibonakala imangalisa - kwaye, ekuboneni kuqala, kunzima ukuyenza - kodwa akunjalo. Nangona ndayifake kwisitokhwe sinezixhobo zonke zomthi kunye nomatshini onokucinga, awufuni ngokwenene nayiphi na loo nto ukusuka etafileni ngokwayo ayifuni ukuba kulungelelaniso okanye iinkqubo zokwenza.
Nangona ndasebenzisa oomatshini bam esitolo ukuze ndiyakhe, nabani na oya kulandela izicwangciso kwaye akwenze kunye nezixhobo zombini eziqhelekileyo esele zinezo: i-drill / umqhubi kunye nesetyhula ephethe ngesandla.
Akukho zakhono ezibanzi ezifunekayo kuzo zonke, kodwa iziphumo ziyamangalisa.
Luhlobo luni lendawo efunekayo? Ngaba abazali badinga igaraji okanye ivenkile?
Indawo yothengisa kakhulu xa unayo, kodwa yonke into oyifunayo imfuneko yecandelo elincinci. Isixa sendawo efunekayo kuxhomekeke kwiprojekthi, okwenyani - unokwakha izindlu zeentaka egumbini lokudlela, umzekelo. Kwiprojekthi enkulu, ipatio okanye i-driveway ngokwenene uyifunayo. Misa i-sawhorses encinci naphi na, kwaye unayo "ivenkile" esheshayo.
Iiprojekthi ezisemgangathweni zeplanga, yiziphi iintlobo zezixhobo kunye nezinto eziyimfuneko eziyimfuneko? Abazali bangazithenga phi ezo zinto?
Izixhobo ezisisiseko ezifunekayo kwiiprojekthi ezilula zibandakanya abo bantu abaninzi banokuhlala benesiseko okanye igaraji. Kwiiprojekthi ezininzi ezisisiseko izixhobo zokubambisa oza kuzifuna zibandakanya i-hammer, i-screwdriver (i-Phillips kunye ne-flat blade-blade), i-handsaw, i-square, i-tape measure, i-chisel kunye ne-assortment ye-sandpaper. Izixhobo ezisisiseko zamandla ziza kubandakanya umqhubi / umqhubi onomtshini we-bits, amandla amancinane abonwa njengetyhula okanye i-jigsaw, kunye ne-sander.
Ndibetha ukuba i-95% yeeprojekthi ezisisiseko onokucinga ngazo zinokuthi zenziwe ngetekiti yecandelo endiyichazile, kubandakanywa netafile yepikiniki endiyibonile ngaphambili. Izinto ezifunekayo ukwenza iiprojekthi eziphambili kufuneka ukhangele ngaphaya kweziko lakho lasekhaya. Akukho projekthi eyisiseko engenakwakhiwa ngokukhawuleza, kwaye mhlawumbi engabizi, uhambo oluya kwi-Lowe okanye kwi-Home Depot.
Ziziphi iimeko zokhuseleko abazali abafanele bazigcine engqondweni?
Ukusetyenziswa kwezinto ezifanelekileyo kubandakanya ukusebenzisa izinto ezibukhali, ngoko ke zonke izicwangciso ezifanelekileyo zokuphepha ukukhawulwa kufuneka zigcinwe. Ngaphandle koko, ndikholelwa ngokupheleleyo kwizinto ezintathu ezikhuselekileyo zokhuseleko ezihlala zihlala zihlala zigcinwa phezu kwazo zonke ezinye.
Iyokuqala ukukhuselwa kwamehlo. Ungalokothi usebenze nezixhobo ngaphandle kokugqoka ukukhusela kwamehlo enjani. Ingaba iziglasi zokukhusela okanye izigulane, okanye zidibanise neziglasi zamaziko eziqhelekileyo. (Ndiyifuna iiglasi, ngoko ndihlala ndifumana ii-lens eziphazamisayo.) Iiglasi zokukhusela zilula, zingabonakali, zilula ukugqoka kwaye zingabizi kakhulu. Zithenge kwaye uzigqoke.
Into yesibili kukuba awufanele uzame ukwenza nantoni na eyenza uzive nangayiphi na into engakhululekiyo. Ukuba awuqinisekanga, ungenzi. Ukuba ungacingi ukuba unokufikelela, ungazami. Ukuba unomdla usebenzisa ithuluzi elithile lomsebenzi othile, ungenzi. Ukuba into oyenzayo yenza ukuba ungakhathazeki okanye mhlawumbi "awuve ulungile," yima. Ubuhle bokhuni kukuba kukho iindlela ezininzi zokwenza umsebenzi okanye inkqubo. Ukuba umntu akwenza ungakhathazeki, sebenzisa enye. Kungathabatha ixesha elide, kodwa lihlala likhuselekile.
Kule mizila efanayo, qaphela intetho yakho yentuthuzelo yengane. Uyazi abantwana bakho, uyazi iimvakalelo zabo, uyazi xa kukho into ebakhathazayo. Ukuba uvakalelwa nayiphi na into engeyiyo inxalenye okanye ngaba ingaqinisekanga malunga nenkqubo abazama ngayo okanye isixhobo abasebenzisayo - ingakumbi ithuluzi lamandla - yeka. Fumana enye indlela, okanye mhlawumbi uyenze ngesixhobo okanye inkqubo kwimiba ethile yeenkuni aze akhululeke ngayo. Okanye kulezo zintlobo zezinto, melana nje nomsebenzi ngokwakho. Iiprojekthi zinamalungu amaninzi kunye namanyathelo okugqiba ukwenzela ukuba kukho izinto ezininzi ozozenza kuzo zombini.
Okokugqibela, ungaze usebenze xa ukhathele okanye udidekile. Kancinci kubangela iziphene kunye neeposiso; kwiyona nto ingakhokelela kwiingozi okanye ukulimala. Kwakhona, uyazi abantwana bakho. Ukuba babonakala bekhathele, benobuhlungu, okanye bafana nezinye izinto bezingqondweni zabo, bayeke ukusebenza kwaye babuyele kule projekthi kamva. Akukho ndawo.
Ngaba unalo naziphi na iingcebiso kubazali malunga nendlela yokusebenza kunye kwiprojekthi ngokuhamba kakuhle?
Indlela efanelekileyo yokwenza oko kukuqinisekisa ukuba bobabini kwiphepha elifanayo malunga neprojekthi. Kufuneka kusebenze kwaye ngaphakathi kwinqanaba lobuchule ubuncinane omnye wenu, okanye aluyi kuhamba ngokufanelekileyo. Oko kuthetha ukuba akufanele uguqulwe ngokuzama iprojekthi ngaphaya kwezakhono zakho okanye izixhobo.
Iprojekthi ecelomngeni ilungile, kodwa iinjongo zakho kufuneka zifezeke. Ukuba le projekthi idinga izakhono okanye iinkqubo ongenalo - okanye awukwazi ukufunda ngokulula njengenxalenye yeprojekthi - akukho mntu uya kuba nexesha elifanelekileyo.
Funda kwaye uqonde izicwangciso ukususela ekuqaleni ukuya ekupheleni ngaphambi kokuba uqale. Qinisekisa ukuba unayo yonke into oyifunayo ngendlela yezixhobo, izinto eziphathekayo, i-hardware, njl, ngaphambi kokuba uqale. Akukho nto idityanisela iphrojekthi ngokukhawuleza kunokumisa ukufa phakathi kweli xesha ulibeke eceleni kwaye ufanele ungene emotweni uze uye ukuyothenga into ethile - kungekhona nje kuphela inzondelelo yokunciphisa kokubili, kodwa unokufumana ngokukhawuleza ixesha elinganeleyo lokwenza umsebenzi ofanelekileyo.
Ngaloo mizila, qiniseka ukuba ubeke eceleni ixesha elaneleyo le projekthi - iprojekthi eqhutywe, kungakhathaliseki ukuba kulula kangakanani, ayiyi kuhamba kakuhle. Ukuba nebhokisi elaneleyo lexesha elinikezelwe kwiprojekthi linceda ukuphepha ukuphazamiseka nokuphazamiseka. Uphinde uhlaziywe inxalenye yenkqubo yokukhusela, ungalokothi usebenze xa udiniwe, ukhungathekile, ungaqiniseki okanye uxakeke ngenye into.