Ngaba wakho oneminyaka eli-10 ubudala uya kulahlwa ukuhlala ngonaphakade? Mhlawumbi hayi!
Ngomdlalo ophezulu wokuncintisana oqhubekayo ukusasazeka kubantwana abancinci, kulula ukuziva ngathi nantoni na eyadlulileyo kwiminyaka emi-5 "imva kakhulu" ukuba umntwana aqale umdlalo. Ingaba kukho ingcamango efanelekileyo okanye ayikho, abantwana bayadlala ngokukhuphisanayo kwiminyaka emncinci kakhulu, kwaye bakhethe imidlalo emnye ukuba ikhetheke ngaphambili ngaphambili. Ngaba umntanakho unokuphumelela nje nge-bloom late? Ngaba unokuyonwaba xa iqela lakhe lidlala ixesha elide kwaye uqala nje?
Kukho ixesha lokuqalisa iMidlalo emitsha
Ukuba umntwana wakho ufuna nje ukuzama imidlalo emitsha, okanye ukudlala ukuze ujabule , akukaze kuphele. Emva koko, ukuzama yindlela esiyifumana ngayo into esiyithandayo. Ukuncedisa umntwana wakho ukudibanisa nomsebenzi okwenzakalayo kubaluleke kakhulu, ngenxa yempilo yakhe yonke, kunokumfumana kwiqela eliphezulu okanye ukumfumana i-college scholarship. Ukuba le yimeko yomntwana wakho, khangela iinkqubo zokufundisa (ukukhuphisana), iiklasi, okanye iilgiag. Unokuqesha umfundi wesikolo esiphakamileyo ukuba anikeze isifundo somntu ngamnye okanye esincinci, ukuze unike umntanakho umdlalo wezemidlalo afuna ukwazi ngawo.
Ngakolunye uhlangothi: Ingaba umntwana wakho uphononongo kwindawo ethile kwiqela elithandwayo kwibhola lebhola , ibhola lebhoksi, i-gymnastics okanye i- baseball ? Kwimeko apho, ukuqala le midlalo okokuqala ngethuba eli-12 ubudala, okanye 10, okanye mhlawumbi ngo-8 kunokukhawuleza, kuxhomekeke kwizinto ezikhethiweyo ezikuloo ndawo.
Umntwana osebenza nzima, unomdla, kwaye unetalente yemvelo yomdlalo usenokukwazi ukuphakama kwiinqanaba. Kodwa kunokuba yinto ecelomngeni kunye neyobuhlungu. Ingaba ngokuzikhethela okanye kungenjalo, abaqeqeshi kunye nabalingani beqela bahlala bevuza abadlali abaqala kusasa baze baxhomekeke kuncinci.
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Ukuqala ekuqaleni akuqinisekisi ukuba yimpumelelo, kwaye ukuqala ngokukhawuleza akuthinteli.
Kukho amanyathelo ongawathathayo ukuphucula amava omntwana wakho xa eqala ukuqala kwimidlalo. Ukuba ukudlala kwinqanaba elinqwenelekayo liphupha lakhe, unokucinga ngemidlalo ethandwa kakhulu, njengegalufa, ukugubha, okanye ukuhamba komhlaba (nangona amanqanaba okuthandwa kunye neemfuno zihluka ukusuka kwenye indawo ukuya kolunye). Okanye, khangela umdlalo apho angakwazi ukukhuphisana naye kunokuba abe neqonga lakhe kwiqela, njengezobugcisa be-kartial okanye i- skating skating . Emva kokuba sele enomdla wezemidlalo kwaye uyazi ukuba uyayithanda, umqeqeshi wabucala unokunceda, okanye kubalulekile.
Ngaphambi kokuba umntwana wakho oqala emva kokuzibandakanya okanye azame kwiqela, abe nomxholo ogqityiweyo malunga noko angalindela ukufumana. Ngokudabukisayo, abanye abantwana banokuba banamkelekanga , okanye banoyikwesaba, kumntu omtsha. Kuyadabukisa ukuba abazali nabaqeqeshi bavumela le ndlela yokuziphatha, kodwa ukulungiselela kwangaphambili kunokunceda umntwana wakho aphendule. Zama ukudlala-nxaxheba kunye nezinye "zithini ukuba ..." zixoxa. Ukuba umntwana wakho unomhlobo osele liqela, oko kunokunceda. Yaye ukuba unyulo lwabaqeqeshi, amaqela, okanye iilgiag, khangela enye igxininisa uphuhliso lwezakhono kunye nemidlalo kunokuba uzuze kuzo zonke iindleko.
Xa umntwana wakho eqala ukudlala umdlalo wakhe omtsha, khuthaza ukuzithemba kwakhe ngokumdumisa ngenxa yomsebenzi wakhe onzima nobukroti.
Mnike nge-coaching eyongezelelweyo kwaye usebenzise ixesha xa unako. Ugxininisa umgudu wakhe kunye nokuzimisela ngaphezu kwamaphuzu athatywayo okanye iziphumo eziphunyeziweyo. Mncede ukulawula ukudumala ngobubele, uze ucele uncedo lomqeqeshi ukuba uyayidinga. Yenza okusemandleni akho ukumnceda ukuba aphumelele , aze amvumele ukuthanda kwakhe imidlalo akhethiweyo isebenze umlingo. Inhlanhla kuwe kunye nomdlali wakho!