Indlela yokwakha izakhono zoluntu kunokunceda abantwana baphephe ukujoliswa koxhatshazo
Umntwana wakho akafanele adume ukuba abe nolwazi olunzulu loluntu. Kodwa ukuba nezakhono zentlalo ezintle ziyakwenza okuninzi ukuphucula ubomi bakho bentsha. Akayi kukwazi ukuzithemba kwaye uxhumeke kwabanye, ukukwazi ukuthetha iingcamango neemvakalelo kubalulekile kubomi bokuphila. Ngaphezu koko, izakhono zentlalo nazo zikhusela ukuxhatshazwa.
Izakhono zentlalo ezinamandla nazo zinceda intsha ziziva zikhululekile ukujongana neemeko ezinzima, kuquka ukuxhatshazwa .
Kwakhona akunakwenzeka ukuba batshabise abanye, kuba banokuhamba ngeemeko ezinzima ngaphandle kokusongela, ukuxhaphaza kunye nezinye iindlela zokuxhaphaza. Ngaphezu koko, uphando ludibanise izakhono zentlalo ezinamandla ngokuphumelela kwezemfundo. Izakhono zentlalo nazo zinokuchaphazela ikhondo elizayo lemfundo kunye nolwalamano lwakhe. Khumbula ke, kuba abanye abantwana abaphuhlisa izakhono zentlalo kuthatha ixesha kunye nesilingo kunye nephutha. Yiba nesineke kwaye ungalindeli utshintsho olukhawulezayo. Nazi izicwangciso ezisixhenxe zokuphucula izakhono zentlalo yoluntu.
Ukwakha Ukuzimela
Ukuzithemba okunzulu kuyingcambu yobungcali bentlalo yoluntu. Ukuba abantwana abanakho ukuzithemba, kunzima kubo ukuthatha ingozi efunekayo ekuphuhliseni izakhono zentlalo ezinamandla. Qala ngokuphuhlisa ukuzithemba komntwana wakho. Yenza konke okusemandleni akho ukuqinisekisa ukuba abantwana bakho bayakwazi ukubona amandla abo kunye nobuthathaka babo kwaye bazive kakuhle ngabo. Khumbula, ukuzithemba kukukhusela ukuxhatshazwa.
Abantwana abanako ukukhetha abo bazithembayo kwaye balawula.
Ubuhlobo Bobuhlobo
Ubuhlobo obunempilo buyinto enye yokukhusela xa kuxhatshazwa. Enyanisweni, nokuba ngumhlobo omnye unokuhamba ngendlela ende ekukhuseleni umntwana wakho. Abaxhatshazi banako ukujongana nabantwana abanomhlobo.
Ngoko, kulungile ukuba uncede umntwana wakho ahlakulele ubuhlobo, ngakumbi ngokusemncinane. Ukwenza oku, hlela ixesha kunye nabahlobo babo. Yibandakanyeke kwimisebenzi yangaphandle kwaye uthethe malunga nokuba yintoni ubuhlobo obuhle.
Fundisa Ukuqinisekiswa
Yikholwa okanye akunjalo, ukuxhomekeka kuyinto ebalulekileyo yokomeleza uluntu. Xa abantwana bengahambi kakuhle okanye bavumelaniswe, baya kugqiba ukuxhatshazwa okanye baxhatshazwa. Kuthetha ukuba intombazana ikhangele abanye abangabonakaliyo. Fundisa abantwana bakho ukuba bachaze iingcamango zabo neemvakalelo zabo. Kwakhona kufuneka baqonde ukuba kufanelekile ukuma amalungelo abo ngokukodwa xa kuthethwa ukuxhatshazwa, ubudlova, ubudlelwane be- cyberbullying , ukuxhatshazwa ngokwesini kunye nezinye izinto ezihlaselayo.
Yenza Ukuhlonipha
Abantwana kufuneka bafundiswe ukuba wonke umntu ufanelwe intlonelo kwaye wonke umntu unokuxabisa. Xa beqaphela oku, abaxhomekekanga nje ukuba baxhaphaze abanye kodwa banokuthi banokumelana nokuziphatha kakubi. Ngaphezu koko, abantwana kufuneka baqaphele ukuba ukuba abahlobo babo ababaphathisi ngokuhlonela, ngoko abahlobo babo baxhalaba. Ukuxinezeleka kubantwana bakho ukuba wonke umntu ufanele uhlonipheke, kuquka nabo. Abafanelekanga ukugcina ubudlelwane nabantu abangahloneliyo.
Ukuhlakulela ukulungelelanisa
Abantwana baya kudibana nokuxhatshazwa kunye neengxabano kubo bonke ubomi babo. Ukufundisa indlela yokujongana nemiba kunye neengxaki ngaphandle kokuvumela ukuba zibachaphazele ubuchule bokuphila obalulekileyo. Ukulungelelanisa kunceda abantwana banxamnye nefuthe lokuxhatshazwa . Ngaphezu koko, abantwana abanomdla banokunyaniseka malunga neemvakalelo zabo baze bathethe indlela abavakalelwa ngayo kwabanye. Kwakhona kubancedisa ukuba banyamezele xa bexhatshazwa okanye bejongene nobunzima.
U velwano
Abantwana abathandanayo badla abantwana abanezakhono zentlalo. Xa abantwana beva novelwano ngabanye, baxhomekeke kwinto abanye abavakalelwa ngayo kwaye bahlala bexhalabisa kwaye baxhalabele.
Ukuze ufundise abantwana bakho inceba , qiniseka ukuba ulandelelanisa ukuziphatha ekhaya. Ngokomzekelo, xa ubona imeko yokuxhaphaza, cela umntwana wakho ukuba umntu onokuziva njani. Ukuba unzima ukukuxelela, mkhuthaze ngeengcamango ezithile. Kwakhona, bonise ukukhathalela kunye nokukhathalela abanye ngokunikela kwabampofu, ukuzithandela ekutheni ukutya kunye nokuthatha inxaxheba kwezinye izinto zokunceda.
Yenza Ingxaki yokuSombulula
Mhlawumbi inxalenye ebaluleke kakhulu yokwakha izakhono zentlalo kuphuhlisa amandla omntwana wokulungisa iingxaki ngendlela ephilileyo. Ukwenza oku kufuna ukuba abantwana bakho bazi indlela yokujonga iimvakalelo zabo nokulawula iimpembelelo zabo. Xa ezi zinto zimbini zingekho, abantwana bangenenkathazo ngokuphathelele kwabanye. Kananjalo, kunika izixhobo zomntwana ukuxazulula iingxabano ezifana nokufunda ukusebenzisana kunye nokulindela imiphumo.
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Khumbula, ukwakha izakhono zentlalo ezinamandla kubantwana bakho kuya kubakhusela ekukhuseleni esikolweni. Abayi kuba kuphela ukukwazi ukunxibelelana nabanye abafundi baze benze abahlobo, kodwa nabo banokuthi banokuzithemba kunye nesibindi sokuxelela umntu onokuxhaphaza ukuba ayeke ukuba ngaba sele ejoliswe.