Funda kabanzi malunga nokuxhatshazwa ngokwesondo
Ukuxhatshazwa ngokwesondo kuyindlela yokuxhatshazwa okuqhelekileyo phakathi kwabafundi kunye nentsha. Lo mkhuba uvela xa umntu okanye iqela labantu bahlupha abanye ngokusebenzisa izimvo kunye nezenzo ezithathwa ngokwesondo. Ngaphezu koko, ukuxhatshazwa ngokwesondo kungafumaneka kwi-inthanethi okanye kumntu.
Umntu ophakathi okanye osemtsha ekupheleni kokuthotyelwa koxhatshazo ngokwesondo kunokwenzeka ukuba ahlutywe, ahlekisiwe, ahlaziye, ahlasekwe, aqhubekwe nge-cyberbullied , angayityesheli, alahlekelwe , ahlaziswe kwaye asongelwe.
Ngokungafani nokuxhatshazwa ngokwenyama, ukuxhatshazwa ngokwesini kunokuba nzima ukuyijonga kuba ayisoloko imshiya uphawu olubonakalayo.
Ukuxhatshazwa ngokwesondo kufuthi kwenzeka ntoni xa kungekho bantu abadala. Ngenxa yoko, kubaluleke kakhulu ukuba abazali bathethe rhoqo kunye nezingane zabo ngokuxhatshazwa ngokwesini kunye nophuhliso olufanelekileyo lwezesondo. Ukuba ucinga ukuba umntwana wakho unokuba sisisulu sokuxhashazwa ngokwesondo, unike umntwana wakho ithuba lokuthetha nawe malunga nemeko.
Imizekelo yokuxhaphazwa ngokwesondo
Imifanekiso yesondo, amahlaya, ulwimi, kunye nezimvo zibizwa ngokungalunganga ngesizathu. Ngenxa yoko, ukuba luhlobo lwesondo kwaye lujolise ekujoliswe kuyo, lukhuni, luhlazo okanye luloyiko, ngoko kukuxhatshazwa ngokwesini okanye ukuxhatshazwa. Ukuxhatshazwa ngokwesondo kunokubandakanya ezi zenzo kunye namazwana alandelayo:
- Ukwenza amahlaya ngokwesini somntu
- Ukwenza ukuziphatha ngokwesini kumntu
- Ukwenza izimvo malunga nokhetho lomntu wesondo okanye umsebenzi wesondo
- Ukubiza umntu othiwa ngesondo kunye namagama angcolileyo
- Ukuthintela, ukubamba okanye ukumbamba umntu ngendlela yokuziphatha ngokwesondo
- Ukubamba ingubo yomntu okanye ukuxubha ngokumelene nabo ngendlela yesondo
- Ukusasaza ngeentlobano zesini okanye ukuhleba kumntu, ngokubhaliweyo okanye kwi-intanethi
- Ukuthumela izimvo zesondo, imifanekiso okanye iividiyo kumaziko ezentlalo zoluntu ezifana ne-Facebook
- Ukuthumela imiyalezo ebhaliweyo ebonisa ngesondo kunye nemifanekiso engafanelekanga ngomyalezo wombhalo, owaziwa nangokuthumela nge- post
- Ukunyanzelisa umntu ukuba athathe inxaxheba ekuthumelelweni nge-imeyli ukubonisa ukuzinikela okanye uthando
- Ukudlulisela imilayezo yombhalo ngokucacileyo kunye nemifanekiso engafanelekanga ngombhalo okanye nge-imeyile
- Ukubhala iingcamango zesondo malunga nomntu othile kwiiblogi, kwiindawo zokuhlambela okanye kwizinye iindawo zoluntu
- Ukukwabelana ngevidiyo ezingafanelanga zesondo okanye imifanekiso
- Ukuzenza abanye abantu kwi-intanethi kunye nokwenza iziphakamiso zesini okanye izibonelelo egameni labo
- Ukubandakanya ukuhlambalaza ukuhlambalaza okanye ukuhlambalalisa uluntu ngendlela yesondo
Isizathu sokuba abantwana baxhaphaze abanye ngesondo
Kukho izizathu ezibangela ukuba abantwana bathathe inxaxheba ekuxhatshazweni ngokwesondo. Kodwa, izizathu eziphambili zibandakanya ukuphucula isimo sezontlalo ngaphakathi kwesikolo, umona nomona , isidingo sokuqwalaselwa kunye nokwesaba kobulili bobuqu. Nantsi ingqwalasela yezinto ezikhuthaza ukuxhaphazwa ngokwesondo.
Ukuziva Unamandla
Ngamanye amaxesha abantwana baya kuxhaphaza abanye xa beziva bebuthathaka okanye bengenamandla. Kwaye ngamanye amaxesha abantwana bayaxhala abanye ngenxa yokuba nabo baxhatshazwa ngokwesondo okanye bahlukunyezwa. Ukuze baphinde baphinde balawulwe ebomini babo, bajolise kubo ababuthathaka kunabo. Oku kuvumela ukuba babonise ukulawula ebomini babo baze bazive benamandla.
Ngamanye amaxesha, abantwana banomdla kwisini okanye indlela yokuphila kwaye baya kuxhaphaza abanye ngokusekelwe kwezo nkolelo.
Ukubonakalisa ukuhluthwa ngokwesondo
Xa abantwana befikelela ebuntwaneni, babeka ukubaluleka okukhulu kwindlela abajonga ngayo kunye neentanga zabo zicinga ngazo. Injongo kukubonakala ekhulile kwaye yamkelwe. Ngenxa yoko, bahlala bexhomekeke kwingcinezelo yontanga kunye neemfuno zamacandelo . Amaxesha amaninzi, amakhwenkwe, ngokukhethekileyo, aya kuxhaphaza ngesantombazana amantombazana ukuba athathe ukwamkelwa kweontanga okanye ukuboneka ukuba bafumana isondo. Amantombazana, ngakolunye uhlangothi, unokugxila ekuxhatshazelweni kwamanye amantombazana ngokuwabiza ngamagama ngokucacileyo ngesondo ngokuzama ukunciphisa isimo senzantlalo yentlalo.
Ukuvelisa umdla
Ezinye izixhatshazo zesondo ziyancoma xa zixelela ibali elincinci, lisasaza iindlebe okanye ukwabelana ngeenkcukacha ezimbi malunga nomnye umntu. Kuthetha amantombazana , ngokukodwa, aya kuxhaphaza ngamanye amantombazana ngokusabalalisa amahemuhemu kunye neentlebo , ukwabelana ngemfihlelo okanye ukuxelela amabali. Bayakuvuyela ingqalelo abayifumanayo ekuzileni into abangayaziyo abanye. Baphumelela kwiintlungu zabanye.
Ukunciphisa ukuKhuselwa
Kwiimeko ezininzi, ukuxhatshazwa ngokwesondo kukukhuseleko kwiimvakalelo zokungafaneleki kunye nokuzithoba . Ngokomzekelo, umxhaphazi unokuziva ekhuselekile malunga nomzimba wakhe okanye ubundlobongela kwaye uya kuhlasela abanye ngaphambi kokuba bafumane ithuba lokumhlasela.
UkuSusa uMqhumo
Amaxesha amaninzi amantombazana aya kuxhaphaza ngesinye intombazana ngenxa yokuba bayamkhwele. Mhlawumbi banomuva obalaseleyo, onobulumko okanye owaziwayo kubafana. Kungakhathaliseki isizathu, amantombazana aya kujolisa enye intombazana ukuba imenze ibonakale ingathandeki kwabanye. Olu hlobo lwesiganeko sobudlelwane luquka izinto ezifana nokwabelana ngeemfihlo zezesondo okanye ukusabalala amanga kunye namahemuhemu malunga nomsebenzi wesondo.
Kwenziwe Abanye
Ngamanye amaxesha abantwana baya kuthatha inxaxheba ekuxhatshazweni ngokwesondo ngenxa yento abonwa ngayo abanye. Iingcipheko zingabandakanya konke ukusuka kubantu abadala kumabomi abo kwizinto ezibonakalayo kumabonwakude, kumabhayisikobho nakumculo. Ingaba yinyani yeprogram yethelevishini, umntakwethu omdala, umhlobo, umzali okanye kunye neqela labamelwane, abantwana bahlala bebonisa indlela abaziphatha ngayo emva kwezinto eziphambi kwabo.