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KuNathaniel Hawthorne "I-Scarlet Letter," u-Hester wagqoba incwadi ethi "A" kwisifuba sakhe sokuba umhlaba ubone. Yayiyindlela yokuba uluntu luhlaziye ngenxa yokukrexeza kwakhe. Namhlanje, amantombazana agqoke uhlobo olutsha lweleta ebomvu enokusisigxina kwaye kunzima ukujongana. Ileta yabo ebomvu inendlela "yokuhlambalaza" kokubili kwi-Intanethi nakwiindawo zokufunda zesikolo.
"I-slut-shaming" yindlela yokuqhubela i-cyberbullying apho amantombazana ajoliswe kumajelo asekuhlaleni nakwexhatshazwa ngenxa yokuthotywa okanye ukuthotywa ngenxa yesini. Oko kuthetha okokuba amantombazana ahlala ehlekwa ngendlebe ngendlela abajonga ngayo, indlela abagqoka ngayo kunye nomgangatho wabo wokuziphatha ngokwesondo.
Ngokomsebenzi oqhutywe yi-American Association of Women's University , i-slut-shaming enye yeendlela eziqhelekileyo zokuxhatshazwa ngokwesondo ukuba abafundi abaphakathi esikolweni esiphakathi nephakamileyo baphathe. Enyanisweni, okwesithathu kubo bonke abafundi bafumana "ukuba umntu enze iingcamango ezingathandekiyo zesini, amahlaya, okanye isenzo" ngabo.
Iintlobo ze-Slut Shaming
Nangona iindlela zihluka, abaxhaphazi bahlala besetyenziselwa amajelo eendaba yoluntu ukuze babelane ngezithombe kunye neevidiyo ezicacileyo. Ngokomzekelo, abaxhatshazwayo kunye namantombazana athetha ukuba bathathe iifoto zabamantombazana abajolise kuzo kwaye bathumele amava okanye amabala ngokucacileyo ngesini ngokuphathelele imizimba yabo. Kananjalo banokubandakanya ukubiza amagama kunye nokuxhatshazwa ngokwesini .
Amaxesha amaninzi, ezi zithombe kunye namavidiyo athathwe ngaphandle kolwazi olujoliswe kulo.
Ngamanye amaxesha umfundi unokudala umfanekiso wesinye i-adolescents ephethe i-slut okanye ihlaziye umzimba wakhe ngendlela ethile. Ngokomzekelo, kwimeko enye intsha idale uluhlu lweemifanekiso ezininzi ezihamba kunye neengcaphuno kwaye zithunyelwe kule Instagram.
Omnye umzekelo wawubandakanya umfanekiso wentombazana ene-cleavage ecacileyo kunye neengcaphuno ezifundayo: "Hayi intombazana, ngaba uyazi ukuba ii-boobs zakho zangena ngaphakathi kwehempe yakho?"
Okwangoku, amakhwenkwe ayaziwa ukuba alalane nentombazana aze abhale isenzo kwi-smartphone yakhe ngaphandle kolwazi lwakhe. Bese belana ngale mavidiyo kunye nabahlobo okanye kwikhompyutha. Kodwa oko bahlala bengayiqondi kukuba le ndlela yokuxhatshazwa ngokwesondo iphikisana nomthetho. Ngenxa yoko, kunokubangela ukuba iifayili zoonobumba Enyanisweni, izityholo zingafakwa kwiinkwenkwe ezithatha ividiyo kwaye zabelwana ngazo kunye nabafundi abanayo ikopi yevidiyo-nangona abazange bacele le vidiyo. Ukuba ngaba kwi-smartphone yabo bangahlawuliswa ngokufumana iifoto zoonografi.
Ukuthunyelwa kwe-Sexting nako kunokukhokelela ekuhlazeni. Ngokomzekelo, xa inkwenkwe nentombazana bethatana nabo bangabelana ngemifanekiso eqingqiweyo okanye engabonwayo. Emva koko, xa baqhekeza, inkwenkwe ekhusayo ihlazisa intombi intombi ngokuthetha naye ngeenqwelo ezithandwayo okanye ngokungafaniyo kwi-intanethi. Olu hlobo lomsebenzi luchasene nomthetho kwaye lunokubangela ukuhlawulwa kweefayili zoonografi. Kwezinye iimeko, intombazana inokuthanda inkwenkwe kwaye imthumelele imifanekiso emnandi. Emva koko uyaphendula ngokubaxelela kunye nokumhlazisa.
Kubaluleke kakhulu ukuba abantwana baqonde ingozi kunye nemiphumo ehambelana nokuthunyelwa kwe-post .
Izikolo nazo zingadlala ngokungazi kakuhle kwiinkcubeko zokuhlambalaza ngokudala iikhowudi zokugqoka ezinqandekayo zokubhenqa amantombazana ekuboniseni isikhumba esininzi ngelixa uvumela ukuba abafana baninzi inkululeko. Emva koko, xa amantombazana aqeqeshwa ngenxa yokungayilandelanga izikhokelo zesikolo, bayaxelelwa ukuba kufuneka bagqoke ngendlela ethile ukuze bagweme "abafana". Ngokutsho kwabasebenzi, le ndlela yingozi yokucinga. Oku kuthetha ukuba amantombazana atyala ngokuthe ngandlela-thile okanye enoxanduva lokuhlambalaza i-slut kwaye libi nakakhulu, ngenxa yokuxhatshazwa ngokwesondo okanye ukuhlaselwa.
Incamango yokuba intombazana inoxanduva lokuphendula abafana, okanye ukuba abafana abanako ukuzilawula, luhlobo lwexhoba-ukugxeka .
Imiphumo yeSlut-Shaming
Kubantu abaninzi, imilinganiselo ephindwe kabini iphazamisayo. Amakhwenkwe adla ngokufumana indumiso kunye nodumo ngenxa yobundlobongela babo bezesondo ngelixa amantombazana ashicilelwe njengoluhlukileyo, lula, i-slut, i-skank okanye ihenyukazi. Ngenxa yoko, amantombazana ahlala esele ehlazekile, entloni, entloni kunye nentlungu. Kwakhona banokuziva bangenanto kwaye bangenathemba baze batyekele ukuzondla kunye nokutya kokutya ukujamelana nentlungu. Ingakumbi, amantombazana amaninzi ahlaselwe ngamatye anemifanekiso yomzimba . Nangona ukuxinezeleka , ukuxhalaba kunye neengcamango zokuzibulala zidibaniswa nokuhlambalaza.
Enyanisweni, kukho iingxelo ezininzi zamantombazana amancinci ayenokuhlazola ngokwesondo aze emva koko athathe ubomi bawo. Ezi ziquka uAmanda Todd, uJese Logan, Hope Witsell, uSarah Lynn Butler, uPiebe Prince, uFelicia Garcia kunye nokunye. Intombazana nganye yayihlazola ngesondo ngandlela-thile, kwaye ngezinye iimeko ngenxa yezinto abangazange bayenze, ukubenza bazive bazizibulala bazikhethela ukuba babalekele ekuhlaselweni rhoqo.
Abazali banokuthintela ukuhlambalaza kwiintombi zabo ngokuthetha ngomngcipheko wokuthumelelana nge -post kunye nokuxhatshazwa ngokwesini. Kwakhona kubalulekile ukukhumbuza intsha ukuba kungakhathaliseki ukuba bavakalelwa njani ngezenzo zokuziphatha zesondo zabanye, ukuhlambalaza i-slut akuvumelekanga. Yaye ukuba umntwana ebanjwe ukuxhatshazwa ngokwesondo okanye utyumbela badinga ukuba baqeqeshwe kwaye bafunde indlela yokuthatha uxanduva lokukhetha kwabo .
> "Ukuwela uMgaqo: Ukuhlukumeza ngokwesondo eSikolweni." Umbutho waseMerika weeNyuzikazi zaseYunivesithi, 2011. https://www.aauw.org/files/2013/02/Ukuhlakulela--Ukuxhaswa-Harassment-at-School.pdf