Fumana indlela abatsha abachaphazela ngayo ngokomzwelo nangokomthetho
Kwezinye iindidi zentsha, ukuthunyelwa kwemiyalezo ye-imeyile yinto eyenziwayo eyenzekayo xa abantu behlala okanye banomdla omnye komnye. Kwamanye amaxesha, ixesha elilodwa liphela ekugwebeni. Kungakhathaliseki isizathu salo, inani labaselula abasebenzisa ikhamera ezakhelwe kwii- smartphones zabo, ii- iPads kunye nezinye izixhobo zecomputer zokuthatha imifanekiso yecala okanye imifanekiso yokuziphatha ngokwesini iya kunyuka.
Kodwa ngaba baninzi abantwana, kunye nabazali babo, abaqapheli ukuba ngaba iziphumo eziza kwezi zigqibo.
Ukuthunyelwa kwe-Sexting kunemiphumo emibi nje kuphela kumntu othabathayo nokuthumela iifoto, kodwa nakumntu ekupheleni kokufumana. Ngenxa yoko, kubalulekile ukuthetha nabantwana bakho malunga nale miphumo. Akufuneki kuphela ukuba intsha ifumane ingqalelo kwimiphumo yengqondo yokuthunyelwa kwemiyalezo ye-SMS, kodwa kufuneka ikwazi malunga nemigangatho yomthetho ngokunjalo.
Ngokomzekelo, uninzi lwexesha lokuthunyelwa kwemiyalezo yokuthunyelwa kwemiyalezo ye-SMS iquka abancinci, ngoko ke ezi zithombe ezingabonakali zibhekwa njengengxaki yoononografi. Ngenxa yoko, ukuthumela okanye ukufumana le miyalezo kulwaphulo-mthetho. Nantsi ingqwalasela yezinto ezinokuthi zenzeke kwintsholongwane emoyeni nangokomthetho ukuba zibandakanya ukuthunyelwa kwe-imeyile.
Iziphumo Zomzwelo
Amaxesha amaninzi, abantwana bayathatha inxaxheba ekuthumelelaneni nge-SMS ngaphandle kokucinga ngemiphumo. Kodwa ekuhambeni okunyanisekileyo, banokuguqula ubomi babo ukususela kuloo ndawo.
Nazi ezinye zeendlela abantwana abathumela ngayo imiyalezo ye-SMS.
Ukufumana iintloni nokuthotywa . Xa isondo okanye isithunzi sithunyelwa komnye umntu, akukho ziqinisekiso zokuthi le mifanekiso iza kuhlala ngasese. Kwaye kwiimeko ezininzi imifanekiso ayifumanekanga. Xa ulwalamano luye lwaphuka, okanye umhlobo uyathukuthela, imifanekiso kaninzi isasazwa njengesenzo sokuphindezela . Ngenxa yoko, umntu osesithombeni uhlala ehlazeka kwaye ehlaziswa xa isasazwa. Iimvana ezininzi zithi zivakalelwa ngathi ziye zahamba phantsi kwiiholo zesikolo zazo zingenanto iingubo emva kokuba ifoto isasazwe.
Ukuxhatshazwa . Emva kokuba imilayezo ye-imeyile ibe yidlangalaleni, oku kudla ngokuvula ulutsha ngokuxhatshazwa, ikakhulukazi nge- cyberbullying . Kukho amabali amaninzi abancinci abasetyhini abaye bathatha inxaxheba ekuthumeni i-post kunye nokuxhatshazwa kwayo. UJessica Logan kunye no-Amanda Todd amabali amabini aquka ukuthunyelwa nge-sexting okuphelelwe yimiphumo emibi. La mabhinqa abizwe ngamagama angcolileyo kumntu kunye nakwi-intanethi. Ukongezwa koko, bekungabandakanywa kwaye bakhutshwe ngabanye abafundi. Ekugqibeleni, amabini amantombazana athatha ubomi bawo.
Fumana isiphelo sobuhlobo . Amaninzi amaninzi, xa umfanekiso wesondo uhlala esidlangalaleni, ubuhlobo buya kutshabalalisa. Eli thuba liyakushiya elivisayo kwizithombe ziziva zicatshiwe kwaye zodwa. Ngenxa yokuba uxinzelelo lwabaontanga lunamandla amakhulu, abahlobo bahlala besuka kumntu ojoliswe kuko beyesaba ukuba baya kuhluthwa. Bakhathazeka ngokunyaniseka kwabo baya kuhlambela ngolwalamano, ngakumbi xa kuthethwa i- slut-shaming .
Uziva unetyala kunye nehlazo . Ukuba nemifanekiso eyimfihlo kunye neyimfihlo yabelana nabaphulaphuli abaninzi bangabangela isohlwayo elikhulu kunye neentloni. Ngenxa yoko, abantwana abathatha inxaxheba ekuthumelelaneni nge-SMS bazisola ukuba benze njalo. Kwakhona kuthintela ukuzithemba ukubenza bazive besengozini kwaye bavelele.
Ukufumana inkcaso . Amantombazana athabatha imifanekiso engabonwayo aze ayithumele kwiqabane, basengozini yokuchaswa. Ngenxa yoko, basengozini enkulu yokuxhatshazwa kunye nokuhlaselwa ngokwesondo kuba abanye benza iingcinga malunga nabo ngokuzithandela ukuthatha nokusabalalisa imifanekiso. Oku akuthethi batyala ukuba bahlaselwa okanye bahlaselwa, kodwa ukubandakanya ukuthumelelana nge-imeyile kwandisa ingozi yabo yokuhlaselwa.
Ukuva iimvakalelo . Njengoxhatshazo, ukuhleka usulu kunye neentloni kuhamba ngokukhawuleza ngokuthumela i-sexting, intsha ingaqala ukuziva ingathembeki kwaye idandatheke. Kwakhona banokucinga ngokuzibulala . Ukuba umntwana wakho okhulileyo uye wabhala nge-post kwaye ubonisa iimpawu zokudakumba okanye ukuthetha ngokuzibulala, kubaluleke kakhulu ukuba uthethe nomboneleli wezempilo ngokukhawuleza.
Iziphumo zomthetho
Abantwana kaninzi abaqapheli ukuba ukuthumelelana nge-post ne-boyfriend okanye intombi akuyonto engenzi lutho. Kunoko, banokujamelana neengcamango ezinzulu zomthetho. Nazi ezinye iinkcukacha ezibalulekileyo malunga nemiphumo yomthetho yokuthunyelwa kwe-imeyile.
Umngcipheko ofumana iindleko zobugebengu bezocalulo zobuntwana . Bobabini abantwana abathumela iifoto kunye nabantwana abafumana iifoto banokuhlawulwa. Abo bathumela iifoto banokuhlawulwa ngokusabalalisa iinthombe zoononopopasho zabantwana kwamanye amazwe. Kwaye abo bafumana iifoto banokuhlawulwa ngokufumana iifoto zoononografi zabantwana, nokuba bangazange bacele isithombe. Ukuba bahambisa iifoto kubahlobo, ngoko nabo banokujamelana neerhafu zokusasaza iinthombe zoonografi. Ukuba abantwana bakho bafumana isithunzi esicetywayo okanye ngesini, kufuneka basuse ngokukhawuleza. Ukushiya kwidivaysi yabo yecomputer, ubabeka engozini yokuhlawuliswa kwecala.
Umngcipheko wokuba ubhalise njengecala lokuziphatha ngesondo . Ngaphandle kwexesha elifanelekileyo lokubanjwa kwexesha kunye nokuvavanywa xa kukho isigwebo seentlawulo ezihlobene neentlobo zoonografi, abantwana abaselula bayakubeka ingozi yokubhalisa njengesenzo sokuziphatha ngesondo. Le bhile inzima kakhulu kubantu abancinci ngenxa yezinto eziqhotyoshelweyo kunye neengxelo ezifunekayo. Okona, yinto enokuyilandela ubomi babo bonke.
Umngcipheko wokubhengeza abazali kwimiphumo yomthetho . Ukuba abazali bayazi ukuba umntwana wabo uthumele i-post ne-TV kwaye akenzi nto yokuyiqeda, banokuhlawulwa ngokufaka inxaxheba ekugqibeleni komntwana. Abazali banokuthi baxhomekeke kwintlawulo yomntu ukuba ngaba abazali bexhoba bakhethe ukunyelisa. Ngaphandle kokuthetha nomntwana malunga nokuziphatha kwakhe, kufuneka uthathe iteknoloji yakhe. Injongo kukubonisa ukuba wenze konke onako ukuphelisa ukuthunyelwa kwemiyalezo ye-imeyile xa ufumanisa ukuba kwenzeka.
Umngcipheko wokuba unakekele ukunakekelwa kwabantwana okanye ukhutshwe ekhaya . Ukuba ngaba abazali bayazi malunga nokuthunyelwa kwemiyalezo ye-imeyile kwaye bengenzi nto yokuyiphelisa, banokuthi baphantsi kophando ngeeNkonzo zoKhuseleko zabantwana kwisixeko okanye kwilizwe labo. Ngamanye amaxesha lo uphando lubangela ukuba umntwana asuswe ekhaya aze afakwe kwinkathalo yabantwana. Qiniseka ukuba wenza konke onokukwazi ukugcina umntwana wakho ekuthumelelaneni nge-SMS. Kwaye, ukuba ufumanisa ukuba bayazibandakanya kule ndlela yokuziphatha, yenza konke onokukwazi ukukufikelela ekupheleni.
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Ngokubanzi, imeko efanelekileyo kukuba ukuba ukuthunyelwa kwe-imeyile kungenzeki nhlobo. Abazali bahlale phantsi kunye nentsha yabo kwaye bathethe ngazo zonke iingozi ezinxulumene nokuthunyelwa kwe-imeyile . Yaye ukuba umntwana wakho ufumene umyalezo we-post, bafanele bayisuse ngokukhawuleza. Ukuyigcina ukubonisa iziphathamandla esikolweni okanye ukuthumela kumzali, kubabeka kuphela nabazali babo engozini ngokusemthethweni.