Qinisekisa ukuba umntwana wakho uyazi ingozi yokuthunyelwa kwe-imeyile
Abaselula banamhlanje bahlala bexhunyiwe, baphila ubomi babo kwi-intanethi kunye noluntu loluntu. Belana ngezithombe kwi-Instagram, bukhoma i-tweet kuma-konsathi kunye nomyalezo wabo ngabahlobo endaweni yokubiza. Kodwa ngamanye amaxesha abafana abenzi ukhetho oluhle malunga noko babathumelayo, ukwabelana okanye ukuthumela imiyalezo. Ngenxa yoko, banqumla imida ngaphandle kokucinga ngemiphumo.
Ukuthunyelwa kwe-Sexting ngumzekelo wendlela isigqibo esisishukumisayo esinokuchaphazela ngayo ubomi babo kwiminyaka ezayo.
Enyanisweni, kwintsha-mvana, ukuthumela umxholo ocacileyo ngesondo kuyindlela eqhelekileyo yokusebenzisana nabo ontanga. Kubo, akukho nto iphosakeleyo ngokuthumela imiyalezo ye-sexting, ngakumbi ukuba bakholelwa ukuba "wonke umntu uyayenza." Okwangoku, abanye abatsha baqala ukuthumela i-sexting ngenxa yokuba bayibona njengentloni okanye ngenxa yokuba baziva bexinzelelwe ukwenza njalo.
Enyanisweni, uphando lubonisa ukuba inxalenye yabo bonke abatsha baqala ukuthumela imiyalezo ye-post ngaphambi kokuba abaneminyaka eyi-18. Kodwa abatsha abaninzi abaqapheli ukuba ukuthumela imiyalezo nge-SMS kunemiphumo emibi . Nazi ezi zihlanu ezinobungozi. Qiniseka ukuba umntwana wakho uyazi ingozi.
Ukuthunyelwa kwe-Sexting kubonakalisa iinthombe zoonografi . Xa iifoto ezingenanto okanye iifoto ezingabonakaliyo zibandakanya abantwana, oku kubonwa ngophuculo lwezingane kwiindawo ezininzi. Nangona imithetho yelizwe iyahluka malunga nemithetho nemimiselo yokuthunyelwa kwemiyalezo ye-SMS, kwezinye iinguqu zokutshintshana kwezithombe ezingabonakaliyo zabantwana zibhekwa njengento enqabileyo, nangona iifoto zithathwa kwaye zabelwana zixhaswe.
Ngokomzekelo, umntwana othabathayo okanye ukwabelana ngesithombe unokuhlawuliswa ngokusabalalisa iifoto zoonografi. Okwangoku, umntu ofumana umfanekiso unokuhlawuliswa ngokufumana iifoto zoonografi, nokuba umntu akazange acele ukuba ifoto ifakwe. Ngaphezu koko, intsha ingabhalwa ngabaphulaphuli besondo ngokuthumela okanye ukuthatha iifoto zabanye abatsha.
Kukho neemeko apho intsha ihlawuliswe khona ulwaphulo-mthetho nangona iifoto zizo.
I-Sexting ingakhokelela ekuxhatshazweni ngokwesini. Emva kokuba uthumele umyalezo we-imeyile kwi-intanethi, umntwana wakho ulahlekelwa konke ukulawula umfanekiso. Abantu bayayisebenzisa ngayo nayiphi na indlela abayifunayo. Kwaye ngelishwa, abantu abaninzi baya kusebenzisa imifanekiso ukuxhatshazwa ngokwesondo umntu kumfanekiso. Omnye umzekelo wokuxhatshazwa ngokwesondo ubizwa ngokuba yi- slut . Kule mizekelo, abantu bacinga ukuba ukuzimisela kwentombazana ukubandakanya umsebenzi wesondo okanye ukwenza iingcinga ngegama lomntwana. Okwangoku, i- cyberbully ingabelana ngesithombe kwi-intanethi ukuze ihlazeke kwaye ihlazise intombazana esithombeni. Okanye, i-cyberbully ingasebenzisa ifoto okanye iifoto ukuze zifanise umfana nomfanekiso kwaye ziposise izimvo ezingalunganga kunye namazwi.
Ukuthunyelwa kwe-Sexting kunokuvula umnyango kubantu abaxhatshazwa ngokwesondo . Nangona ukuthunyelwa kwemiyalezo ngokubhekiselele kubhekiselwe kumntu oyedwa kuphela, akukho ndlela yokulawula ngubani obona isithombe xa umntwana wakho esithumelayo. Enyanisweni, kukho iimeko ezininzi apho umntwana osemva wathumela isithombe esichukumisayo ngokwesini nakwezinye izinto ezibalulekileyo kwaye kamva ufumanisa ukuba lesi sithombe sidluliselwe ngeenxa zonke kwaye ngamanye amaxesha siyabelana nge-intanethi. Emva kokuba isithombe sibe sesidlangalaleni, akukho ndlela yokulawula abaphulaphuli kunye nesidlo sezesondo singayifumana isithombeni.
Xa oku kwenzeka, umntwana wakho usengozini enkulu yokuxhaphazwa ngokwesondo ngabantu abathi bangomnye umntu ongekho.
Ukuthunyelwa kwe-Sexting kubeka intsha engozini yokungena . Ngamanye amaxesha xa umntwana osemva ethumela isithombe se-nude ngethuba elithile elinomngcipheko, kamva basengozini yokumnyama. Kukho imeko apho ummkeli womfanekiso angasongela ukuhlazisa esidlangalaleni umthumeli ngaphandle kokuba ehambelana neemfuno ze-blackmailer. Abaninzi abaselula abaphantsi kwezi ntlobo zokusongela. Bahlala benamahloni ukucela nabani na uncedo kwaye banokuthi babe nenceba ye-blackmailer ixesha elide.
Izesondo azizange zihambe. Abaninzi abaselula bakholelwa ukuba isithombe esithunyelwe ngomyalezo wesibhalo okanye i-imeyili siya kukwazi ukujongwa ngummkeli. Kodwa ezi mifanekiso zingaphandle kokulawulwa komthumeli kwaye zingabelana ngazo, zikopishwe kwaye zithunyelwe. Nemifanekiso eyabelwana ngayo usebenzisa iStapchat ibeka umntwana engozini. Nangona imifanekiso ithunyelwe nge-Snapchat yenzelwe ukuba isuswe ngokuzenzekelayo kwimizuzwana, abatsha baye bafunda indlela yokukopisha imifanekiso baze bayisindise phambi kokuba incedisi isuse.
Ukuthunyelwa kwe-Sexting kubonakalisa idumela lomntwana . Akukaze kube yinto enhle ukuba umntwana athumele umyalezo ocacileyo ngomzimba komnye umntu, kungakhathaliseki ukuba ubuhlobo obunzulu kangakanani. Ngaphandle kwemingcipheko yomthetho kunye nobungozi be- cyberbullying , iifoto ezifana nalezi zonakalisa iindumiso. Ngokomzekelo, inzala yothando ingaziqhayisa ngeefoto kwaye ibonise abanye. Ukongezelela, kukho umngcipheko omkhulu nakwidumela le-adolescence ukuba ezo zimbini ziyahlukana. Abanye abatsha baya kubelana ngeefoto okanye bawenze uluntu njengempindezelo. Isiphumo sokuphela kukuthotywa kunye neentloni ezinokubangela ukuxhatshazwa njengento yokuhlambalaza i-slut kunye nokubiza amagama . Ngaphezu koko, ezi mifanekiso zingonakalisa i-intanethi ye-intanethi ngokugqithiseleyo ukuba abasebenzi beekholeji abakholweyo, abaqeshi besikhathi esizayo okanye amaqabane abathandana nabo baya kufikelela kwiminyaka engcaciso.