Isikhokelo somzali kwiingozi ze-Snapchat
Kukho i-app ye-smartphone kwimarike efumana ukuthandwa ngabantu abafana nabafana abathathu. Eyona nto eyenzelwe abantu abadala, lolu hlelo lokusebenza olubizwa ngokuba ngu-Snapchat, luvumela abasebenzisi ukuthumela imiyalezo yezithombe kubahlobo abaye balala kwifowuni kumasekhondi angu-7 kuya kwe-10 emva kokuvula umyalezo.
Indlela Abantwana Abasebenzisa ngayo Snapchat
Ngaphandle kwento yokuba i- tweens kunye nentsha inomdla kwiintlobo ngokubanzi, yintoni inqaku lomdla wolutsha oluthile lombono wokuthi nayiphina imifanekiso ithunyelwe iya kubonakala ngonaphakade.
Nangona abanye abatsha bangathumela imifanekiso engenanto engafanelekanga, abanye basebenzisa insiza ngeenjongo ezininzi ezingenakunqwenela.
Ngokomzekelo, abanye abantwana bayithumelela nge-post , okanye bathumele iifoto ezicacileyo zesini, bacinga ukuba abanakukhathazeka ngenxa yokuba iifoto zinyamalale kwi-app. Okwangoku, ezinye iifoto zifake izibhengezo kwiindawo zokupakisha kunye namagumbi okuhlamba kunye nokuthumela abo. Okwangoku, ezinye iikratshi zizulazula ukuzama ukubamba amahlumela anamahloni okuthumela abanye. Abanye basayisebenzisa kwi- cyberbully . Bathumela into ithetha, kwaye umyalezo uphelalala ngaphandle kobungqina bokuba ukuxhatshazwa kwenzeka.
Ukucinga okuqhelekileyo kukuba, "yintoni inzakalo - umfanekiso uhambe ngemizuzwana eyi-10." Kodwa akusoloko kunjalo. Nangona imifanekiso iyanyamalala kwi-app ngokwayo, akukho nto eyakhelwe kwi-app ukuyeka abantwana kwisiphelo sokufumana ukususa isikrini kwaye uyilondoloze okanye usebenzisa enye ifowuni ukuthatha umfanekiso wefowuni yefowuni.
Kukho "ezinye ii-hack" ezisetyenzisiweyo zefowuni kunye ne-bar multitasking. Kwaye kwezinye iimeko, ezi zikhutshana zingathathwa ngasese ngaphandle kokuthunyelwa komthumeli.
Ingxaki ngeenjongo ezinjenge-Snapchat kukuba zixhaphaza kwiingxaki ezikhulayo ezithunyelwe nge-SMS kunye ne-cyberbullying.
Enyanisweni, zombini iingxaki ezisemgangathweni phakathi kwentsha.
Oko Abazali Nabathengi Kumele Bazi
Zonke izinto ezicatshangwayo, oku akuyona insiza abazali okanye abalawuli besikolo abangayihoywa. Kungaba yinto efanelekileyo kubazali ukuba basebenzise ekukhulumeni nabantwana babo malunga neengozi zokusebenzisa kakubi i-app njenge-Snapchat. Cacisa indlela abanye abantwana abasebenzisa kakubi ngayo i-app kunye nendlela yokubuyisela xa beyisebenzisa.
Kwakhona ingcamango enhle ukuxoxa ngemiphumo yomthetho kunye nemizwelo yokuthunyelwa kwemiyalezo ye-SMS . Abantwana kufuneka baqonde kusenokwenzeka ukuba le ngxaki baza kufuneka babhekane nayo ngexesha elithile. Enyanisweni, uphando lubonisa ukuba ukuthumela i-sexting kuba yinkathazo enkulu phakathi kwentsha. Ngokomzekelo, ngokwe-Pew Internet kunye ne-American Life Project, ubuninzi beepesenti ezili-15 zentsha ephakathi kweminyaka eyi-12 no-17 bathi bafumene "i-sext" evela kumntu ababaziyo. Okwangoku, i-4 ekhulwini yabaselula ibonisa ukuba nabo baye bathatha inxaxheba ekuthumelelaneni nge-SMS ngokuthumela i-naked okanye imifanekiso engabonakaliyo komnye ngomyalezo womyalezo. Kanti olunye uhlolisiso lufumene ukuba i-28% yabantwana abaneminyaka eyi-14 ukuya kwengu-19 bathi bathumele isithombe esicatshulwa nabo ngokombhalo okanye nge-imeyile.
Ukufundisa abantwana malunga nokuthunyelwa kwemiyalezo
Ngenxa yoko, kubulumko ukuba abazali nabaphathi bafundise abantwana ngeengozi zokuthunyelwa nge-SMS ngaphambi kokuba bahlanganyele kuyo.
Sebenzisa imizekelo yabantwana babo obomi babo obunempembelelo enkulu ngokusabalalisa imiyalezo ecacileyo ngokwesondo. Yaye qiniseka ukuba abantwana bayayazi ukuba xa kukho nto ithunyelwe okanye ithunyelwe, ayikwazi ukulawula apho iya khona okanye kwenzeka ntoni kuyo.
Ngokomzekelo, umyalezo wabucala othunyelwe kumhlobo okanye omnye umntu onokubaluleka unokuphelela ezandleni zabantu abangalunganga. Xa oku kwenzeka ukuba abantwana basengozini yokuxhatshazwa kwe- cyberbullying , ulwalamano lobuhlobo kunye nokuxhatshazwa ngokwesondo .
Ukufundisa i-Digital Etiquette
Abazali nabo kufuneka bafundise izingane zabo zezobugcisa zedijithali kunye nokuzikhumbuza ukuba bacinge ngaphambi kokuba bathumele kuyo nayiphi na ipulatifomi yoluntu.
Izingane kufuneka zihlale zizibuza ukuba ngaba zizithumela okanye zithetha into efuna ukuba abazali bazo, ootitshala, iinkokeli zonqulo, oogogo nomkhulu okanye umqeqeshi abone.