Imihla yokuzalwa iyona nto ibaluleke kakhulu ngamawele kunye nezinye iziphindaphindi. Emva koko, enye yezinto zokuqala abelana ngazo xa beqala ubomi babo. Ukubhiyozela imihla yokuzalwa ngendlela enentsingiselo eyenza umntwana ngamnye azive ekhethekileyo kwaye ekhethekileyo inokuba ngumngeni. Nazi ezinye iziphakamiso zokunceda ukwenza iziganeko zokuzalwa ezikhunjulwayo kunye nolonwabo olwenziwe kubo bonke abathintekayo.
Gcina kulula
Nciphisa inani leendwendwe.
Umgaqo oqhelekileyo wezontathu ze-singleton ukumema umntwana omnye ngonyaka oneminyaka yobudala, umzekelo, abathenwa abathathu abaneminyaka emithathu ubudala, abane abaneminyaka emine ubudala. Ngaloo ndlela ulungelelwaniso ngokuphindaphindiweyo, nangona ukuba unamabhongo kwaye unako ukukwazi ukukwenza, akunakulungele ukunyusa ngamawele, ama-triple okanye ngaphezulu.
Qinisekisa ukuba amaqela akhupha iinkumbulo ezivuyisayo kuzo zonke iindwendwe kunye nemikhosi ngokucwangcisa imisebenzi efanelekileyo yeminyaka. Abantwana abaneminyaka emibili abanakudinga ngempela i-circus ukukhwela kunye nomlingo; mhlawumbi baya kugxininiswa kakhulu.
Khumbulani ukuba ngubani oMbutho owenene
Ukuba ngaba lwakho lokuzalwa lokuqala lokuphindaphinda, ngokuqinisekileyo nguwe ofanelwe iphathi! Kodwa njengoko abantwana bekhula, bavumele ukuba babe negalelo ekucwangcisweni kwenkqubo kunye nokulungiselela. Ukunyaniseka nabo malunga nohlahlo lwabiwo-mali kunye nobuchule kwaye uxoxe ngezilindele ngaphambi kokuba uqale ukucwangcisa.
Cinga ngeNkcubeko
Abanye abazali bangathanda ukubonisa intlonelo ngabanye ngabanye ngokudala imicimbi ehlukeneyo.
Elinye icebo lokudala kukubhiyozela "isiqingatha sokuzalwa", emva kweenyanga ezintandathu emva kokuzalwa kwangoku.
Thetha nabantwana bakho malunga neemvakalelo zabo. Abaninzi abaninzi abaninzi bathi ukwabelana ngosuku lokuzalwa, kunye nemithendeleko ehambelanayo, ngokwenene inxalenye yolonwabo lokukhula njengento emininzi. Xa ndicebisa ukuba amantombazana amamawele athathe iikhokheki esikolweni kwiintsuku ezahlukileyo, babesaba.
"Akukho mama!" bathi. "Yonke imihla yethu yokuzalwa kwaye sifuna ukuba kunye."
Ngenye, Fumana ezimbini kwixabiso leNye
Imihla yokuzalwa ingaba enye yeendlela ezimbalwa abazali abaphindaphindiweyo abazibamba ngayo. Ngokuqinisekileyo kulula ukucwangcisa - kwaye uhlawule-elinye iqela ngonyaka kunemibutho ehlukeneyo ezimbini. Iinkonzo zecandelo lezobugcisa ziya kuthi zihlawulise inani elifanayo kwiqela lokuzalwa lokuzalwa njengomntwana omnye, mhlawumbi umrhumo omncinci wenkxaso yesibini yeebhaluni okanye iTekhthi yokukhumbula.
Yiba Ikhekhe Yam, kwaye Yidle Nakho!
Enye yezona zinto zikhulu kakhulu kubazali beziphindaphindiweyo kukuthi banike ikhekhe elilodwa kumntwana ngamnye. Emva kokuphindaphindiweyo kuneminyaka eyaneleyo yokukhetha, ngokuqinisekileyo kufuneka imisele impendulo. Kubantwana abancinci, iibhekebhe isisombululo esilula. Noko ke, ngoluvo lwam, ukuba bonke abantwana bafanelwe ukuva "Ukuzalwa Okumnandi Kuwe" bahlabelelwa ngodumo lwabo, kwaye ukuba kufuneka banikezelwe ngokwahlukileyo - yonke indlela-ngomntwana ngamnye.
Nika Ukucinga Ukunikezela Isipho
Iindwendwe zeqela kunye nabanikeli ngokufanayo bayazibuza ukuba ngaba kufuneka bafumane izipho ezahlukileyo kwiqela ngalinye. Akukho mpendulo echaziweyo okanye impendulo elula; enjengemibandela eninzi ngokuphindaphindiweyo, konke kuxhomekeke kubantwana nakubuntu babo.
Kwezinye iimeko, isipho esisodwa esingabelana ngaso sinokuba mnandi ngaphezu kwezinto ezithile. Umdlalo webhodi, ividiyo, okanye i-sandbox yimizekelo yelo hlobo lwesipho. Kwamanye amaxesha, kufanelekile ukunika izipho ezifana noluhlu kodwa ezizodwa iinkcukacha, ezifana needodoli ezineengubo ezahlukeneyo okanye iilori ngemibala eyahlukileyo. Nangona kunjalo, ngamanye amaxesha kulula ukuba onke azungeze ukunika wonke umntu into efanayo; yinto enye encinane ukuphikisana ngayo!