Kuyinto evamile ukuba abantu abayishumi bafumane ukuguquka kwemizwelo, nantsi indlela yokunceda.
Ukuba i-middle of your mood iguqukile njenge-barometer, mhlawumbi akukho nto inokukhathazeka ngayo. Iimpawu zeTweens kunye neemeko zihamba kunye kunye. Enyanisweni, kuqhelekile ukuba i-tweenagers iphephe kwiimvakalelo ezahlukahlukeneyo, zonke ngosuku.
Kodwa oko akuthethi kulula ukuhlala nomntwana onomtsalane omnye umzuzu, kwaye uyakunqumla okulandelayo. Ukufikelela kumhla (kunye neminyaka embalwa ezayo) kunye nomoya ophakathi kwinto enzima kunoma yimuphi umzali, kodwa kuya kufuneka uphucule kwaye usebenze ngomonde wakho.
Nantsi indlela yokunceda phakathi kwakho ukulawula ukuguquka kwemizwelo, ukuze ukwazi ukugcina eyakho phantsi kolawulo.
Yiqonda
Ayikho imfihlelo enokuba neengxaki ezijongene nazo. Ubuncinane, isikolo esiphakathi, iingxaki zentlalo, umsebenzi wesikolo, kwaye amanqaku amaninzi. Ukongeza, umzimba wakho kunye nobuchopho bukhula ngokukhawuleza, kwaye oko kunokudideka kumntwana ongakulungele ukutshintsha, okanye engaqinisekanga malunga nokuba litshintsho lithetha ntoni. Yiqonda xa uguquko lwenu lwangaphakathi, kwaye uzame ukukhumbula indlela izinto ezinzima ngayo kuwe xa uhamba iminyaka yakho.
Ukukhanyisa Umthwalo Wakhe
Iishedyuli zeTween zithwala uxanduva. Ukusuka emsebenzini wesikolo ukuya kwimisebenzi engaphezulu kwekharityhulam, amaninzi amaninzi asebenza ngokuzibophezela komnye ngaphandle kwekhefu. Ukuba ishedyuli yakho yekontrakthi ibonakala ixakeke ngokungaqhelekanga, okanye xa ikhononda malunga nokuba nokuningi okunokuyenza, kusenokuba yithuba lokususa umsebenzi okanye ezimbini ukusuka kwishedyuli.
Qaphela ukuba umthwalo ogqithiseleyo wokuzibophezela unceda ukuba phakathi kwakho kulungelelanise imeko yakhe kunye nokulinganisela. Unokufumana ukuba ukuguquguquka kwemizwelo kuphelile xa i-kati yakho inexesha elingaphezulu lokukhulula.
Qinisekisa ukuba yena ulele
I-Tweens idinga ubuncinane iiyure ezili-9 zokulala ngobusuku, kodwa abaninzi abafumani nto. Khangela ukuba i-kati yakho inexesha elaneleyo ebusuku ukuya kutshintsho ukusuka kwimihla exakekileyo ukuya kwixesha lokulala.
Beka ixesha lokulala lokuhlelwa kweeveki kunye neveki. Qinisekisa ukuba u-pakati wakho ufumana inani lokucetyiswa ubuthongo ngobusuku bonke (nangona ngeveki-ntsuku), kwaye ususe nayiphi na ifowuni ukusuka kwigumbi lomntwana wakho, njengeTV okanye ikhomputha, enokuthi ibe noxanduva lokugcina phakathi kwakho ebusuku. Ukuba iprogram yakho yamabonwakude oyithandayo iyaphazamisa ukuphumla, tape umboniso ukuze akwazi ukuyibukela ngelinye ixesha.
Ukunikezela kokutya okunomsoco
Imizimba ye-Tween iyatshintsha yimini, kwaye idinga ukondla ukutshintsha olo tshintsho. Qinisekisa ukuba unikela ngokutya okutya okuninzi okunomsoco (ukutya okupheleleyo, iziqhamo, imifuno, i-nut, ukutya okuphezulu-calcium) kwaye wenze indawo yokutya kwentsapho ndawonye kunye ubuncinane kabini ngeveki. Ukutya okungenayo i-Chuck okanye nayiphi na ukutya okungekho umboneleli wakho ngondlo ayifunayo. Ukuba unomdla malunga nokutya kwakho kwe-tween, xubusha le ngxaki ngodokotela wakho wezingane, kwaye ubuze ukuba umntwana wakho ufuna iimfomfini zongeziweyo.
Ngamanye amaxesha ukuguquka kwemizwelo kwenzeka xa abantwana befumana iswekile ephantsi. Enyanisweni, ukuguquka kwemizwelo kunokuba ngumqondiso wokuthi umntwana wakho akafumani isidlo esifanelekileyo.
Banika Iphulo
Ingaba iphakathi lakho linemihla ngemihla ukuze uphumule kwaye ujabulele imini? Ingaba uthabatha ixesha lokufunda, i-journalist, okanye u-Hangout kunye nawe okanye amanye amalungu omndeni?
I-Tween, njengabantu abadala, idinga ixesha "le-chillax." Isikolo esiphakathi sinokuba nzima kwaye iingcinezelo ezongezelelweyo zomsebenzi wesikolo, iimingeni zobudlelwane kunye nemingeni ekhaya zingaba ngaphezu kweqela lakho elinokusingatha. Shedyulela ixesha ukuya kwikhalenda yentsapho, njengokuba unokucwangcisa ixesha lebhola okanye izifundo zepiyano.
Vumela I-Tween Your Chill kunye nabangani
Ubuhlobo bubaluleke kakhulu kubabini, kwaye kufuneka badinga isondo sabo sesentlalo ngaphandle kwentsapho. Ngamanye amaxesha ukunyuka kwemizwelo kunganqandwa okanye kuthintelwe ukutyelela okulula okanye umnxeba kumngane.
Kubalulekile ukuba abantu abathathu bazizwe bemkelwe yiontanga zabo kwaye babe nezokhuseleko bazi ukuba banamalungu esikolweni, kumaqela emidlalo, nakweminye imimandla ebalulekileyo yobomi babo.
Qinisekisa ukuba phakathi kwakho kuphuhlisa ubuhlobo obuhle kwaye unethuba lokuxhoma kunye nabahlobo bakhe rhoqo. I-Sleepovers yindlela enhle yokuba abantu baxhamle kunye nabahlobo babo, kwaye benze ezintsha. Ukuba umntwana wakho uxakeke kakhulu ukuba angafumani ixesha lokuchitha kunye nabahlobo, kusenokuba ixesha lokuhlelwa kwakhona kwezi shedyuli.
Nika ixesha leNtsapho Yolonwabo
I-kati yakho ingenza abahlobo abaninzi, kodwa kubalulekile ukuba agcine ubuhlobo obusondeleyo nawe. Qinisekisa ukuba lwakho usapho luceba ukuphuma kwintsapho, okanye ucwangcise ixesha elilodwa ngeyodwa phakathi kwakho ukuya kwi-movie, uthathe iklasi, okanye ujonge nezinye izinto. Ukuchitha ixesha kunye nawe kungaba yintoni okufunekayo phakathi kwakho, kwaye uya kuyonwaba nayo.
Qinisekisa ukuba i-Tween yakho isebenzisa
Ukuzivocavoca yingxenye ebalulekileyo yimihla ngemihla, kwaye imizimba ekhulayo ekhulayo imfuneko kakhulu yokuzilolonga ukuze ihlale iqinile kwaye ibanike amandla abayifunayo ukuba bajongane neentsuku zabo ezixakekile kunye neminyaka eyishumi elizayo. Ukuba umntwana wakho engathathi nxaxheba kumsebenzi wezemidlalo, qiniseka ukuba uchitha ixesha ukuhamba, ibhayisikishi, i-skateboarding, okanye asebenze kwezinye imidlalo ezingabandakanyeli. Ukuhamba malunga nommandla emva kokutya kunokunceda uhlale phakathi kwakho, kwaye xa uhamba kunye kukunika ithuba lokuba bobabini nibambisane.
Yenza Umntwana Wakho Avule
Ngamanye amaxesha ukubonakalisa ukuguquka kwemizwelo kuba kukho into eyenzekayo ebomini babo ephazamisayo. Kungaba ngumlo nomhlobo olungileyo, ingxaki esikolweni, okanye into eyenzeka ekhaya. Qinisekisa ukuba uvumele ithuba phakathi kwakho ithuba lokuvulela kuwe, ukuba ngaba unokukhathazeka. Yiba novelwano kwaye uncede ingxaki isombulule. Yiba nethemba phakathi kwakho, kunye neziphakamiso zeengxaki. Nika umntwana wakho ixesha lokugqithisa into enxulumene nayo. Ngamanye amaxesha ixesha elithile lisebenza ezimangalisayo.