Eminye imikhwa emibi kufuneka ihambe
Abantwana, njengabantu abadala, banokufumana imichimo emihle, kwaye ukuphula yonke imikhosi kubandakanya ukuzinikezela nokusebenza kanzima. Ukuba i-pakati yakho ithathe imichimo embalwa ebalulekileyo kubalulekile ukuba uncede ukuba aphule ngokukhawuleza, ukuze aqale kwiminyaka eselula ifanelekileyo. Ngezantsi zizinto ezimbalwa eziqhelekileyo zihlala zifuna ukuhamba emva.
Izingozi zokutya
Ukuba i-kati yakho ingathanda ukufikelela kumntwana wezambatho phezu kwesiqhamo esitsha, akayedwa. Ngubani ongakuthandi ukutya okungafunekiyo, kodwa into yokuba umzimba womntwana wakho usakhula kwaye udinga ukutya okunempilo ukwenza zonke izinto afuna ukuzenza nokuzigcina enempilo kwaye eqinile. Qiniseka ukuba unciphisa ukhetho lwe-junk ukutya kwaye ukhuthaze ukutya okuphilileyo xa unako.
Ukugxeka abanye
I-kati yakho indala ngokwaneleyo ukuqala ukuthatha uxanduva malunga nezenzo zakhe. Ukuba umntwana wakho utyala abanye (ootitshala, abantakwabo, abazalwana) kukho konke okungahambi kakuhle, unokufuna ukukhuthaza ukuba phakathi kwakho uchithe ixesha elincinane ukuqwalasela izenzo zakhe. Musa ukuvumela ukuba phakathi kwakho kuphephe kwimiphumo. Enye indlela yokukhupha umdlalo wakho wokulahlwa ngumntwana kukuzichaza ngokuya phambili ukuba zeziphi iimiphumo xa uyahluleka ukwenza umsebenzi wakhe wesikolo, uhlambulule igumbi lakhe, okanye aphule ixesha lokufika.
Ukuvumela abanye benze izinto kuye
Eminye i-twee iyakwazi ukuzimela ngokuzimeleyo, ngelixa abanye baya kuvumela nabani na (abazali, oogogo nomkhulu okanye abazalwana babo) ukuba banakekele izinto.
Qiniseka ukuba unqande isilingo sokucoca igumbi lomntwana wakho, wenze umsebenzi wakhe wesikolo okanye uvumele umntwana wakho ukuba agxininise uxanduva lwakhe. Ishadi lomsebenzi kunye neseshati yomsebenzi wesikolo kuya kunceda umntwana wakho ahlale ecaleni kweembopheleleko zakhe neemfanelo zakhe. Qinisekisa ukuba unikezela izikhumbuzo ezifanelekileyo ukukhuthaza uhlangothi lwakho ukuba ulandele, kunye nemiphumo xa engenzi.
Ukuqalekisa
Umntwana wakho uya kuva malunga negama eliqalekisiweyo esikolweni okanye xa ekhwele ibhasi. Kodwa ukuba awuyi kumisa ukuqalekisa ngoku, akunakwenzeka ukuba ufike phakathi kwakho ukuyeka. Qiniseka ukuba umntwana uyazi indlela ozivakalelwa ngayo ngokuthuka, kwaye akunakunqweneleka ukuthukisa kuba kwenza abanye bazive bengakhululekile. Ukuba uhlala uqalekisa zonke izinto ngoku, qiniseka ukuba uqaphela impazamo yakho kwaye vumela ukuba phakathi kwakho wazi ukuba ngelixa kunzima ukuphelisa ngokupheleleyo, kubalulekile ukuzama.
Ukunyamezela rhoqo
Ukuba i-kati yakho ayinanto into efanelekileyo yokuthetha, kungase kube nesikhathi sokunceda umntwana wakho asebenzise ukulungiswa kwesimo sengqondo. Ukuba awukwazi ukwenza ngoku, le minyaka eyiminyaka iya kuba yinto enzima kakhulu. Zama ukubonisa izinto ezintle kuyo nayiphi na imeko, kwaye vumela ukuba phakathi kwakho wazi ukuba indlela akhetha ngayo ukusabela kwimingeni yinto anokulawula. Yiba nesimo esihle, kuba i-kati yakho iyakuqwalasela izenzo zakho.
Ukuziphatha okungalunganga
I-Tweens ayisoloko ihlambulukile njengokuba sifuna ukuba ibe, kwaye ukutshatyalaliswa komntwana kungenza konke kube nzima. Ukuba umntwana wakho udlala umdlalo okanye usebenza kakhulu, ucoceko lubaluleke kakhulu. Qiniseka ukuba unikezela phakathi kwakho ngolwazi kunye nemveliso ekufuneka ayenze ukucoceka kakuhle.
Sithengise indawo yokulala yabantwana kunye nesepha, ithawula, i-shampoo, kunye ne-conditioner, kwaye qi niqiniseke ukuba imvula rhoqo kwaye ngokukhethekileyo emva kwemidlalo okanye yokusebenzisa.
Ukulala
Umntwana wakho omdala unokufuna ukuba afike esikolweni ngaphambi kweziko lesikolo, kwaye oko kuthetha ukuba ukuphuma ebhedini kunokuba ngumngeni wangempela. Ukuba umntwana wakho elele kwaye elahlekile ibhasi, unokunceda ukumbuyisela kwishedyuli. Qiniseka ukuba phakathi kwakho ubeka iingubo ebusuku, upake iimpahla zakhe zasemini, kwaye unakho konke ukulungele umhla olandelayo. Gcina i-kati yakho kwishedyuli yobuthongo obunzima, ngokucima ngokukhawuleza amadivaysi kagesi ebusuku, ukumngenisa egumbini lakhe lokulala, nokukhuthaza ukulala nokuphumla.
Qiniseka ukuba phakathi kwakho akanayo ithelevishini, okanye ikhompyutha egumbini lokulala, njengokuba kunokumlinga umntwana wakho kwaye ulibale ixesha lokulala.
Ukuba u-pakati wakho usalala, ungadinga ukubeka iziphumo zokungakwazi kwakhe ukwenza izinto zihambele ekuseni.
Ukuba Zonke Iimpendulo
Musa ukumangaliswa ukuba umntwana wakho onomdla unqumle ukuba unayo yonke impendulo, kwaye awazi ukuba phantse kunokuba wawuqhele kangakanani. Umntwana wakho unokuphephelela isimo sengqondo kuwe, iqabane lakho, ugogo nomkhulu okanye ootitshala. Ihlazo xa umntwana ehlambalaza kwaye engahloneli abanye , kodwa ukuba uvumela umntwana wakho ukuba ahambe ngokuziphatha kakubi, unokuhlala eqhubekayo. Qinisekisa ukuba umntwana wakho uyazi kwaye uyaziqonda iimpawu zakho zeentsapho kunye nokulindela kwakho malunga nokuziphatha kwakhe kwabanye, ngakumbi abanye abadala. Umzekelo wokuziphatha kakuhle kwaye ukuba i-kati yakho ibanjwe yinto ehlambalazayo okanye engenakuhlonela, musa ukuzithethelela. Kunoko, landela ngemiphumo emihle kwaye uthethe malunga nento ofuna ukuyibona.
Ukutya okungekho ukutya
Namhlanje i-tweens i-snackers, kwaye ngelishwa, bathambekele ekutyikeleni ukutya okungekho ncinane okanye akukho nondlo. Iishedyuli ezihambayo zingabangela ityala. Kulula kakhulu ukufikelela kwisikhwama se-chips xa usebenza ukusuka kwesinye isiganeko ukuya kwesinye kunokuba wenze i-snack enempilo. Ukuba ufuna umntwana wakho amkele ukutya okunesondlo, kufuneka uzinikezele. Qala ngokukhupha zonke ukutya okungahambi kakuhle, kwaye ubeke endaweni yazo ngeendlela eziqhelekileyo. Tshintsha iipups kunye ne-crudites okanye i-chips seaweed, i-substituted hummus ye-chip dip, kunye nesitokhi kwi-muffins enesinqweno kunye nesonka ukubuyisela iikhokheki kunye nesonka esimhlophe. I-Sodas ayikho-ayi. Khuthaza uhlangothi lwakho ukuba uhlale u-hydrated ngamanzi atywalayo, okanye ngezinye iinkompo indebe yetiyi. Zama ukucwangciswa kokutya kunye kunye nokuthenga ukutya, ukuze ube nokutya okunempilo endlwini yonke ixesha. Kwakhona, kunokuba kuyonwaba ukubhalisela iklasi yokupheka ndawonye, ngoko wena kunye ne-middle yakho ningafunda ubuchule bokucwangcisa imenyu, ukupheka nokwenza ukutya okunomsoco. Idolophu yeepaki kunye nezolonwabo zendawo zokuba yindawo enhle yokufumana iiklasi ezinjalo.
Ukuthabatha abantu ukuVunywa
I-kati yakho iyazimela kwaye mhlawumbi i-self-consciousness. Kulula kakhulu ukuba i-tween kunye nentsha bacinge ukuba ihlabathi libhekiselele kubo, kwaye bathathe intsapho, abahlobo kunye nootitshala ukuba banikezele. Kodwa umntwana wakho udala ngokwanele ukuqala ukufunda indlela yokubonisa ukubonga kwabo banceda umntwana wakho ngosuku. Qala ngokubonisa indlela abanye abanceda ngayo phakathi kwakho yonke imihla, ngokubakhokela esikolweni, ukufundisa okanye ukuqeqesha okanye ukwenza ukutya kwabo. Buza uhlangothi lwakho ukuba wabelane ngamabali abantu abamncedayo ngaloo mini, okanye bandise inceba. Ngeeholide, yenza i-kati yakho yenza uludwe lwabantu afuna ukuvuma ngekhadi okanye isipho esincinane.
Ukuthaka kwi-Acne
I-middle and teen years ingaba nzima ukuba ukuzithemba komntwana wakho njengemigodi kunye neminye imiba yembumba ingathatha umthwalo. Ncedisa phakathi kwakho ufunde iindlela zokucoceka ezinempilo kunye nemikhwa yokunakekelwa kwesikhumba. I-kati yakho kufuneka yazi indlela yokunyamekela isikhumba sakhe kwaye sifunde ubuchule bokusingatha i-breakouts kunye ne-acne. Qhagamshelana nomntwana wakho okanye udokotela wezilwanyana ngeengcebiso kunye neencomo zomkhiqizo. Uninzi lweemveliso zamanqwanqwa lunokukunceda ngamaxesha amancinci okanye amaxesha athile, kodwa isicaka esinzulu okanye se-cystic sinokufuna isiluleko se-dermatologist. Qiniseka ukuba phakathi kwakho akukhethi i-acne, kuba oko kunokukhokelela ekubhenkeni kwaye kwenza izinto zibe zibi nakakhulu.
Ukwenza iMilayezo
Abantwana benza izidlo, kodwa nabantwana abaselula banokufundiswa ukuba bathathe amathoyizi abo kunye neencwadi. Umntwana wakho omdala unokulibala konke owamfundisayo ngokukhetha nokushiya izinto ngendlela ozifumene ngayo. Uya kufuneka uhlale ukhumbuza umntwana wakho ukuba ngumsebenzi wonke umntu ukuba angene ngaphakathi kwaye enze imisebenzi yenziwe. Kwakhona uya kuba nokukhumbuza umntwana wakho ukuba unembopheleleko kuyo nayiphi na imiphunga ayenzayo. Unokufuna ukunyanzelisa imigaqo kunye nemiphumo ukuze umntwana wakho azi ukuba awunabantwana.
Ukulibala ukuSebenza
Umdlali wakho onomdla wepayano angasayi kusebenza ukusebenza ixesha kwixesha lakhe. I-twey i-Busy ihlala ikhupha imisebenzi kunye neemfuno eziye zamkela, ngenxa yecandelo loxanduva lokunyuka esikolweni, kunye nezinto ezithandekayo kunye nezinto ezithandwayo ezithatha ixesha labo. Unokudinga ukukunceda phakathi kwakho ukubonisa indlela yokulungiselela ixesha lakhe lokukhulula, kwaye ufumane iindlela zokufikelela kuzo zonke izinto ezigcina umntanakho uxakekile kwaye aphucule. Ukuba umntwana wakho akasakwazi ukuqhubeka kunye nemisebenzi yakhe, kusenokuba yithuba lokuphelisa imisebenzi embalwa kwishedyuli yakho.
Ukungahloneli
I-Tweens kunye nentsha ayisekho abantwana abancinci abancinci bebakho kwaye unokufumana ukuziphatha komntwana wakho kunye nolwimi ngamanye amaxesha alufanelekanga. Umntwana wakho uva zonke iintlobo zezinto esikolweni kunye nebhasi kunye nokusebenza kwintsimi, kwaye ngelixa ungafanele umangaliswe ukuba i-tween yakho ngezinye iinkhathi ikhupha uluvo olubi okanye igama rhoqo ngoku, kufuneka wenze konke okufunekayo ukwenza qiniseka ukuba umntwana wakho akahlali nomkhwa omubi oquka ukunxibelelana okukhohlakeleyo. Fundisa i-kati yakho ngendlela ethetha ngayo iya kuba nefuthe ngqo kwindlela abanye abayibonayo ngayo nokuba ulwimi alisebenzisa lunokwenza abanye bazive bengakhululekile. Ukuthuka okuqhubekayo kuyinkqubo enzima yokuphuka, kwaye kulula ukukhusela kunokuba uqondise phambili kamva, ngoko uzame ukukunceda ukuba phakathi kwakho ufumane ukulawula ngoku, ngelixa uqhubeka unempembelelo ekusebenzeni kwakho.
Kwakhona kubalulekile ukuba uhlaziye ngezihlandlo indlela umntwana wakho aphatha ngayo abanye, kuquka nabantwana, abadala, ootitshala kunye nabaqeqeshi. Ukuba ukuziphatha komntwana wakho kuphelelwa ngamanye amaxesha, nikela isikhumbuzo esifanelekileyo kwaye akufanelekanga. Ukuziphatha kwakho phakathi kwamanje kuya kuvula indlela yokuziphatha ngayo kwiminyaka yeshumi elivisayo nangaphezulu.
Ukugcina igumbi lokulala lokulala
Kusemgangathweni ngokulinganayo iminyaka yakho ukubonisa iimpawu zokuphazamiseka kwaye igumbi lakhe liya kuhlupheka. Ukuba umntwana wakho ugcina igumbi elilalayo okanye indawo yakhe, zama ukuba ungenzi iimfuno ezingenangqiqo ukuba igumbi lakhe ligcinwe li-spic kwaye lihlambuluke. Kunoko, kufuna umntwana wakho ukuba athathe ikamelo kanye ngeveki. Unokuqwalasela ukuseta ishedyuli okanye ukudala i-chart chore eya kunceda umntwana wakho ahlale kwindlela. Yenza kube mnandi kwaye kube lula phakathi kwakho ukugcina igumbi lakhe licocekile. Ukunikezela ngamabha, ukuphazamisa, iibhasiki kunye nezinye izixhobo zokugcina ukukunceda umntwana wakho afumane iindlela zokuhlela izinto zakhe. Qinisekisa ukuba uhambo lwakho luhamba ngeefestile kunye nabagcini ukuba benze indawo yezinto ezintsha, kwaye ujonge ukulungelelanisa igumbi ukwenzela ukuba kube lula kwiqela lakho ukugcina lihlambulukile.
Ukukhohlisa
Kunzima kumzali xa babamba umntwana wabo elele kubo. I-Tweens ingakhohlisa ngenxa yokuba ayifuni ukungena enkingeni, abafuni ukuba abazali babo bacaphuke okanye badanike ngazo, okanye ngenxa yokuba bafuna ukubona ukuba bangabaleka njani. Ukuba ubamba ubuxoki bakho phakathi, lixesha lokuxubusha phakathi kwakho. Chaza ukuba kutheni kubaluleke kakhulu kubazali kunye nabantwana ukuba bathembisane, kwaye ukuba xa kuthembela ukulahleka, kunokuba nzima ukubuyela. Cacisa phakathi kwakho ukuba ufuna ukwazi inyaniso kunokuba utshelwe amanga. Ukuba uhlangothi lwakho luhlala luxoki, usenokufuna ukucela uncedo lomcebisi wesikolo okanye ugqirha ukukunceda ukuphuhlisa izicwangciso zokujongana nokulala kwakho kunye nokukunceda ukuguqula.