Iimfuno ezizodwa zeemfuno zeemidlalo kunye neemidlalo Umntwana Wakho Uyakuthanda

Akuzona zonke iimfuno ezizodwa zokudlala iindleko ezingaphezulu!

Xa ucinga "ngeemfuno ezizodwa zemidlalo kunye nemidlalo," unokucinga izinto ezixabisekileyo kunye nezixhobo ezizodwa. Yaye ngokuqinisekileyo unokufumana izinto ezinjalo ezixabiso eliphezulu ezibonelelwe ngamakhampani ekhethekileyo. Kodwa into yokuba akukho nto imfuneko yokuba abazali bathenge iimveliso ezibhalwe "iimfuno ezizodwa." I-Walmart endala, i-Toys R Us, okanye ezinye iidysy and imidlalo ezenziweyo zisebenza ngendlela efanayo, kwaye zizonwabisa kakhulu.

Yintoni eyenza iimfuno ezizodwa iimpahla kunye neemidlalo ezizodwa?

Into eyona nto eyenza imfuno ezizodwa iimfuno "ezizodwa" yileyibhile, kunye nenyaniso yokuba ithengi ithengwa kumntwana ngolunye uhlobo lophuhliso lophuhliso. Kodwa iimidlalo ezingcono kunye nemidlalo yeemfuno ezizodwa abantwana banezinto ezifanayo:

• Zikhuselekile kwaye zizonwabisayo abantwana abaneengxaki zengqondo kunye / okanye zemingcipheko yomzimba . Ukukhetha okulungileyo kunokubandakanya i-soap bubbles kunye neetshoni ezithengileyo xa kukhethwa ukukhetha okungalunganga kuba ngumdlalo ophezulu okhompyutheni ofuna ukusebenzisana okunzima ukudlala.
• Zifuna amaqondo angaphantsi okugxininiswa, ukusetyenziswa kolwimi, nokulungelelaniswa ngokomzimba, njenge-slide yangasemva okanye i-swing. Umdlalo webhodi I-Monopoly ayiyi kuba yinto efanelekileyo.
• Ziyakwazi ukulungelelanisa ngokwaneleyo ukuba zisetyenziswe okanye zidlalwe ngeendlela ezahlukeneyo, kunye okanye ezingenabalingani abaninzi. Iibhloko okanye i-Legos yimizekelo emikhulu yeethayi elinjalo, ngelixa i-badminton isethi ayikho.

Yintoni eyenza iimfuno ezizodwa iimpahla kunye neemidlalo ezonyango?

Kukho izinto ezimbini ezinokwenza amathoyizi kunye nemidlalo yokwelapha yabantwana abaneengqondo, ezentlalo, ulwimi, ingqiqo, okanye ingxaki. Zilula kakhulu:

• Ukuze kube yonyango, umdlalo okanye ithoyizi kufuneka ujongwe kunye nomnye umntu ozimiseleyo nokukwazi ukusebenzisa amava ukukunceda ukwakha izakhono.

• Ukuxhasa imingeni yomnxeba kunye nokubonelela ngembuyekezo, umdlalo okanye ithoyizi kufuneka ibenze kwaye ihlekise (okanye iyamnandi kwaye igxeke) yomdlali.

Ngamafutshane, ukuba udlala nomntwana wakho kwaye udibanise naye, kwaye umntwana wakho uyakuthanda umdlalo okanye ithoyizi oyisebenzisayo, unika amava okwelapha.

Ngaphambi kokuba Uthenge

Ngaphambi kokuthenga okanye ukwenza nantoni na kwiimfuno zakho ezizodwa, khumbula ukuba injongo yakho ukubandakanya umntwana wakho ngento enokuyithandayo. Oku kunokuthetha ukuba umdlalo okanye umdlalo "uselula kakhulu" okanye "kulula kakhulu" kumntu wengane yakho yokulandelana kweminyaka.

Abantwana abaneemfuno ezizodwa, ngeenkcazo, bakhule ngezinga elifani kunontanga yabo. Oku kuthetha ukuba wakho-oneminyaka eyi-10 ubudala kunye ne-autism unokunandipha umdlalo kaTomas kwiintshoni zeTanjini kwaye unesihlandlo esinzima kakhulu "ngomdlalo ofanelekileyo" umdlalo wevidiyo. Njengomzali, usenokufuneka ugqibe ukuzingca kwakho kwaye unike umntwana wakho umdlalo okanye amava ukuba ulungele-nokuba ngaba iminyaka ebhokisini ibonakala incinci kakhulu.

Njengoko ukhangele amathoyizi, soloko ukhumbula engqondweni ukuba "amathoyizi" amathoyizi ngokuqhelekileyo aguqulelwe kwiinguqu zamanani eziqhelekileyo. "Utyando lwezonyango" lufana neSilly Putty. Iimpawu ezikhethekileyo zeetayidi ziphantse zifana namathoyizi asetsana athengiswa kwiWalmart yakho yasekhaya.

Kodwa, qaphela ukuba uthengise amathoyizi umntwana wakho angakunqumla okanye adibanise izinto ezinobungozi.

Iimpapasho ezi-10 eziphezulu zeemidlalo kunye neMidlalo yabantwana abanezidingo ezizodwa

1. Iibhloko, i-Legos, kunye nemidlalo yokuzakhela efanayo: iibhloko eziphambili kunye nezinye izithako zokwakha (zininzi iimpawu ezahlukahlukeneyo kumanqaku athile ahlukeneyo) zincinci kakhulu kwaye ziyakhula kunye nomntwana wakho. Umntwana wakho angase aqale ngokubethelela kodwa angakwazi ukugqiba lula kwizakhiwo zokwakha, imigudu, iindlela kunye nokunye. Okubaluleke kakhulu, ezi zixhobo ezisisiseko zilungele ukwakha izakhono zokudlala kunye nentsebenziswano yentlalo-ngakumbi xa udlala nomntwana wakho.

1. Elula, ekhuselekileyo yenze iithayibhile: Iintwana ezinemiba engqondweni (kunye nabanye abaninzi abantwana!) Bathanda ukuhlawula. Bounce ibhola kunye neengxaki (ngamanye amaxesha ubizwa ngokuthi "Hippety-Hop") zikhethekileyo. Ngako-ke, ngokunjalo, i-mini-trampolines enezixhobo. Hayi nje kuphela le midlalo yokuzonwabisa (ikakhulukazi xa uthenga ezimbini kwaye udlala kunye), kodwa ingasetyenziswa njengemivuzo yokuziphatha kakuhle .
2. Ukuguquka kunye neeslayidi: Unokuthenga izinto ezibiza kakhulu "ukuvalelwa", okanye ukufumana ixabiso elincinci, eliphantsi kweendleko kwivenkile yakho yokudlala okanye kwi-intanethi. Ukuba awuqinisekanga ukuba umntwana wakho ulungele ukulinganisela kakuhle, uthenge ukuguquka okunalo ibhande (kulula ukuyifumana, kwaye ngokuqhelekileyo ukulungelelaniswa ngosayizi). Iislayidi zingaba iplastiki encinciweyo okanye inkulu kwaye inzima. Iislayidi ezincinci zingasetyenziselwa kwindlu ebusika (ibhonasi enhle).
3. Amathoyizi amanzi: Nantoni na esebenzisa amanzi kunye nesepha ingaba mnandi kakhulu, inxibelelwano kunye nokubandakanya umntwana onemfuno ezizodwa. Zama iintlobo ezahlukeneyo, ukusuka kwiSlip-n-Slides ukuya kumafafaza asebenzisanayo ukuya kwi-submarines kunye neekhephe. Cinga ngamathoyizi e-squirt ukuba uzimisele ukusingatha umonakalo!
4. Bubbles kunye ne-foam: I- bubbles soap iyakonwaba ukupasa, ukuxosha, nokubukela. Kodwa ukubethelela ngempumelelo ngempumelelo kukufuna ukulawulwa kakuhle kweemoto kwakunye nesantya esithile somonde. Kukho uluhlu oluninzi lokuzonwabisa olumnandi kunye nokwenza amathoyizi kwiimarike; enye okanye ngaphezulu iyakwazi ukugqibelela wena nomntwana wakho.
5. Iipuzzle: Iipuzzle yinto efanelekileyo ukuba umntwana wakho ukhetha imisebenzi engaphezulu. Njengamaninzi amathoyizi achazwe, banokukhula bebunzima ngobunono bomntwana bakho, kwaye bayonwaba ukwenza kunye. Le mihla, kulula ukuba neepuzzle ezenziwe nayo nayiphi na imifanekiso oyikhethayo, ngoko kutheni ungakhethi umfanekiso okanye umlinganiso osuvele umthanda umntwana wakho?
6. I-Toys "ebonakalayo": Ngokuchasene nawaphi abathengisi abanokukuxelela, umdlalo ongenakwenzakala ngokwenene uyinto enika ingxelo engqondweni. Le nto ingaba yinto yokudlala eyenza i-buzz okanye i-beeps. Iyakwazi kwakhona ukubeka i-putty, ukudlala inhlama, udongwe, "i-fidget" okanye "ukuxinezeleka" kweebhola, ukukhathazeka kwimiba, njalonjalo. Zonke ezi zinto zifumaneka ngexabiso eliphantsi kwiindawo ezininzi zokuthengisa. Akunjalo njengendlela yokuthetha kunye nezinye iibheyi ezichazwe, kodwa ngokwenene zinokunceda ukunciphisa uxhalaba.
7. Ikhadi elilula kunye neMidlalo yeBhodi : I- Chess inakho (okanye ingenakho!) Ibe ngaphezu kweemfuno zakho ezizodwa zemfuno zabantwana, kodwa kukho ithuba elihle lokuba imidlalo yezingane zakudala ayikho. Ukuba umntwana wakho unomdla kunye nomdla, zama ukufundisa ezinye zeeklasiki. Hamba iintlanzi, i-Uno, iMfazwe, i-Checkers, Xhasela ezine, kunye nezinye imidlalo ezininzi zifutshane kwaye zilula, kodwa zifuna ukutshintsha, ukuthatha intsebenziswano kunye nentsebenziswano ethile.
8. Izixhobo zobugcisa: Amakhrayoni amakhulu, amanqaku kunye neepensele ezinemibala kunokuba mnandi kakhulu kubantwana naliphi na izinga lokukwazi nobuchule. Iincwadi zokubala zikhethekileyo kubantwana abaninzi, njengoko zigcina umonwabo ngaphakathi kwemida kwaye zivumele abantwana ukuba "badale" abalinganiswa babo abathandayo. Umdla (njengoko ukhankanywe apha ngasentla) bobubili bugcisa kunye neyonyango.
9. Iidolophu ze-Pop-Up kunye neMidlalo yokudlala: Iindleko eziphantsi kwaye kulula ukuyigcina, iipalati zokukhupha, indawo yokudlala, kunye neentente ziimpawu zokuzonwabisa ezizodwa zemfuno ezizodwa. Baxhasa ukuphuhliswa kweemoto eziphambili, ukubonelela ukuphunyuka, kunye nokukhuthaza umdlalo wokufuzisela xa usetyenzisiwe ngobuchule (uncedo lwabazali lungafuneka).