Iphupha lomzali lobuntwana obungabonakaliyo kubantwana babo. Okwenyani, kunjalo, kukuba ubomi bomntwana bunokuba buxinzeleleke njengomntu omdala, kuxhomekeke kwiimeko - kodwa umntwana akaxhotyiswanga ngokupheleleyo ukujongana nokuxininisa lo mbandezelo.
Umntwana ngamnye uyasabela ngokungafaniyo kwiziganeko ezixinzelelekileyo, nokuba ngumtshato, ukufa kwintsapho, ubunzima esikolweni okanye ukuhamba okukhulu.
Umntwana wakho ufuna uncedo lwakho ekujongeni lo xinzelelo. Isinyathelo sokuqala kuwe, njengomzali, kukuba uqaphele iimpawu ezilumkiso ezingumntwana wakho onzima.
Khangela iimpawu zoxinzelelo
Ngenxa yempembelelo yomzimba ebuchosheni bomntwana, uxinzelelo lubangela "impendulo yokulwa okanye indiza" impendulo enokuba luncedo kwithuba elifutshane - njengokulungiselela uvavanyo - kodwa lonakalise ixesha elide. Ngenxa yokuba ingqondo yengane yakho yinkqubo yokuphuhliswa ngokukhawuleza, ezi mpendulo ze-hormonal zingonakalisa amandla okufunda nokuziphatha.
Ukuba umntwana wakho oqhelekileyo uye waziphatha ngokukhawuleza waqala ukuphosa umsindo okanye ukungena enkingeni esikolweni, kungabonakalisa ukuba ugxininisekile . Iimpawu zokuziphatha ukuba umntwana uhlangabezana noxinzelelo zibandakanya umsindo , inkululeko, ukuziphatha kakubi , ukukhala, ukunyaniseka kunye nokuxubha .
Kukho nemimiselo yeendlela ezingezizo zokuziphatha. Izibhedlele, izikhalazo zesifo somzimba njengama-aches esiswini okanye iintloko, kunye neengxaki zemfundo.
Phendula kwizinto ezingalunganga
Kukho umgca ongezantsi phakathi kokuqonda apho ukuziphatha komntwana wakho kuvela khona kwaye umxolele ukulandela imigaqo. Yazisa iimvakalelo zomntwana wakho, kodwa uchaza ukuba kukho iindlela eziphilileyo zokujongana neemvakalelo ezingenakukhathazeka . Fundisa umntwana wakho iindlela ezifanelekileyo zokujongana nokuxhalaba, ukukhungatheka kunye nomsindo.
Kwezinye iimeko, unokukhetha ukuhamba okanye ufune ukubandakanya. Kodwa musa ukunyanzelisa imfuno yomntwana wakho wokuthandana. Bonisa umntanakho uthando oluthe xaxa ngeli xesha loxinzelelo, nangona xa ezama i-nerve yakho yokugqibela.
Ukunciphisa Ingcinezelo Yomntwana Wakho
Cinga ngendlela owehlisa ngayo uxinzelelo ebomini bakho: imisebenzi ephumayo efana neebhola zokuhlamba? Uninzi lomsebenzi? Ixesha elihle kunye nabahlobo? Zonke ezi ngcamango zingasetyenziswa kubantwana, nabo.
Ncedisa umntwana wakho ukuba akwazi ukujamelana noxinzelelo ngokukhuthaza ukuxinwa kwempilo. Ngamanye amaxesha, umntwana wakho angenakufuna ukuthetha nawe - kodwa ukuhlala nje kwigumbi elifanayo kunye nokwanele ukumbonisa ukuba uyamkhathalela. Ukuchitha ixesha kunye kubaluleke ngakumbi ukuba imeko exinzelelekileyo ihambelana nokuqhawula okanye ukufa.
Ukuba uxinzelelo luvela kwixhala lengaziwa - njengokufudukela kwisixeko esitsha okanye ukuqala kwisikolo esitsha - ncedisa umntwana wakho ukuba aqonde oko kuya kwenzeka. Thetha malunga nokulindela nokulungiselela umntwana wakho okusemandleni akho, ngokujonga imifanekiso yeso sixeko esitsha okanye ngokudlala kwindawo yokudlala kwisikolo esitsha ngaphambi kwexesha.
Ingaba uzisa ekhaya umntwana omtsha okanye ushukuthela kwindawo engcono, amava amahle anokunyanzela umntwana.
Naluphina uhlobo lotshintsho lunokuphazamisa intlalo yengane yakho okwesikhashana.
Gwema ixesha elikrini
Unokuba ucinga ukuba ukutshixa umntwana phambi kweTV ukuze ukhulule kakhulu isisombululo esihle kakhulu, ingakumbi ukuba umncinane wakho uhlala ecelwa ixesha elithile leskrini.
Kodwa ukubukela iTV okanye ukudlala imidlalo yevidiyo akuyi kuphumla. Abantwana baphendule bhetele kwiindlela ezininzi zokuphucula - ezifana nokuzilolonga okanye ukucamngca.
Xa uvumela ixesha leskrini, khumbula ukuba ezinye iinkqubo zinokunyanzela njani umntwana wakho ngaphezulu. Iindaba ezihlwaya, umzekelo, zizaliswe ngamabali eentlekele zemvelo kunye nobugebengu obundlobongela.
Qinisekisa ukuba ixesha leskrini somntwana liquka kuphela umxholo omdala.
Funa UluNcedo lwezakhono
Njengomzali, mhlawumbi unako izakhono eziyimfuneko ukujongana nemiba enxulumene noxinzelelo. Nangona kunjalo, ukuba ufumanisa ukuba kunzima kakhulu ukuphatha, ungesabi ukufuna uncedo lobuchwepheshe .
Ingaba umthombo woxinzelelo ungaphantsi okanye ixesha elide, ukutyelela ingcali yengqondo yengqondo kungokuba yintoni umntwana wakho kufuneka ayenze ukujamelana nayo aze abuyele kwizinto zakhe eziqhelekileyo nezothando. Ngamanye amaxesha, ukutyelela okufutshane kumsebenzi weengcali kunokuqinisekisa ukuba umntwana unalo izakhono afuna ukuhlangabezana nazo naziphi na iingxaki ezijongene nazo.