I-teknoloji yatshintshile okanye yenza ukuba abantu abaselula bajamelane nazo.
Ukuqhubela phambili kwitheknoloji kuthetha ukuba intsha yanamhlanje ibhekane nemiba engazange ibone isizukulwana esidlulileyo. Nangona ezinye iimeko ezingekho ntsha, i-media media iye yatshintsha okanye yandisa ezinye zezilwanyana ezijongene nazo.
Enyanisweni, umntwana osemncinci uchitha iiyure ezingama-9 ngosuku ngalunye usebenzisa izixhobo zakhe zobugcisa. Imimiselo yabo yokuzonwabisa yoluntu kunye nokusetyenziswa kwamaphephandaba kushintsha indlela abantu abaselula abakwazi ukuthetha ngayo, ukufunda, ukulala nokusebenzisa umzimba.
Nazi izinto eziphezulu ezili-10 ezisemlwaneni namhlanje:
1. Uxinzelelo
Kulinganiselwa ukuba izigidi ezi-3 eziselula ezise-United States zineziganeko ezili-1 ezidityanisiweyo. Le nani imele i-12.5 ekhulwini yabemi base-US phakathi kweminyaka eyi-12 neye-17.
Iziphazamiso ezixhalabisayo zonyango kodwa kubalulekile ukufuna uncedo lobuchwepheshe. ukuba umntwana wakho ubonakala elahliwe, ufumana utshintsho kwiindlela zakhe zokulala, okanye uqala ukwenza kakubi esikolweni, cwangcisa ukuqeshana nodokotela wakho osemtsha okanye udibanise neengcali zempilo yengqondo.
2. Ukuxhatshazwa
Ngokomphando owenziwa yi-Family First Aid, i-30 ekhulwini yabantwana abase-US baye babandakanyeka ekuxhatshazelweni-nokuba ngabaxhatshazwayo okanye njengenxuwa. Ukunyuka kweentlalo zentlalo ngokusetyenziswa kwentsha kuye kwenza ukuba ukuxhaphaza kuninzi ngakumbi kuluntu kwaye kwande kakhulu.
Thetha nomntwana wakho ngokutshatyalaliswa rhoqo. Xoxa into enokuyenza xa ebingqina ubungqineli kwaye akhulume ngezinto ezinokukhetha ukuba uya kuba yinjongo .
3. Umsebenzi wesondo
Ngophando olwenziwa ngo-2013 oluqhutywa ngamaziko okuLawula nokuLawulwa kwezifo, i-47 ekhulwini yabafundi bezikolo eziphakamileyo baxelele ukuba balala ngesondo, kwaye i-41 ekhulwini bathi abazange basebenzise ikhondom ngexesha lokuhlangana kwabo ngokwesondo sokugqibela. Kuzo izigidi ezingama-20 zezifo ezithathelwana ngesondo rhoqo ngonyaka, ngaphezu kwesahlulo phakathi kwabantu abaselula abaneminyaka eli-15 no-24.
Uphando lubonisa ukuba abaninzi abazali abakholelwa ukuba abantwana babo bayasebenza ngokwesondo. Thetha kwintsapho yakho ngesondo, nangona ungacingi ukuba umntwana wakho usebenza ngokwesondo.
4. Ukusetyenziswa kweziyobisi
Ukusetyenziswa kweMarijuana kuye kwanda phakathi kwabaselula kwiminyaka embalwa edlulileyo ngokweNkcazo kaZwelonke yokuLawulwa kweziyobisi. Ngo-2012, iipesenti ezili-17 ze-graders ezilishumi kunye nama-23 ekhulwini labali-12 abasebenzisa i-marijuana kwinyanga edlulileyo. Qaphela iimpawu ezilumkiso zokusetyenziswa kweziyobisi .
Gcina rhoqo iingxoxo malunga neengozi zamachiza. Futhi ungakulibala ukukhankanya ingozi yeziyobisi zemithi. Abaninzi abaselula abakwazi ukufumana ingozi yokuthatha imithi yomngane okanye ukuhamba neepilisi ezimbalwa ezingabelwe zona.
5. Utywala basebenzisi
I-National Institute of Abuse Abuse ixela ukusetyenziswa kotywala sele iyancipha phakathi kwabaselula. Ngo-2012, i-14.5 yeepesenti ye-10 ye-graders kunye ne-28.1 ekhulwini labali-12 ababikiweyo babika ukuba banxila ngenyanga edlulileyo. Uphando olufanayo olufumanisa ukuba ama-23.7 ekhulwini asebekhulile asebekhulile babika ukusela utywala (ezintlanu okanye ezinye iziphuzo ngaphezulu) kwiiveki ezidlulileyo.
Ncokola rhoqo ngeengozi zokusela kancinci. Fundisa wakho umntwana malunga neengozi. Ukuvakalisa ukungathobeli ukusela kwangaphantsi kunye nokuba kutheni kube yingozi kubaselula.
Ingayenza indlela ende yokunciphisa umngcipheko wakho wengane.
6. Ubukhulu
Uhlolo lweSizwe ka-2011 lweZingxelo zezeMpilo lwaBantwana lubonisa ukuba i-31.3 pesenti yabantwana base-United States phakathi kweminyaka eyi-10 no-17 yayingaphezu komzimba. Abantwana abasweleyo banomngcipheko omkhulu weengxaki zempilo yonke, ezifana nesifo sikashukela, i-arthritis, umhlaza, nesifo senhliziyo.
Uphando lubonisa abazali ababi ekuqapheliseni xa abantwana babo bekhulu kakhulu. Bavame ukunyanisela ubungakanani bomntwana babo kunye nobungozi obuchaphazelekayo. Xoxa nomntwana wezilwanyana ngokumalunga nomzimba kunye nobukhulu bomzimba zifanele ukuphakama kwentombazana yakho kunye nobudala kwaye ubuze malunga namanyathelo onokuthatha ukuze uqinisekise ukuba umntwana wakho usempilweni.
7. Iingxaki zezemfundo
Nangona izinga lokukhutshwa kwesikolo esiphakeme liyancipha kwinqanaba likazwelonke, abafundi abayizigidi ezi-1.2 behla kwi-schoo l ephakamileyo ngonyaka ngamnye e-United States, ngokweSiko leSizwe soLwazi lwezeMfundo. Ukuyeka ukuhamba esikolweni esiphakamileyo kuya kufumana imali engama-200 000 engaphantsi kwexesha lokuphila xa kuthelekiswa nokuphumelela esikolweni esiphakeme.
Akusekho nje "abafana abanentshutshiso" abasuka esikolweni. Abanye abatsha baziva bexinzelelo olunzulu ukuba bangene kwikholejini elungileyo abazitshisa phambi kokuba baphumelele esikolweni esiphakeme.
Hlala ubandakanyeka kwimfundo yakho yeselula. Ukubonelela ngenkxaso kunye nesikhokelo kwaye ulungele ukukunceda wakho umntwana xa ehlangabezana neengxaki.
8. Uxinzelelo lwabaontanga
Nangona uxinzelelo lwabaontanga alukho umtsha omtsha, amajelo asekuhlaleni aya kule nto entsha. Ngokomzekelo, ukuthunyelwa kwemiyalezo ye-Sexting kukuba yinkxalabo enkulu yokukhathazeka njengabaninzi abaselula abangaziqondi imiphumo ebomini abayifumana ngayo iifoto ezicacileyo.
Nika izakhono zakho zentsha ukwenza ukhetho oluphilileyo kunye nokuxhathisa uxinzelelo lwabaontanga. Thetha kwintsapho yakho malunga nokuba yintoni omele uyenze xa yenza iphutha. Ngamanye amaxesha, abantwana bangenza ukhetho olubi kwaye banokwesaba ukufuna uncedo. Khuthaza umntwana wakho ukuba akhulume xa enza iphutha.
9. IiMedia Media
I-Facebook , Instagram , kunye ne- Twitter zinokuba ziindlela ezintle zentsha yokuxhuma kunye. Kodwa, i-media media ingaba yingxaki kwizizathu ezininzi.
Imilayezo engafanelekanga ihlala ihamba nentsholongwane kumajelo asekuhlaleni kwaye abantwana bahlala beqhathanisa ngokwabo. Kwaye, kuthatha esinye isithuba ukuchitha intsha yakho ye-intanethi-nangona i- selfies engenakulimala ingabangela ingxaki
Yazi oko umntwana wakho akwenzayo kwi-intanethi. Zifundise malunga neenkqubo zakutsha, iiwebhsayithi, kunye namanqaku eendaba ezentlalo ezisebenzisa ulutsha kwaye zithatha amanyathelo okugcina umntwana wakho ukhusele.
I-On-Screen Violence
Akunjalo nje nge-TV okanye iifilimu ezivumela intsha ukuba ifinyelele kubudlova- imidlalo yezobundlobongela ezibonisa ubundlobongela zibonise izigcawu ze-gory kunye nezenzo eziphazamisayo. Kwiminyaka emibini edlulileyo, uninzi lwezifundo ezidibanisa ukubukela ubudlova nokungabi nabubele.
Nika ingqalelo ekusebenziseni imidiya yakho yeendaba. Xoxa nomntwana wakho malunga neengozi zokubonakaliswa kwimifanekiso enobudlova nokujonga imeko yengqondo yengane yakho.
> Imithombo:
> Amacandelo okuLawula nokuLawula izifo. Izithintelo zobungozi zesondo.
> Iziko loLwazi lweeNkcukacha zeMpilo yabantwana neNtsholongwane. Uphando lweSizwe lwezeMpilo yabantwana,
> Uncedo lokuqala loNtsapho. Izikolo zokuThatshazwa kweSikolo.
> Iziko leSizwe leeNkcukacha zeMfundo. Izikolo eziPhakamileyo.
> Isizwe seSizwe sokuSetyenziswa kakubi kweziyobisi. Marijuana.