Oko Kufuneka Ukwazi Ngomntwana Wakho Ngokusesikweni nangokusemthethweni iDrayivu
Ukufumana ilayisenisi yokuqhuba isiteyithi yenkcazo yabaselula. Kodwa ngokudabukisayo, ukuphazamiseka kweemoto yimbalo enye ebangela ukufa kwabantu abatsha.
Inzululwazi ezininzi zithetha ukuba abaneminyaka engama-16 ubudala abavuthiwe ngokwaneleyo ukuqhuba. Ubuchopho babo abukaphuhliswanga ngokupheleleyo kwaye banako ukubeka ingozi, baphazamiseke kwaye benze iimpazamo.
Njengendlela yokunceda abatsha bafumane uxanduva lwezinto zokuqhuba ukuhamba ngelo xesha, bathi iiprogram zelayisenisi eziphunyeziweyo.
Ezi nkqubo zinemiqathango yabasetyhini abasandul 'ilayisenisi, njengomda wokuba inani labagibeli okanye ixesha lokufika.
Ucwaningo lwango-2017 lubone ukuba iiprogram zelayisenisi ezigqityiweyo ziye zanceda ekunciphiseni ukuphazamiseka kwemoto phakathi kwabantwana abaneminyaka eyi-16 ne-17 ubudala. Enyanisweni, uye waphumelela kangangokuthi amanye amazwe acinga ukufumana iiprogram zeepesitifiketi ezigqityiweyo zabafundi abaneminyaka eyi-18 ukuya kwe-20 ababa ngabaqhubi bokuqala.
Iphondo ngalinye e-United States libeka imithetho yalo yokuqhuba, kuquka nemithetho malunga nexesha abaneminyaka engama-10 ubudala abanokuqala ukuqhuba ngayo, kwaye imithetho iyahluka kakhulu malunga neemfuno zelayisenisi ezigqityiweyo.
Imvume yabafundi
Uphando lubonisa ukuba abazali abaninzi abalungile ekufundiseni abantwana ukuba babe ngabaqhubi abakhuselekileyo . Kunoko, baxhomekeke kakhulu kwiiprogram zemfundo zabaqhubi.
Xa umntwana wakho usemvume yokufunda, musa ukuzicingela njengomgibeli xa umntwana wakho engasemva kwesondo. Cinga nje ngootitshala.
Nceda intsha yakho ifunde ukuqonda imiba yokhuseleko xa iqhuba. Nika imiyalelo ukunceda wakho umntwana ukuba aphuculwe kwaye anikezele ingxelo eninzi-kokubili emihle kwaye engalunganga.
Umbuso ngamnye unemithetho eyahlukeneyo malunga neemvume zabafundi kunye nokuba ziphi iiyure ezenzelwe umntwana ukuba zilandele ivili. Thatha loo mithetho ngokungundoqo kwaye uqinisekise ukuba unceda umntwana wakho ukuba afumane amava afuna ukuba ngumqhubi okhuselekileyo.
IziThibelo zokuLawula ebusuku
Nangona ukungabikho kokulala kuphazamisa ukusebenza komntu wonke, uphando lubonisa ukunyuswa kokulala kuthatha umonakalo omkhulu kunabantwana. Abaselula banokwenza iziphoso xa beqhuba ngokukhawuleza ngokuhlwa.
Malunga ne-2 kwi-5 imoto yokutshatyalaliswa kwemoto eyenzeka phakathi kwe-9 kweye-9 ne-6 ekuseni, amaninzi amaninzi afake ama-curfews ukukhusela abatsha ukuba baqhube ngexesha lokulala. Izithintelo ekuqhubeni ukuhamba ebusuku zinganciphisa ukuphazamiseka kweemoto zentsha ngeepesenti ezingama-19.
Urhulumente ngamnye uzimisele ukuba yiyiphi iiyure zokunciphisa intsha ekuqhubeni. Ngoko ngelixa i-Alabama ingavumeli ukuba abatsha abasemthethweni baqhube ukuqhuba phakathi kobusuku no-6: 00 ekuseni, iNorth Carolina ayibavumeli ukuba baqhube phakathi kwe-9 PM ne-5 AM.
IziThinteli zabaPhathi
Umntu ngamnye umgibeli oneminyaka engama-10 ubudala emotweni ukwandisa amathuba okwehla kwemoto. Abahlobo banokuba ngumqobo omkhulu kwaye banokukhuthaza umntwana wakho ukuba athathe ingozi engadingekile. Ngenxa yoko, abaninzi baye bagqiba ekubeni banqande abagibeli kwiimoto eziqhutywa ngabafana.
Nangona ezinye iincwadi zingavumeli ukuba abatsha abasemthethweni babe neerhasi iintsuku eziliqela, abanye banqanda inani labagadi abancinci abangaba kwimoto. Okungaqhelekanga kwenziwa ukuba kubantakwabo.
Imiqobo yeselula
Ukuthetha ngefowuni ngelixa ukuqhuba ukuqhuba kukuphazamisa okukhulu okwandisa ukuba umntwana osemva uza kwenza iimpazamo zokuqhuba.
Amazwe amaninzi athathe imimiselo ethile yeefowuni kumqhubi abancinci.
Ngelishwa, ezinye iifundo zibonisa izithintelo zefowuni zingenako ukwandisa amathuba okuba umntwana osemtsha uzama ukuthumela imiyalezo yombhalo ngelixa esemva kwevili. Xa uzama ukufihla ukusetyenziswa kwefowuni, intsha ingaphazamiseka ngakumbi ngokuzama ukuthayipha imiyalezo kwi-sly.
Ngoko kubalulekile ukuba abazali bathethe intsha malunga nobungozi bokuqhuba ukuphazamiseka. Yaye ukuba umntwana ebanjwe ekuthumeleni imilayezo okanye esebenzisa ifowuni ngelixa eqhuba, kufuneka kube nemiphumo ecacileyo.
Umda wokuqhuba ngurhulumente
Ixesha apho intsha inokufumana imvume yemvume yabo yomfundi kunye nemithetho malunga neelayisensi ezigqityiweyo zihluka ngobuso.
Ngoko qiniseka ukuba ukhangele imithetho yakho yasekuhlaleni ukuze ufumane ukuba umntwana wakho oqala ukuqhuba ukuqhuba.
| Lumente | Imvume yabafundi | Ilayisenisi ekhawulelwe | License epheleleyo |
| Alabama | 15 | 16 | 17 |
| Alaska | 14 | 16 | 16, 6 umz. |
| EArizona | 15, 6 mos. | 16 | 16, 6 umz. |
| Arkansas | 14 | 16 | 16, 6 umz. |
| California | 15, 6 mos. | 16 | 17 |
| Colorado | 15 | 16 | 17 |
| Connecticut | 16 | 16, 4 umz. | 18 |
| Delaware | 16 | 16, 6 umz. | 17 |
| District of Columbia | 16 | 16, 6 umz. | 18 |
| Florida | 15 | 16 | 18 |
| Jojiya | 15 | 16 | 18 |
| EHawaii | 15, 6 mos. | 16 | 17 |
| Idaho | 14, 6. | 15 | 16 |
| Illinois | 15 | 16 | 18 |
| E-Indiana | 15. | 16, 6 umz. | 18 |
| Iowa | 14 | 16 | 17 |
| Kansas | 14 | 16 | 16, 6 umz. |
| EKentucky | 16 | 16, 6 umz. | 17 |
| Louisiana | 15 | 16 | 17 |
| Maine | 15 | 16 | 16, 6 umz. |
| Maryland | 15, 9 mos. | 16, 6 umz. | 18 |
| EMassachusetts | 16 | 16, 6 umz. | 18 |
| EMichigan | 14, 9 mos. | 16 | 17 |
| Minnesota | 15 | 16 | 16, 6 umz. |
| Mississippi | 15 | 16 | 16, 6 umz. |
| EMissouri | 15 | 16 | 18 |
| Montana | 14, 6. | 15 | 16 |
| Nebraska | 15 | 16 | 17 |
| Nevada | 15, 6 mos. | 16 | 18 |
| ENew Hampshire | 15, 6 mos. | 16 | 17, 1 mo. |
| Enew Jersey | 16 | 17 | 18 |
| ENew Mexico | 15 | 15, 6 mos. | 16, 6 umz. |
| Inew york | 16 | 16, 6 umz. | 17 w / iiklasi okanye 18 |
| North Carolina | 15 | 16 | 16, 6 umz. |
| North Dakota | 14 | 15 | 16 |
| EOhio | 15, 6 mos. | 16 | 18 |
| E Oklahoma | 15, 6 mos. | 16 | 16, 6 umz. |
| Oregon | 15 | 16 | 17 |
| Pennsylvania | 16 | 16, 6 umz. | 17 ngeeklasi okanye 18 |
| Rhode Island | 16 | 16, 6 umz. | 17, 6 mos. |
| South Carolina | 15 | 15, 6 mos. | 16, 6 umz. |
| EMzantsi Dakota | 14 | 14, 6. | 16 |
| Tennessee | 15 | 16 | 17 |
| ETexas | 15 | 16 | 18 |
| Utah | 15 | 16 | 17 |
| Vermont | 15 | 16 | 16, 6 umz. |
| EVirginia | 15, 6 mos. | 16, 3 umz. | 18 |
| EWashington | 15 | 16 | 17 |
| West Virginia | 15 | 16 | 17 |
| Wisconsin | 15, 6 mos. | 16 | 16, 9 umz. |
| Wyoming | 15 | 16 | 16, 6 umz. |
Igama elivela kwi-Verywell
Xa kuziwa ukuvumela umntwana wakho ukuba ahambe, musa ukuxhomekeka kwimithetho yakho yelizwe ukugcina umntwana wakho ekhuselekileyo. Yenza imithetho yakho kunye nemingcele yeemfuno zakho ezikhethekileyo zentsha.
Gcina ukhumbule ukuba nje ngenxa yokuba umntwana wakho usemdala ngokwaneleyo ukuqhuba ngokusemthethweni, akuthethi ukuba ukhule ngokwaneleyo ukuphatha uxanduva.
Ukuba umntu oneminyaka engama-16 ubudala unobundlobongela, unomdla okanye unganamdla, ungamvumeli emva kwesondo. Ukuze baqhube bekhuselekile, abafana kufuneka bakwazi ukucinga ngokucacileyo, benze izigqibo ezintle, baze banqande izilingo.
Xa wakho umntwana usemvume yokuqhuba, wandise inkululeko yakhe ngokukhawuleza. Khumbula, ukuba akudingeki unikele ngamalungelo amatsha nje ngokuba imithetho yemvume yokufumana ilayisenisi imvumela ukuba aqhube ebusuku okanye asebenzise ifowuni emotweni. Unako ukuqhubeka nokunyanzelisa izithintelo zakho.
Ukuba umntwana wakho utshaphula umthetho okanye aphula imithetho yakho , mnike iziphumo . Thatha izitshixo zakhe isikhashana okanye ubeke iiyure okanye ubeke iindawo ezihambayo zakho.
Yaye cinga ukubhalisa umntwana wakho kwiinkqubo ezifundisa ukhuseleko lomqhubi ngaphaya kwemfundo yomqhubi. Unokufumana isaphulelo kwi-inshurensi yemoto, kodwa ngokubaluleke ngakumbi, uqeqesho olongezelelweyo lomqhubi lungasindisa ubomi bakho bentsha.
> Imithombo:
> Amacandelo okuLawula nokuSithintela izifo: Abaqhubi abasebasha: Fumana iiNyaniso.
> I-inshorensi yeSiqinisekiso soKhuseleko lwasemgangathweni: iiNcwadana zoKhuseleko zabaThengi
> Williams AF. Umqhubi wokuqhuba ilayisense (GDL) eUnited States ngo-2016: Ukuhlaziywa kweencwadi kunye nokuhlaziya. Uphando loPhando loKhuseleko . Agasti 2017.