Ukulinganisa Isidingo Sokuzimela Ngesikhokelo
Ukuzala umntwana osemtsha kufuna ukulinganisela okulula phakathi kokumnika isikhokelo esaneleyo ukuqinisekisa ukuba wenza ukhetho oluphilileyo kwaye unika inkululeko efanelekileyo yokwenza iimpazamo. Ngaphantsi kolawulo lwakho, iimpazamo kunye nokuhluleka kunokufundisa ezinye zezona zifundo zikhulu kakhulu.
Misela imithetho yendlu yokuba intlonipho yesifiso sakho somntwana ukuba sizimeleyo ngeli xesha uqinisekise ukuba uziphatha ngokufanelekileyo.
Kucacisa ngokucacileyo ukuba yimiphumo emibi iya kugcinwa xa umthetho uphulwa.
Abaselula bafuna iintlobo ezi-5 zeemithetho njengabantwana abaselula. Xa usungula imithetho yendlu yakho kwentombazana, misela imigaqo eqinile kwimimandla apho umntwana wakho osencinane efuna ukukhokelwa.
Xa ulutsha luzabalazela ukulandela imigaqo, luphawu lokuba alulungele loo mthwalo uxanduva okwangoku kwaye unokufuna izikhokelo ezingaphezulu. Njengoko umntwana wakho ubonisa ukuba unokulandela imithetho, vumela ukuzimela ngokuzimela.
Nazi iindidi zemithetho omele uyenze ukuze uncede umntwana wakho abe ngumdala onoxanduva:
Imithetho ekhuthaza ukuKhuseleko
Iintsholongwane zivame ukucinga ukuba azifi kwaye zingenakwenzeka. Baye bathambekele ekubeni bangachukumisi isizathu sokuba kubaluleke kakhulu ukubeka imithetho ekhuthaza ukhuseleko. Nazi izibonelo ezimbalwa:
- Iingozi zokuhamba ngeenqwelo zeenqwelo zeenqwelo zeenqwelo zeenqwelo zeenqwelo zeenqwelo zeenqwelo-mlilo ziyi-killer number of teenagers Abaselula bafuna imithetho ecacileyo malunga namalungelo okuqhuba nokukhuseleko. Misela imida ekusebenziseni ifowuni kwimoto. Misela iifayile ezicacileyo malunga nabagibeli, ukukhawuleza, kunye nokunye ukuphulwa komthetho.
- Iziyobisi kunye noTywala - Abaselula bafuna ukwaziswa malunga neenqobo zezilwanyana kunye nokusetyenziswa kotywala. Ukuthetha rhoqo malunga nendlela yokwenza ukhetho olufanelekileyo kwaye ubeke imiphumo ecacileyo malunga noko kuya kwenzeka ntoni xa umntwana wakho ebanjwe ezama ukusebenzisa izinto. Kwakhona xubusha indlela anokuphuma ngayo kwimeko embi ukuba ufuna ukuhamba ekhaya.
- Isikhawuko - Akukho nto iyenzeka emva kweentsuku zobusuku. Beka ixesha elifihliweyo lokufika kwikomva kwaye ukuba umntwana wakho ubonisa uxanduva ngokuhlonipha ixesha lokufika kwangoko, khawuqwalasele ukwenza ixesha lokugqibela .
Imithetho efundisa ukuziphatha
Iminyaka yeshumi elivisayo inika amathuba okuba bahlole ixabiso labo. Ukwenza okulindelekileyo kulindeleke kule minyaka kungathonya ixabiso lakho elivisayo.
Nangona le migaqo iya kuba yintsapho yakho, kukho iinkalo ezimbalwa iintsapho ezininzi ezinokuvumelana ngazo.
- Ukunyaniseka - Beka imithetho kunye nentombazana yakho ekhuthaza ukunyaniseka. Vumelana ukuba imiphumo yokuziphatha kakubi iya kuba nzima ngakumbi xa umntwana wakho osemncinci uzama ukulala ukufihla iingoma zakhe. Kwakhona uqwalasele imithetho egxeka ukukhohlisa emsebenzini wesikolo.
- Ukuphatha Abanye Ngenhlonipho - Ngokuqhelekileyo intsha ifuna imithetho ekhuthaza ukuphatha abanye ngenhlonipho. Imithetho malunga nokuhleba, ukuxhatshazwa nokungathethi ngasemva kungaba zifundo ezibalulekileyo.
Imigaqo ekhuthaza ukuHlaba kweMpilo
Uninzi ulutsha alukwazi ngokuba lukhuthazo olukhulu. Ngokuqhelekileyo badinga uncedo kumntu omdala ukuhlakulela imikhuba enempilo ngendlela abachitha ixesha labo kunye nokuzinyamekela.
- Umsebenzi - Umsebenzi wesikolo wasekhaya, imisebenzi yesikhokelo kunye nemisebenzi yexeshana kaninzi ayikho phezulu kwoluhlu lwentsha. Ngoko ke, banokufuna iimigaqo eziqinisekisa ukuba bafumana umsebenzi wabo. Ukusungula ixesha lokwenza umsebenzi wesikolo okanye ukuxhamla amalungelo kwiimisebenzi kunye nokukhuthaza umntwana wakho ukuba asebenzise imali kunye nomsebenzi wesikhashana unokukhuthaza imikhwa emihle.
- Ixesha lokuSindisa - Abaselula baninzi badinga imigaqo yokubanceda bachithe ixesha labo elifanelekileyo. Ukubeka imida ekusebenziseni iikhompyutheni ukwenzela ukuba iiyure zokuphumla kweeveki zakho zingabonakali kwiikhompyuter, kumnxeba okanye kwimidlalo yevidiyo . Kwakhona kucacile malunga nokuba umntwana wakho uvunyelwe ukuxhoma.
- Ukuzinyamekela - Nangona abaninzi abaselula abafuni ukukhumbuza amazinyo abo, basoloko badinga ukuncedwa ngononophelo. Cinga imigaqo yokukhuthaza ukutya okunempilo, imikhuba emihle yokulala, ukuzivocavoca nokucoceka.
Imithetho ekulungiselela intsha kwiLizwe leNene
Iminyaka yeshumi elivisayo yenza iifestile elincinane ixesha lokuba umntwana wakho azenzele ihlabathi lenene.
Khawubone indlela yokuziphatha kwentombazana yakho kwaye cinga enye into eyenziwa ngumntwana wakho umntwana ukuba afunde ngaphambi kokuba alungiselele ukuhlala yedwa. Nazi iindawo ezimbalwa apho uza kufuna ukudala imithetho:
- Imali - Fundisa umntwana wakho indlela yokuphatha imali ukuze alungiselele uhlahlo lwabiwo-mali kwilizwe lenene. Beka imigaqo malunga nokuba ufuna ukugcina kunye nokumnceda enze ukhetho olufanelekileyo kunye nemikhuba yakhe yokuchitha. Mbonise indlela yohlahlo lwabiwo-mali kwaye unqume ukuba yeyiphi na into efuna ukuyithenga ngemali yakhe.
- Ukuzilungela - Abaselula bafuna ukuzimela ukuze bakwazi ukuphila ngokuzimela. Ukuseka imithetho enika inkululeko kwaye ivumela imiphumo yemvelo xa ifanelekileyo.
Imithetho eya kuphucula izakhono zoLuntu
Ngokuqhelekileyo abantwana abaselula badinga ukulungiswa kakuhle kwisebe lezakhono zentlalo. Misela imithetho eyanceda umntwana wakho ukuba afunde kwaye asebenzise iindlela eziphilileyo zokujongana neemvakalelo zakhe kunye nokusebenzisana nabanye abantu.
- Abahlobo - Uhlobo lwabahlobo bakho abakhethayo luya kuba nefuthe elikhulu ekuziphatheni kwakhe. Ukuba umntwana wakho usemncinci ukhetha abahlobo abachazela ingxaki, beka imida malunga nokuba bangabachitha ixesha elingakanani ngaphandle kwesikolo. Iintsholongwane zisoloko zifuna ukukhokelwa ngabazali malunga nendlela yokujongana nemiba efana nokuxhaphaza kunye nokungavumelani nabangani.
- Ukuthandana - Misela imithetho malunga nokuthandana okunika umntwana wakho ukuzimela ngaphandle koko uqinisekise ukuba umntwana wakho ukhusele. Beka imigaqo ecacileyo malunga neentlobo zemisebenzi evunyelweyo kunye nokuba unxibelelwano olunjani lwamkelekileyo.
- Izakhono zoMgangatho weZakhono -Abathengi bavame ukuba nemvakalelo ngokwemvelo. Imithetho ekhuthaza ukuphathwa komsindo ibaluleke kakhulu xa unomntwana oselula oselula okanye ophazamisayo xa ecaphukile. Fundisa izakhono zokuxazulula iingxaki ukufundisa iindlela ezikhuselekileyo nezisebenzayo zokulungisa iingxaki ngokuzimela.