Ukuba unenkathazo yokuba umntwana wakho ahlambulule igumbi lakhe okanye ahluthe ikhitshi, awuyedwa. Uninzi ulutsha lunokufumana izinto ezili-101 ezingathanda ukwenza kunokuba zisebenze.
Kodwa imisebenzi yindawo ebalulekileyo yokukhula. Abantwana abenza imisebenzi bakhula ukuze babe noxanduva oluphezulu.
Ukongeza, imisebenzi yokufundisa ifundisa ubuncinane bakho ubomi bokuphila. Xa ehlala yedwa, kuya kufuneka ukuba azi indlela yokugcina ikhaya lakhe ngendlela ephilileyo, engcolileyo.
Kukho nethuba elihle lokuba uya kuhlala nomntu ohlala naye okanye umlingane othandana ngenye imini. Awufuni ukuba abe yi-slob engabikho mntu ofuna ukuhlala nayo.
Kodwa ukulwa, ukugubha, nokucela umntwana wakho ukuba asebenze imisebenzi, kodwa ayikho into efanelekileyo. Kunokuba wenze umntwana wakho ozimele, uya kumfundisa ukuba axhomekeke kwizikhumbuzo kunye nabagqugquzeli abavela kuwe.
Yenza isivumelwano se-chore esiya kukhuthaza umntwana wakho ukuba enze imisebenzi. Emva koko, kuya kuba ngumthwalo wakhe ukwenza umsebenzi kwaye ukuba akayiyo, uya kuziqonda iziphumo ngaphambi kwexesha.
Indlela yokudala iKontrakthi yeChore
Endaweni yokulwa nomntwanakho ukuba enze imisebenzi , yenza isivumelwano esicacileyo esibhaliweyo. Inkontileka yokuqhaqhaqhaqhaqhaqhaqhaqhaqhayisa idideki kwaye yenza ukuba ulindele ukukhanya.
Xa wakho umntwana ebonisa isivumelwano asiyi kukwazi ukubambelela ukuba 'wayengayazi' wawuthetha ukuba kufuneka ahlambulule igaraji. Kunoko, uyazi ngokuqinisekileyo oko ukulindele.
Uluhlu lwemisebenzi oyilindele ukuba umntwana wakho enze kwansuku zonke kwaye yeyiphi iiveki.
Emva koko, cacisa oko kuya kwenzeka xa wakho umntwana uzalisa loo mi sebenzi, kunye nemiphumo yokungagqibekanga ngexesha.
Ingongoma yesivumelwano somsebenzi kufuneka ube kukuncedisa wakho umntwana ukuba abe noxanduva oluphezulu. Xa esayine isivumelwano, kwaye wenze ukuba ulindelekile, ungamgxothi okanye umkhumbuze ukuba enze umsebenzi wakhe wenziwe.
Endaweni yoko, landela nemiphumo oye uyichaze.
I Khontrakthi ye Chore
Cinga ngemisebenzi oyifunayo umntwana wakho . Emva koko, cacisa xa ulindele ukuba le mi sebenzi yenziwe.
Ngoxa uthanda ukudala isivumelwano somsebenzi esithile esikhethekileyo kumntwana wakho, ungasebenzisa le khontrakthi yesampula njengesikhokelo:
- Ndiza kugcina iindawo zam zithatha. Oku kubandakanya ukufaka impahla yokuhlamba, ukuxhoma iimpahla ezihlambulukileyo kwi-closet, nokubeka iincwadi, izixhobo zemidlalo kunye ne-electronics kwiindawo ezifanelekileyo.
- Ndiza kugcina abazali bam enqeni xa umsebenzi oye waba nzima kakhulu kum. Ukuba andinakukwazi ukuphakamisa into ngenxa yokuba inzima okanye andiqinisekanga ukuba ndenze njani into ngokukhuselekileyo, ndiya kukuxelela.
- Ndiza kuqhayisa ngomsebenzi wam ukuze imisebenzi okanye imisebenzi endimele ndiyenze iya kwenziwa kwindlela endikwazi ngayo.
- Ndiyayiqonda into yokuba imisebenzi yam yenziwe ngexesha. Andiyi kulindela ukuba undikhumbuze xa ndizokwenza.
- Ndiza kuthetha nawe ukuba ndibunzima ukufumana ixesha lokwenza imisebenzi yam ngenxa yomsebenzi wam wesikolo okanye ezinye iimbopheleleko.
- Imisebenzi yam yemihla ngemihla iquka ukukhetha igumbi lam, ukukhupha i-dishwasher, kunye nokutshaya kwekhitshini.
- Imisebenzi yam yeveki iquka ukutshisa umtshini, ukucoca indlu yokuhlambela, nokutshaya igaraji.
Iziphumo zemiSebenzi
Kufuneka kube nemiphumo emihle yokufumana imisebenzi eyenziweyo. Isiphumo esifanelekileyo singabandakanya isibonelelo okanye amalungelo, njengokuchitha ixesha kunye nabahlobo.
Unokunikela ngemiphumo emihle imihla ngemihla, njengokuvumela umntwana wakho ukuba asebenzise i-electronics xa imisebenzi yakhe yenziwe. Emva koko, kuye kuye ukuthatha isigqibo xa ufuna ukwenza umsebenzi.
Okanye, unako ukunikela umvuzo weveki. Oku kungabandakanya ukutyelela nabahlobo ngoLwesihlanu ubusuku ukuba wenza imisebenzi yakhe yonke iveki, okanye kunokubandakanya ukufumana isabelo sokufumana umsebenzi wakhe ngoMgqibelo ngemini.
Ukuba umntwana wakho unenkinga yokufumana imisebenzi yakhe, thatha amalungelo akhe .
Ngokomzekelo, mxelele ukuba akayi kuba nexanduva lokwenza uhlamba lwakhe, awuyi kumthemba ngezitshixo zeemoto. Okanye, mxelele ukuba akakwazi ukuphuma kunye nabahlobo ade atyele ingca.
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Iindaba zezobisi zakwaHarvard: Ukuqeshisa imisebenzi kubangele abantwana kunye nekamva labo, isifundo sithi.
ImiSebenzi yaseKhaya yabantwana abakhulileyo. I-HealthyChildren.org. Ipapashwe ngoNovemba 21, 2015. Kufumaneka ngoNovemba 11, 2017.
> Inkqubo Yokwandisa IYunivesithi YaseMichigan: Iingenelelo zabantwana abenza imisebenzi.