Unokukunceda njani umntwana wakho ukuba enze ukuhamba okukhulu, ngokufanelekileyo
Kubantwana abancinci, ukwenza ukutshintshwa kwi-crib ukuya embhedeni yinto enkulu. Nangona abanye abantwana behamba embhedeni ngokulula kwaye banonwabile, kwabanye abanye amava anokukhathazeka. Kubalulekile ukuba uphathe ishintsho ngokukhawuleza ukuze ugweme ukubangela izinto zokulala kwixesha elizayo.
Cinga ngeemeko.
Kutheni utshintshisa umncinane wakho kwi-crib ukuya embhedeni?
Ingabe uvele nje ukugqithisa isikhalazo? Ngaba uzama ukunyuka kuwo ? Ngaba uyayika ukuba uyazilimaza? Ingaba kukho umntakwethu omtsha endleleni kwaye ufuna isidlo somntwana? Mhlawumbi uvakalelwa kukuba lixesha. Nangona kungekho minyaka emiselweyo yokuhambisa umntwana kwisibhedlele ukuya embhedeni, abazali abaninzi bakhetha ukwenza njalo xa umntwana ephakathi kweenyanga ezili-18 kunye ne-3 1/2 ubudala ubudala. Ukubetha enye into enkulu kakhulu - ukuqeqeshwa ngamanzi - ihlala ikhokelela kubazali bebeka umntwana embhedeni ukuze bakwazi ukunyuka nokuphuma ebusuku xa kufuneka bahambe.
Ukuba ukwenza utshintsho kuba ukuzalwa komntakwethu omtsha kusemgangathweni , nyathela ngokucophelela. Zama ukufumana umntwana wakho omdala kwisitya esitsha kwiinyanga ezilungileyo ezimbini ngaphambi kokuba umntwana aphelelwe. Awufuni ukuba umntwana wakho omdala azive ngathi uyafuduswa yindwendwe entsha kwintsapho yakho.
Ibhedi encinane okanye enkulu?
Luhlobo luni lombhede oyikhethayo luxhomekeke ngokupheleleyo kwizinto ozifunayo.
Ukuba unomntwana omncinci onobungakanani obuncinci, ibhedi encinci isebenza njengendlela enhle yokuphucula utshintsho. Zifumaneka kwiintlobo ezahlukeneyo zezitayela eziqinisekileyo ezikhangayo kumntwana wakho. Ngaphezu koko, imibhede encinane kakhulu isebenzisa imitha yamanzi, ngoko ke umncinci wakho uya kulala ebusweni aqhelekileyo.
Ngakolunye uhlangothi, ukuba unomntwana omdala, tshela 3 kwaye phezulu, unokufuna ukuya ngqo kumbhede okanye emakhulu. Kungakhathaliseki ukuba uluhlobo luni lwebhedlele oyikhethayo, khusela amacandelo usebenzisa izilonda .
Ukuba kunokwenzeka, vumela umntwana wakho abe yingxenye yenkqubo yokukhetha. Uyakwazi ukuba nomdla ngebhedi ukuba unento ethile kuyo. Ukuba ibhedi yinto-phantsi-phantsi komnye umntu, ungasebenzisa loo nto ngokunceda ngokunjalo. Thetha malunga nokuba umnikazi omdala ungakanani kwaye njani umntanakho "yinkwenkwe enkulu" naye. Emva koko mthabathe ngaphandle ukuthenga amakhiti kunye neengubo, mhlawumbi nenye inkwenkwezi umhlobo wakhe ozithandayo.
Ibhedi ilapha. Ngoku kuthweni?
Abanye abazali bafumanisa ukuba ubusuku bokuqala bhedini lukhuni nomntwana ongeke ahlale. Abanye bathi umntwana wabo uyangena ngqo, njengesiqhelo kwaye aqhube ngaphandle kokuncedisa uncedo olongezelelweyo. Kungakhathaliseki ukuba yintoni na imeko, lungiswa. Ukutshintshela ixesha lokulala xa ungenalo, unokuba luncedo olukhulu. Ukuba umntwana wakho ugxininisa ekuphumeni kwexesha lokulala kunye nexesha, uhlalise kodwa ngokuqinisekileyo umbuyise. Ukuba awukhululekile ukugcina umnyango wengane yakho ivaliwe ebusuku, cinga ukufaka isango emnyango ukuze uhlale unamehlo kuye.
Iingcebiso zenguqu:
- Vumela umntwana wakho abe yingxenye yenkqubo yokuthenga - umbhede ngokwawo, kunye neeshidi kunye neengubo.
- Ukuba kunokwenzeka, faka umbhede omtsha kwindawo efana nale ndawo.
- Vumela umntwana wakho alethe ezinye zezinto ezikhethiweyo kwisibhedlele - i-blank blanket okanye umlotha, mhlawumbi, nokuba ngaba bancinci kakhulu.
- Ngaphandle kokubona, ngaphandle kwengqondo yinto efanelekileyo yokulandela. Ukuba umntwana wakho akayi kubona isikhalazo, akunakwenzeka ukuba acele. Ngoko ukuba usebenzisa isikhalazo somntakwabo omtsha, zama ukuyigcina ifihlakele okanye igubungelwe de ukutshintsha komntwana wakho embhedeni uphelele.