Nangona abanye abatsha bengenakuze bathumele i-selfie kwi- Facebook , abanye abakubonakali ukumelana nokuthumela i-selfies kwi- Instagram ubuncinane ngamaxesha ambalwa ngosuku.
Kubazali, yonke into ye-selfie ingaba yinto ephazamisayo. Kutheni ufuna ukuba uthathe imifanekiso engama-50 emi kwindawo yokuhlambela uze ukhethe lowo ucinga ukuba ukhangele kakuhle kwaye uyifake kwiprofayili yakho ukuze abantu bakunike ingxelo?
Ewe, kwezinye iimeko, kukungonwaba nje. Kodwa kwabanye abatsha, i-selfie inokuthi ibe yinxalenye yengxaki enzulu.
I-Selfies ne-Self-Worth
Kwabanye abatsha, ukuzithemba kwabo kuxhomekeke kakhulu kwimpendulo abayifumana kwi-selfie yabo. Okuthandayo, iintliziyo, okanye izimvo ezintle abazifumanayo, ngcono ukuziva kwabo.
Ukuba loo nto intsha iyayikhathalela ingqalelo into engeyiyo-okanye yimbi ngakumbi, ingqalelo kuyo yonke into -ukuzithemba kwayo kunganciphisa. Unokuthi ungamthandi kwaye ungathandwa xa engaphenduliyo.
Ngokuqhelekileyo, imfuneko yokufumana ukuzithemba ngokuzithemba iba ngumlutha. Abaselula banomdla wokuthabatha i-selfie kwiimzame zokufumana ingqwalasela kwabanye.
Iintsholongwane zempilo yengqondo zinokuba ngumngcipheko ophezulu kakhulu wokuba ucingisise ngamazwi. Kukho iingxelo zentsholongwane zentsholongwane zentsuku nganye ngosuku zizama ukuthatha i-selfie egqibeleleyo enokukunceda ukufumana ama-accolades kubantu abakwi-media media.
Ngelishwa, inzame ye-selfie epheleleyo ingaba nzima kangangokuba iphazamisa impilo yentlalo kunye nentlalo yolutsha.
I-Selfies kunye noLwazi lwaBantwana
Nangona ininzi intsha ayinakukwazi ukuhlakulela i-selfies, kukho ezinye iingozi ezikhoyo. Ukuba abatsha abaqapheli ngohlobo lwemifanekiso abelana ngayo, i-selfie inokutshabalalisa idumela labo.
Abaninzi abaselula bayabelana ngezithombe ezinqabileyo ezibonakalayo kwihlabathi lonke ukuba libone. Abanye balindele ukuba i-selfie ayabelana ngayo iya kuhlala yabucala xa ibathumela kubantu abodwa okanye babini kuphela. Abaqapheli ukuba i-selfies ingabelana ngokulula kunye nehlabathi xa bekho ngaphandle kwikhompyutha.
Umntwana osemncinci obelana ngesithombe esingenanto esineqabane kunye nesoka, umzekelo, unokumangaliswa ukufumanisa ukuba wabelane ngayo nabahlobo bakhe. Okona ngakumbi nakakhulu, ukuba bayaphula, eso sithombe singathunyelwa kumajelo aseburhulumenteni kwisenzo sokuphindezela.
Iingozi Zobunjalo beSelfies
Umgangatho oqhelekileyo phakathi kwentsha kukuthatha izithene ezibandakanya izibhengezo zesenzo ngasemva. Intsha ithatha iifoto zazo phambi kwezakhiwo ezivuthayo, ngelixa limi ngaphantsi kwamanzi, okanye ngelixa liqhuba iintlobo ezahlukeneyo. Ngokudabukisayo, abanye abaselula baye bafa bezama ukuthatha isichengeni esichengeni sokuba bacinga ukuba babonakale bepholile.
Enye ingozi yokuthatha inzondo yokuba intsha eninzi ingabonakali indawo yayo. Abaqapheli uphawu lwezitalato emva kwabo okanye indlu yabo kwimvelaphi ingenza kube lula ukuba ixhoba lifumane indawo yalo.
Xoxa Ngomntwana Wakho Ngeentetho zeSelfies
I-Selfies ingaba yindlela enempilo yokuba intsha ivakalise. Nangona kunjalo, intsha ifuna isikhokelo malunga nento efanelekileyo kunye nento engekho.
Ncedisa umntwana wakho ukuba aqonde indlela i-selfie ingabangela ngayo ingxaki.
Gcina ubungakanani kunye nomxholo we-teen's selfie. Nangona kungekho namba ehleliweyo ye-selfies ebonisa ukuba umntwana wakho unokufumana ingxaki, kufuneka uqinisekise ukuba umfanekiso wakho we-adolescence ukuthatha i-escapades awuphazamisi ubomi boqobo. Ukuba wakho umntwana uselula ixesha kunye nabangani okanye akakwazi ukufumana imisebenzi ngenxa yokuba uxakeke ukuthumela i-selfies kwi-Instagram, kunokubonisa ingxaki.
Ncokola rhoqo nentombazana yakho malunga neengozi ze-selfie. Buza imibuzo malunga nentlalo yoluntu kunye noko umntwana wakho ocinga ngayo ngabantu abazithumelayo.
Fundisa umntwana wakho malunga nendlela i-selfie ingabonwa ngayo ngabaqeshi besikhathi esizayo okanye iikholeji zokungeniswa kweekholeji. Kubalulekile ukuba umntwana wakho ukuba aqonde ukuba into enokubonakala ngathi yayingenakucala kwimeko yangoku ingaba yingxaki enkulu emva koko.
> Imithombo:
> Kim E, Lee JA, Sung Y, Choi SM. Ukuqikelela ukuziphatha kwe-selfie kwiindawo zokunxibelelana kwezentlalo: Ukongezwa kwe > inkolelo > yokuziphatha okucwangcisiweyo. Iikhomputha zoLuntu . 2016; 62: 116-123.
> Sung Y, Lee JA, Kim E, Choi SM. Kutheni sifaka i-selfies: Ukuqonda ukukhuthazwa kokuthumela imifanekiso yedwa. Ubuntu kunye noBomi bomntu ngabanye . 2016; 97: 260-265.