Qonda i-Teen Dating Pitfalls
Ingxaki yomntwana osemtsha ingaba nzima kwaye ingakhathazeki, kubafana kunye nabazali babo. I-teknoloji yatshintshile indlela yokuzalwa komntwana , kwaye abazali abaninzi abaqinisekanga ukuba bathethe njani ngokuthandana nale mihla. Nazi izinto ezintlanu ngamnye umzali omele azi:
1. Kuqhelekile ukuba intsha ifune ukufika
Nangona abanye abatsha banomdla wokuthandana kwangaphambili kunabanye, iimfuno zothando ziqhelekile ngexesha lokukhula.
Amantombazana anamazwi amaninzi ngokuthandana nomdla kwaye athambekele ekubeni nomdla kwizinga elincinci kakhulu, kodwa abafana bayayithobela ingqalelo.
Akukho ndlela ejikeleze kuyo; wakho umntwana uya kufuna ukutshata. Xa esenzayo, uya kufuneka uqhubele phambili kwiplani kunye nezinye izakhono zomzali.
2. Intsha ayinayo i-Idea Indlela yokuthabatha
Umntwana osemva akafundi ukufunda indlela yokuhlala emagumbi okufundela kwaye mhlawumbi uye wafumana kuphela ezinye iziseko, njengokuhlonipha isikhala somntu, ekhaya. Kodwa ngaphandle kobuchule kwintando yothando, intsha ayayazi into ekulindele. Thetha kwintsapho yakho malunga nendlela yokuphila kwangempela engafani ngayo into ebonakalayo kwiimvumi . Kunoko, imihla yokuqala ingaba nzima, kodwa ingaba mnandi kakhulu.
Intsha yanamhlanje ichitha ixesha elininzi lokuthumela imiyalezo kunye nokuthumela kwiintlobo zentando yoluntu kwimidiya yoluntu. Kwabanye, oko kungenza ukuba intando ibe lula kuba banokuba nolwazi olungcono kwi-intanethi kuqala.
Kuloo mfana onentloni, ukuhlangana nomntu kunokuba nzima kunzima.
3. Abafana Abazali Abathetha Nabo Ngcono Kulungile
Thetha nomntwana wakho malunga nemilinganiselo yakho. Vula kunye nentombazana yakho malunga nento yonke ekunyangeni omnye umntu ngokumalunga nemilinganiselo yakho malunga nomsebenzi wesondo.
Xoxa ngeengxaki ezisenokuba ngumntwana onokujamelana nazo xa engena kwindawo yokuthandana, njengengcinezelo yokuziphatha ngokwesondo okanye uxinzelelo lokubandakanya ubudlelwane obunzulu. Qiniseka ukuba umntwana wakho uyazi ukuba ngenxa yokuba ulungele ukuhamba ngosuku, akuthethi ukuba ulungele ulwalamano .
4. I-Your Teen Imfuno Yobuncinane
Imilinganiselo yakho yomzali, izinga lakho lokukhula kwentsha, kwaye imeko ethile iya kukunceda ukuba unqume ukuba unomdla kangakanani umntwana wakho. Ukuba nomgaqo-nkqubo kunokuba kuyimfuneko kwaye uphilile kwezinye iimeko.
Kodwa qiniseka ukuba unikela umntwana wakho ubuncinci ubuncinane. Musa ukuphulaphula kuyo yonke ifowuni kwaye musa ukufunda yonke imidiya yemidiya yoluntu. Ewe, loo mithetho ayisebenzisi ukuba ngaba unokukhathazeka ngokukhuselekileyo.
5. Intsha Yakho Iya Kufuna Isikhokelo Esiqhubekayo
Nangona kungenasempilweni ukuba ungene emntwaneni wakho wokuthandana, kuya kubakho amaxesha apho kufuneka ungenelele. Ukuba uvalele umntwana wakho uthetha ukuba uthetha izimvo okanye usebenzisa amaqhinga okucwangcisa, uthetha. Ngokufanayo, ukuba umntwana wakho usekupheleni kokuphunyezwa kokuziphatha okubi, kubalulekile ukukunceda.
Kukho iwindow encinane yexesha phakathi kokuba umntwana wakho eqala ukutshata kwaye xa uza kungena kwihlabathi elidala.
Ngoko kuya kufuneka ukuba unikeze isikhokelo esinokumnceda ukuba aphumelele kubuhlobo bakhe bokamva. Enoba ufumana ubunzima obubi kakhulu, okanye intliziyo yakhe, ubutsha xa abantwana befunda ngokuthandana.