Nceda umntwana wakho aqonde ukuqonda kangcono abantu abakhubazekileyo
Ukusuka kwontanga kunye ne-dyslexia kumzala osebenzisa isitulo sabakhubazekile, umntwana wakho unokufuna ukwazi ngabantu abakhubazekileyo. Ukuthetha nomntwana malunga nokukhubazeka kunokukunceda ukuba aqonde kakuhle ukuba kutheni abanye abantu bebukeka, bathetha, benze, okanye bahamba ngokuthe ngqo.
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Ungazami ukukholisa umntwana wakho ukuba umntu onokukhubazeka ufana naye.
Kunoko, qaphela ukuba bahluke kakhulu, kodwa bacacise ukuba ngenxa yokuba umntu uhlukile, oko akumenzi loo mntu. Emva koko, bonise umntwana wakho ukuba athethe njani ngala mahluko ngokwahlukileyo. Nika umntwana wakho ulwimi lokuthetha ngomntu onokukhubazeka kokufunda okanye ukukhubazeka ngokomzimba.
Fundisa umntwana wakho malunga nokukhubazeka kwimeko yenyani. Yithi izinto ezinjengalezi, "Iimisipha emilenzeni yomalume wakho azisebenzi njengeyakho. Yingakho unenkathazo yokuhamba, "okanye" Wazalwa ngomlenze owodwa. Ngoko unomlenze onobuqhetseba owenzela oogqirha ukuba asebenzise. "
Zama ukugcina iimvakalelo zakho ngaphandle kwengxoxo yakho. Ukuba uthe ukukhubazeka komntu "kukudabukisayo" okanye "kuyingozi," umntwana wakho unokumnceda umntu, kwaye akuyi kuba luncedo.
Nazi ezinye izinto ezibalulekileyo zokwenza:
- Abanye abantu bazalwa bekhubazekile . Yenza kucace ukuba ngamanye amaxesha, iintsana zizalwe zikhubaze. Kodwa ngamanye amaxesha, abantu bakhula ukukhubazeka kamva ebomini.
- Abantu abakhubazekileyo abagulayo . Chaza ukuba umntwana onesifo sokukhubazeka kwesiberebhu okanye i-muscular dysstrophy ayiguli. Awufuni ukuba umntwana wakho acinge ukuba unokubamba ukukhubazeka.
- Akukho nto iphosakeleyo kubantu abaneziphene . Umntwana wakho unokubuza imibuzo enje, "Yintoni ephosakeleyo ngale ntombazana?" Chaza ukuba umntwana unokufumana ingxaki yokuthetha okanye ukunyuka ukuhamba kodwa oko akuthethi kukho into "engalunganga" naye.
- Ukukhubazeka ngokomzimba akuthethi ukuba umntu unokukhubazeka kwengqondo . Ngamanye amaxesha, abantwana bacinga ukuba umntu okhubazeka ngokwenyama angabunzima ukuthetha okanye angaziqondi. Yenza kucacise ukuba nje ngokuba umzimba womntu awusebenzi ngokufanayo akuthethi ukuba ubuchopho babo bunzima.
Cacisa indlela abantu abanokukhubazeka abangasebenzisa ngayo izixhobo ezifanelekileyo
Xoxa nomntwana malunga nendlela abantu abakhubazekileyo abangasebenzisa izixhobo ezifanelekileyo zokubanceda. Omnye kwisitolo sevenkile unokufumana isilwanyana sesevisi , kunye nabanye abantu bahamba ngeentonga okanye basebenzise isitulo sabakhubazekile ukuba bajikeleze.
Ungacacisa nokuba kutheni kuneendawo zokupaka abantu abanokukhubazeka okusemzimbeni ekufutshane nevenkile. Cacisa indlela umntu angasebenzisa ngayo isithuthi esikhethekileyo, esenzelwe ukufumana isihlalo sabakhubazekile ngesiphakamiso okanye ukuphakamisa.
Fundisa umntwanakho indlela yokuncedisa ngakumbi umntu osebenzisa izixhobo zokusebenza. Ngokomzekelo, cacisa ukuba umntwana wakho akafanele afune inja ephethe ingubo yomsebenzi ngaphandle kokuba umnini umemele ukuba enze njalo, kwaye uchaze ukuba ukugcina umnyango umntu osebenzisa isitulo sabakhubazekile kunokukwenza kube lula kubo.
Ukuphawula okufanayo
Qiniseka ukuba ungathumeli umyalezo wokuthi abantu abakhubazekileyo bahluke ngokupheleleyo kwabanye.
Khangela izinto umntwana onesiphene ezifanayo kunye nomntwana wakho. Yithi izinto ezinje, "ULucy ulungile kwimathematika, njengokuba unjalo. Kwaye nithanda ukuphulaphula uhlobo olufanayo lomculo. "
Ukuqonda indlela abafana ngayo kunokunceda umntwana wakho abhekise ngcono kubantu abakhubazekileyo, kwaye unokukunceda ukwandisa intlungu yomntwana wakho .
Funda malunga nokukhubazeka ndawonye
Kukhona ithuba elihle lokuba awuyi kuba nazo zonke iimpendulo malunga nokukhubazeka komntu. Ukuphanda ukukhubazeka kunye kunokukunceda ubonise umntwana wakho ukuba azifundise njani kwiimeko ezingaqhelekanga.
Khangela iiwebhusayithi ezinobubele ezinikezela ulwazi malunga ne-autism, i-down syndrome, ukukhubazeka kokufunda, okanye ezinye izikhubazo ezingenokuba nemibuzo malunga nayo.
Emva koko, ungena kunye nolwazi.
Funda iincwadi ezifanelekileyo ezifanelekileyo malunga nokukhubazeka, kwaye ujonge imiboniso yeTV ejongene neemeko ezithile. Isitrato saseSesame, umzekelo, ubonisa i-muppet egama linguJulia one-autism.
Phendula Imibuzo (kwaye Yilungiselele Amanqina)
Umntwana wakho unokufumana imibuzo enzima malunga nokukhubazeka komntu. Ungesabi ukusho, "andiyazi," ukuba awunayo impendulo. Okanye, zama ukuthetha, "Ndiza kucinga ngako kwaye ndibuyele kuwe," ukuba ufuna ixesha lokuqokelela iingcamango zakho ngaphambi kokuba uphendule.
Nazi ezinye iimbuzo ezinzima onokuziva:
- Kutheni wazalwa njengaleyo? Unokunika impendulo esekelwe kwisayensi ngokuthi, "Xa ekhula ngesisu sakhe, unyawo lwakhe aluzange lukhule." Okanye, unokunika impendulo engokomoya ebonisa zakho iinkolelo.
- Ngaba uya kuhlala ekhulile? Ukuba umntwana wakho ubuza umbuzo onzima malunga nobomi bomntu, unokufuna ukugxila kwinto eyenziwa ukugcina abantu bephilile. Yithetha into efana nale, "Andizi. Kodwa oogqirha kunye nososayensi bazama kanzima ukufumana unyango. "
- Ngaba uya kukwazi ukuhamba? Kukho ithuba elihle lokuba ungazi ukuba umntu uyazihlaziya. Ngoko unokuthi, "Andiqinisekanga, kodwa ndibethelela ukuba usebenza nzima kunye noogqirha bakhe ukuba benze okusemandleni akhe."
Fundisa Umntwana Wakho Ukuba Ube Nomnene novelwano kwabanye
Ngelishwa, kunethuba elihle umntwana wakho uya kuvezwa ngamagama angenabuhlungu asetyenziswa ukuchaza ukukhubazeka komntu, kwaye unethuba lokuba umntwana wakho uya kuphinda aphinde amagama lawo. Jongana namazwi angenabuhlungu kwangoko. Chaza umntwana wakho ukuba amazwi anjalo awonakalisa kwaye akulungile ukuthetha.
Ukuba umntwana wakho uyaqhubeka ukusebenzisa loo mazwi emva kokuba uyichazele ukuba ayifanelekanga, nikeza umphumo ongalunganga . Yenza kucace ukuba ukubeka abantu phantsi nokuthetha kakubi ngabanye akuyi kunyamezela.
Ukongezelela, musa ukuvumela umntwana wakho ukuba ahlanganyele ekuziphatheni okwenziweyo. Yenza ukuba wazi ukuba ukulingisa abantu abanokukhubazeka akuyena onomusa kwaye uxele umntwana wakho ukuba angahleki abanye.
Qinisekisa ukuba ungumzekelo omhle. Ukuba usebenzisa ulwimi oludlulileyo okanye amagama angafanelekanga ukuchaza abantu abakhubazekileyo, umntwana wakho uya kulandela.
Xelela Umntwana Wakho Ukuba Acele Ngaphambi Kokunceda
Abantwana kaninzi bafuna ukuba ngabancedisi kodwa, abanokwazi ukuba benze into eyanceda ngokwenene. Okanye, banokubeka ingozi.
Ukumvalela umntu kwisihlalo sabakhubazekile ngaphandle kokubabuza ukuba bafuna uncedo kunokuyingozi xa umntu usebenzisa isihlalo sabakhubazekile engaboni umntwana wakho. Ngokufanayo, umntwana wakho angalingeka ukuba angenelele xa ebona umntwana ene-autism ovakalelwa kakhulu. Kodwa, umntwana angasidinga isikhala esincinane ukuze azinqabise kwaye amnike ukumbamba angenza kube nzima nakakhulu.
Ngoko fundisa umntwana wakho ukuba abuze ngaphambi kokuba athathe isenzo. Ukubuza, "Ngaba kukho nto endiyenzayo ukunceda?" Unikeza omnye umntu ithuba lokuthi ngaba uncedo luya kuluqonda.
Indlela Yokuthetha Ngomntu Othandekayo Unokukhubazeka
Ukuba umntwana wakho akhula kunye nomntu othandekayo onokukhubazeka-njengomzala okanye ootatomkhulu-unokuphakamisa imibuzo emininzi emva kwexesha. Njengoko uzuza ukuqonda okungcono komzimba, unokuba nemibuzo emikhulu.
Ukuba ungumhlobo osondeleyo okanye ilungu losapho onokukhubazeka, cela ukuba umntu uzimisele ukuphendula imibuzo yomntwana wakho. Unokufumana umhlobo wakho uyavuya kwimimandla yasendle ukuze anikeze umntwana wakho ukuqonda okungcono.
Indlela Yokuthetha Ngomhlobo Oqulethekileyo
Umntwana wakho unokubuza imibuzo ngontanga esikolweni ukuba awukwazi ukuphendula. Awunayo into yokuba kutheni le ntombazana eklasini yakhe idinga uncedo lokutya ukutya okanye kutheni inkwenkwe eklasini ingathethi ngezivakalisi ezipheleleyo. Unokuba ufuna ukuchaza, "Andiqinisekanga ukuba kutheni ufuna ukutya okuncedayo. Mhlawumbi izihlunu ezandleni zakhe azisebenzi njengakho. "
Ungaphinda ufune ukuqhagamshelana notitshala womntwana wakho. Nangona utitshala akakwazi ukutyhila ulwazi malunga nomnye umfundi, kunokuba luncedo ukuba utitshala azi ukuba umntwana wakho unemibuzo, kwaye abanye abantwana banokuba nemibuzo.
Izikolo ezininzi zibonelela ngeenkqubo zokukhubazeka. Fumana ukuba isikolo sakho somntwana sinaluphi uhlobo lwekharityhulam olufundisa abantwana malunga nokukhubazeka. Xa abantwana beqonda ukukhubazeka komntwana omnye, banako ukuba babe ngumlingani.
Khuthaza umntwana wakho ukuba afake oontanga abakhubazekileyo kwimisebenzi. Ukutya isidlo sasemini kwithebula elifanayo, ukudlala ekuphumeni, okanye ukutshitshisa ingxoxo kuphela iindlela ezimbalwa umntwana wakho angabandakanya ngazo .
Ukuba umntwana wakho ufuna ukumema umntwana onokukhubazeka kwimicimbi yokuzalwa, unokufuna ukubiza omnye umzali ukuba akhulume ngendlela yokwenza ukuba kwenzeke. Yithi, "Unyana wam ufuna ukuba neqela langaphandle kwaye uyafuna ukuba umntwana wakho abe khona. Sinokuyenza njani loo nto? "
Indlela yokuthetha nomntwana wakho malunga nokukhubazeka kwakho
Ukuba unokukhubazeka, umntwana wakho unokufumana imibuzo eninzi malunga nokuba uya kuphucula okanye kutheni ungeke wenze izinto ezithile. Kubalulekile ukunika iimpendulo ezithembekileyo ngendlela enomntwana.
Kungadanisa abantwana ukuba umzali onesifo sokukhubazeka esingabonakali ngaphandle. Abantwana abakwazi ukubona into engalunganga xa umzali enenkinga ebandakanya intlungu engapheliyo, umzekelo, ngoko kubalulekile ukunika abantwana ulwazi oluncinane malunga nesayensi emva kwezinto ezenzeka kumzimba wakho.
Kwakhona kunokuba luncedo ukwabelana ngeendlela zokuzinakekela. Ingaba uyaya kwipilisi yonyango, ufumane i-acupuncture, okanye uthabathe amayeza, ucacise kumntwana wakho ukuba uthatha amanyathelo okuzinyamekela.
Ukuba unesiphene esitsha-njengokulahlekelwa kwesigxina kwingozi-kwaye umntwana wakho unzima ukulungelelanisa, funa uncedo lobuchwepheshe . Ukuthetha nomntwana we-psychotherapist kunokunceda umntwana wakho asebenze iimvakalelo zakhe aze atshintshe kwiinguqulelo.
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