Enye yezona zinto zibaluleke kakhulu esinokuzenza njengabazali ukufundisa abantwana bethu indlela yokuncedisa . Ukufundisa abantwana ukuba bavolontile kungekhona nje ukubanceda ukuba babe ngabantu abalungileyo , kodwa kuyabafundisa ezibalulekileyo izifundo ezifana nendlela yokuxabisa izinto abanayo (intsapho, ikhaya, ukutya, kunye nendawo yokuhlala, kunye nezinye izinto ezisisiseko ukuba abo bahluphekileyo ukungabi nako), kwaye ubakhuthaze ukuba babe novelwano kwabanye.
Indlela Yokukhetha Umsebenzi Wokuzithandela Wezingane Zakho
Esinye isicatshulwa ukugcina engqondweni kukuba ulungele umsebenzi wokuzithandela kumntu wabantwana bakho, ubuchule kunye neminqweno. Umzekelo, ukuba umntwana wakho usemncinci, imisebenzi yokuzithandela edinga iiyure zomsebenzi wenyama ayinakufaneleka. Ukuba uyakuthanda ukuba achukumise kwaye angathanda ukuphuma ngaphandle, ukuthatha inxaxheba kwindawo yokucoca ipaki okanye ukukhwela i-tricycle okanye ibhayisiki kwibhayisiki-thon kungase kube yindlela eyonwabileyo yokunceda abanye.
Ungaphinda ufune ukuqwalasela imisebenzi evumela ukuba uzinikezele ndawonye njengentsapho. Ukusebenza kunye njengentsapho ukunceda abanye akuyona indlela elula yokumisela umzekelo kumntwana wakho, kodwa yindlela efanelekileyo yokuchitha ixesha kunye kunye nokuzonwabisa xa wenza into enceda abanye.
Nazi ezinye iingcamango zemisebenzi enkulu yokuzithandela yabantwana:
Ukuqokelela ukutya okuPakishwe
Amasonto amaninzi asekuhlaleni kunye namaziko asekuhlaleni anganikela ngokuthe ngqo okanye abe nomgca kumaqela aququzelela imizamo yokunceda kwiindawo zokuhlala zendawo kunye nezinye i-arhente ezinika uncedo kwiintsapho kunye nabantu abafuna.
Abantwana bakho bangangena ekuthengeni kunye nawe ukuba ukhethe izinto zokunikela, ezifana nokutya okusemathinini, abacuki, i-diapers, kunye nokunye, kwaye kukukunceda ukuhambisa loo mveliso ukusabalalisa.
Ukunikezela Iimfesi Neencwadi
Abantwana banokuthi bajonge ngaphaya kwendlu ngezinto eziphambili kodwa ezingasetyenzisanga, njengamathoyizi kunye neengubo abaye bazenza.
Ukuhamba okanye Ukukhwela I-Charity
Nantsi ingcinga enkulu yokuba abantwana bangenza njani umahluko kwaye bafaneleke ngexesha elifanayo: bahamba-tons okanye i-bike-a-thons. Imibutho emininzi yesizwe efana ne-Juvenile Diabetes Research Foundation (JDRF) kunye ne-American Cancer Society ibambe intsapho kunye nabantwana bahamba-tons, kunye nezibhedlele ezifana neChammer Sloan Ketting, ehambisa i-100 pesenti yemali evela kwi-walk-to-thon to research , uququzelele iziganeko zokuhamba kwiidolophu eziliqela.
Iintlobo zokuthatha inxaxheba kwi-walk- okanye ibhayisikili-thon iya ngaphaya komncintiswano ngokwawo. Ngaphandle kokunika abantwana ithuba lokuzikhukhumeza kunye nokufezekisa xa bathatha inxaxheba kwisiganeko esinje, uqeqesho lokuhamba kunye nomama noba lunokuba yindlela efanelekileyo kakhulu yokuba iintsapho zichithe ixesha kunye kunye nexesha elifanelekileyo.
Ukucoca iiPaki
Njengoko abantwana bekhula, banokuthatha inxaxheba ekucoceni imicimbi epakini. Kwabantwana abancinci banokukunceda ngokukhupha ityala. Xhagamshelana nepaki yakho yangaphakathi ukuze ubone ukuba zeziphi iintshukumo iintsapho ezingenayo inxaxheba.
Ukusebenza kwiJust Community
Ukunceda iintyatyambo zezityalo, imifuno kunye nezinye izinto ezikhulayo ngumsebenzi omangalisayo kubantwana. Baya kufumana ingqiqo enkulu yokufezekisa njengoko bebukela iziphumo zomsebenzi wabo bekhula, kwaye baya kuba nako ukuchitha ixesha ngaphandle kwendalo xa besenza into ebalulekileyo kuluntu.
Ukunceda Abamelwane
Abantwana banokuzivolontiya ukunceda abamelwane asebekhulile ngokugubungela indlela yabo yomzila okanye ngokunceda umama nobaba babhake abanye abantu kunye nomama okanye ubaba ukuba bathathe kubo. Abantwana abakhulileyo banokunceda abantwana abancinane bendawo okanye bawancede bafunde ukufunda. (Uncedo lomntwana lwakho lunokubongwa ngokukodwa ngumama ongatshatanga okanye intsapho exakekile enakekela umntwana omtsha okanye umzali osekhulile.)
Naluphi na umsebenzi owenzayo kunye nomntanakho ukwenza isigqibo sokungena ngaphakathi, ukunceda abamelwane kuyindlela eyingozi yokuba umntwana wakho angabi naso kuphela ukuzikhukhumeza kunye nokuzithemba kodwa yindlela enhle yokwenza abahlobo nabantu bakho.