Izicwangciso zokuziphatha kwabafundi ukuzama xa ukuphuma kwexesha kungaphumeleli
Xa kuziwa ekuqeqesheni abantwana , asikho nesisombululo esisodwa esifana nazo zonke iintsana. Ukuba umntwana wakho ungumntwana webhokhwe ochitha ixesha elipheleleyo ngexesha lokuphuma ecatshukile okanye ecasulayo kunye nokukhala kunye nokukhala kwaye awuboni naluphi na ukungafani ekuziphatheni kwakhe, ngoko kuya kuba ixesha lokuvuma ukuba "ukwenza ulwaphulo-mthetho, ngaba ixesha "indlela ayisebenzelanga umntwana wakho .
Ingaba umsebenzi okanye ukuphuma emsebenzini unokuxhomekeka kubuntu bomntwana kunye nomoya, ubudala bakhe kunye nesigaba sokuphuhliswa, kunye nendlela iphuma ngayo ixesha. Ukuphuma kwexesha kungokuba yinto enye umntwana ayidinga ukuzola kwaye ucinge ngokuziphatha kwakhe; kodwa ngomnye umntwana, banokuyeka ukumemeza nokukhathazeka ngokomzwelo. Ukuba ixesha eliphumayo lenza ezinye iingxabano kwaye zithukuthele ekhaya kwaye zingasombululi iingxaki zokuziphatha , kusenokuba yisikhathi sokuqala ngokucwangcisa ezinye iindlela zokuziphatha kwabafundi ukulawula indlela yokuziphatha komntwana ngendlela efanelekileyo.
Amacandelo okuzama ukuzama xa ixesha lokuphuma lingasebenzi
- Hlala upholile uze usebenzise ezinye izixhobo. Ungajongi ukuphuma kwexesha njengegrayile engcwele yengqeqesho yomntwana kwaye uvulekele iindlela ezahlukeneyo zokufundisa umntwana wakho ukuba aziphathe njani. Into ebalulekileyo kukuba udibanise nomntwana wakho, uthethe kakuhle naye, kwaye mxelele ukuba ulindele ukuba ngumntwana owenza ukhetho olufanelekileyo aze athathe abanye - kuquka kunye kunye nawe-ngentlonipho.
- Ukuba ekuqaleni ungaphumelelanga, zama kwakhona. Njengoko ngokunikela ukutya okutsha okanye ukufumana umntwana wakho ukuba adle imifuno , ilizwi elidala malunga nokuzama kwakhona xa ungethelwa okokuqala kukugcina ixesha eliphumayo. Unokuthiya ukuzonda ixesha lokuqala kodwa ekugqibeleni, umntwana wakho angasetyenziselwa ukuthatha ikhefu kude neemeko ezimkhathazayo ukuze azinqabise phantsi aze acwangcise iingcamango neemvakalelo zakhe - izakhono eziza kuba zibaluleke kakhulu njengoko efumana badala.
- Mbonise indlela onokuyenza ngayo ixesha lokuphuma kwexesha. Ngaba ugcina umntwana wakho ngexesha lakhe ngaphandle kwendawo ende kakhulu? (Imizuzu elishumi ingaba yindlela ende kakhulu kumntwana oneminyaka emi-5 ubudala , umzekelo.) Cinga ngobudala kunye nomoya womntwana wakho kwaye unamathele kwixesha elifutshane eliya kubantwana abancinci. Kubantwana abadala, ungathanda ukuba ixesha lilungele ulwaphulo-mthetho: ixesha elide lokubetha nokulwa nomntakwenu kwaye mfutshane ngokuthetha into ekhohlakeleyo kwaye uxolise kwangoko, umzekelo. Yaye ucinge ngolu hlobo: Ngaba uthumela umntwana wakho egumbini lakhe ukuze akwazi ukudlala kunye nemidlalo yakhe? Akuyikumkhuthaza ukuba acinge ngokuziphatha kwakhe kakubi. Okanye ingabe uyimbeka ngexesha kunye neTV? Oku akuyi kusebenza. Cinga ngesithuba esicacileyo ngaphandle kweziphazamiso apho unokucinga malunga noko akwenzileyo nendlela angatshintsha ngayo ukuziphatha kwakhe ngexesha elizayo.
- Qinisekisa - kodwa uqine. Cacisa - ngaphezu kweyodwa xa ufuna - loo nto ayiyiyo isohlwayo, kodwa ithuba lokuba wonke umntu ahlalise. Qinisekisa umntwana wakho ukuba uyamthanda, kodwa ukuba ukuziphatha kwakhe kufuneka kutshintshe kwaye uza kumnceda ukuba acinge indlela yokwenza ukhetho olungcono kwaye uthethe naye xa ixesha liphelile.
- Hlala kufuphi xa umntanakho efumanisa naye. Oku kunokunceda abantwana abaselula bahlale ngexesha kwaye bangakhathazeki xa bephuma ngaphandle. Kodwa qiniseka ukuba ungathethi kumntwana wakho okanye uxoxe naye.
- Nika izinto azithandayo ixesha kunye nokuthatha amalungelo. Ngaba umntwana wakho uyathanda ukudlala iMicecraft? Mxelele ukuba akayi kuvunyelwa ukudlala ixesha elithile (iintsuku okanye iveki, kuxhomekeke kubukhulu bezinto azenzileyo). Ngaba uyathanda ukuba nabahlobo emva kwesikolo okanye ahambe kunye nabahlobo bakhe? Unokulahlekelwa ngamalungelo omdlalo ngenxa yokuziphatha okubi. Cinga ngezinto umntwana wakho azithandayo kwaye anike ezo zinto ithuba lokumkhokela ngendlela efanelekileyo.
- Musa ukuvimbela ngokomzimba wakho umntwana. Ixesha lokuphumla licinga ukuthula kwaye lihlalise. Ukuzama ukumbamba umntwana wakho kukuchasene noko, kwaye kunokubangela ukuba umntwana wakho akhatywe.