Kubalulekile ukubetha izambatho zabantwana bakho ababonelela ngeenkonzo zontsikelelo , ootitshala, abaqeqeshi, abacebisi beenkampu kunye nabanye abanomncedisi bangafumana isikhwama somntwana wakho, ibhotile yamanzi, izihlangu kunye nazo zonke izinto ezithunyelwa kubo imihla ngemihla. Nangona kunjalo, ingabhala iingubo, iibhotile zamanzi okanye ezinye izinto zenza umntwana wakho ujolise kwizilwanyana ?
Abantu abadala abaxhaphaza abantwana abangenacala, njengabalingani bokuhamba, banamaqhinga okufumana ukuthembela komntwana kwaye enye yezinto ezimbi zibiza umntwana ngegama lakhe.
Umdlwane unokufunda igama kwilebula kwaye abizele kwintsana xa ebonakala 'ekwazi' umntwana wakho. Ngokusoloko kunzima abantwana ukuba bahlukanise abantu abangabazi kubantu ababaziyo, kunye nabafana abalungileyo kubafana ababi. Ukuba umntu omdala uza kubo kwaye uthi igama labo, kunokukwenza umntwana acinge ukuba umntu makabe ngumntu obaziyo okanye umzali wabo uyazi. Oku kwenza umntwana acinge ukuba kulungile ukuthetha nalo mdala.
Iileta Izinto ngokuzikhethela
Iibhatyi zokubhaliweyo, iimbotyi okanye ezinye izinto ngaphandle, kunye negama lomntwana libonakala ngokubonakalayo, lilungile xa abazali behamba nabantwana, akukhuthazwa ukuba babe neebhalile zamagama ezicacileyo kwiimeko apho umntwana engasoloko engaphantsi kobukele omdala . Umzekelo, xa umntwana wakho ekhulile ngokwaneleyo ukuba ahambe ekhaya evela esikolweni ngaphandle kokukhula, awufuni ukuba igama lakhe libonakale. Kuloo meko, bhala igama labo ngokucokisekileyo ngaphakathi.
Xa wenza njalo, ke, qiniseka ukuba ubhala amagama kwindawo apho abantu baya kubheka kwaye babone ulwazi ukuba luye lwashiywa kwaye lubekwe kwiindawo ezilahlekileyo kunye nokuzifumana.
Iimpawu zeAra ezingenakususwa
Qinisekisa ukuba ufake igama lebhokhwe kwizinto ezinqwenelekayo ngokukhethekileyo kwiindawo ezingenakususwa kalula okanye zinqunywe (gweba iilebhile zentengiso, xa kunokwenzeka).
Ukubhala igama lomntwana kwiinki ezingapheliyo ngaphakathi kwikhola, umzekelo, unokuhlala kwindawo epheleleyo. Okokuqala, ke, qiniseka ukuba inki ayiyi kubonakalisa ngaphandle, ngokuyinene ukuchitha ingqalelo kwengubo.
Ileta Ngokwenza
Abanye abazali baye badala iindlela ezahlukileyo zokuchonga izinto zabo kunye nezinto zokubhaliweyo. Inye yentsapho imibala yamalungu entsapho ngombala kwaye ibuyisele lolo lwazi kubafundisi besikolo, ootitshala, kunye nosapho kunye nabahlobo ngokufanayo. Uye wahlakulela isinyithi esincinane-kwilebula ayifake kwizambatho aze asebenzise amanqaku angapheliyo kwinkqubo yokumbala ukuze athathe iibheyi nezinye izinto. Omnye umzali usebenzisa nje i-initials yakhe yezingane, ngelixa elinye libeka igama lentsapho kwinto yonke, kwaye ithemba lokuba izinto ezilahlekileyo ziya kubuyiselwa kuye ngale ndlela.
Iindidi zeeLebhile
Kukho iinketho ezininzi xa kuziwa kubhala iingubo zezingane. Ungasebenzisa ipeni yomatshini wokuhlamba okanye imfashini ye-Sharpie yokudala ukubhala amagama kwiingubo. Kukho iinkampani ezenza amalebhu ezenziwe ngabanye, njengeebhalile zepaki okanye isinyithi-kwiibhile.
Yintoni Okufanele Uyenze Ukukhusela Abantwana Bakho?
Iingcebiso zokugcina ubunikazi bomntwana bakho abucala ukuba ubhale izinto zakho zomntwana ngaphakathi kwento yakhe yokugqoka kunye neziqalo zakhe okanye ugqibe kwisimboli esikhethekileyo, njengeenkwenkwezi, intliziyo okanye amachashaza amabini ngaphakathi kwesangqa.
Ngaloo mqondiso, unokwazi ukubona oko kungowomntwana wakho ngaphandle kokubonisa nayiphi na inkcazelo.
Igama elivela kwi-Verywell
Ekugqibeleni, into yokuba uxolo lwengqondo ngaphezu kokuba mhlawumbi lukhusele ngakumbi ukhuseleko lokuba umntwana ozithandayo okanye iingubo ezithandwayo / ezigqithwe ngaphandle kwekhaya aziyi kugcina kunye nawe ekupheleni kosuku.