Abazali banako ukunika abantwana izixhobo eziyimfuneko ukuze bahlale bekhuselekile
Abazali nabanakekeli banokukunceda abantwana baphephe umngcipheko wokubanjiswa ngeengcebiso ezingekho kwamanye amazwe. Akukho iveki ehamba ngaphandle kwengxelo yeendaba kwingxelo yokuthunjwa, ukuxhatshazwa okanye umntwana olahlekileyo. Ubomi obubi kakhulu bomzali bunokuncitshiswa ngokufundisa abantwana ngokuphathelele "ingozi engaphandle."
Indlela abantwana abafanele baphendule ngayo xa abahambi beza
Ukunciphisa umngcipheko wokuthunjwa okanye ukuxhatshazwa, abantwana kufuneka bahambe kunye namaqela abahlobo xa ibhayisekile ehamba okanye ehamba okanye evela esikolweni okanye kwezinye iindawo.
Bafundise abantwana ukuba bathi hayi kwaye baqhube ukuba umfo angabahambisi. Abantu abadala kufuneka bachaze oko "uhlanga" kuthetha.
Tshela abantwana ukuba umntu olandela ngeenyawo ukuba asebenze ngokukhawuleza. Ukugijima kwindlu yomntu okanye kwabanye abantu. Ngokufanayo, ukuba umntu ulandele umntwana ngemoto, fundisa umntwana ukuba asebenze ngendlela eyahlukileyo okanye athathe indlela apho imoto ayiyi kuhamba nayo.
Abantwana mabafundiswe ukuba bangashiyi imisebenzi yesikolo kunye nomntu obenza bazive bengakhululekile. Abazali bafanele bathathe amanyathelo okukhusela abantwana ukuba bangabikho okanye bahlale bodwa kwisikolo okanye omnye umsebenzi. Abazali mabaxelele abantwana ukuba abanye abantu abangaziwayo bangasondela ukuba bathi kukho intsapho yengxamiseko. Fundisa umntwana ukuba ahlale eqinisekisa olu lwazi ngabazali okanye nabanye abantu abadala abathembekileyo kwaye angalokothi asuse nomfokazi.
Imisebenzi yabantu abadala abanokuyithatha
Ukunyuka kwamanzi kufuneka kusekwe "izindlu ezikhuselekileyo" apho abantwana beziva bekhululekile ukukhonta emnyango nangayiphi na imeko imeko ifuna.
Qinisekisa ukuba ufumane imvume evela kubamelwane ngaphambi kokuba ukhethe indlu "njengendlu ephephile." Ukuba kunokwenzeka, ube neentlanganiso zokugcina ukhuseleko lommandla ukuxoxa ngezicwangciso zendlu ephephile.
Abazali akufanele babe ngabalala ngokuvumela abantwana ukuba bahambe bodwa kwikhaya lomngane kwindawo yokuhlala, nokuba ngaba iingcango ezimbalwa kuphela.
Ukunyunjwa kwezinto ezinokuthi zenzeke zingakwenzeka kwangoko, ngamanye amaxesha ngaphantsi kweso liliso lomzali. Ulutsha oludala luyalelwe ukuba lubize xa lufika kwikhaya lomhlobo ukuze uxolo lwengqondo kunye nokuba yinto efanelekileyo yokwenza ukhuseleko.
Ungalokothi uvumele abantwana baqhube phambili kwiyadi yodwa ngaphandle kokujonga ngokuthe ngqo ngumntu omdala. Oku kunika amathuba amaninzi kubaphangi okanye ukuphazamiseka. Inqoloba yindlela ekhuselekileyo kunye neyodwa. Abantu abadala kufuneka bawabulise abancinci njengoko bephuma kwibhasi yesikolo baze bangahambi nabo bodwa, ukuba kunokwenzeka.
Abantu abadala kufuneka baqonde ukuba abafana banomngcipheko olinganayo njengemantombazane evela kwiidlozi. Kuyinto engafanelekanga into yokuba abantwana abancinci bafana namadoda afuna amantombazana. I-Molesters ifika kuwo onke amabini kunye nobabini, kwaye amaxhoba abo angabelana ngesini.
Gwema Ukupapasha Amagama Ezingane
Abazali bafanele baqaphele ngokusetyenziswa kakubi kwegama lomntwana kwi-backpack okanye kwijacket. Ngezinye amaxesha abantwana bakholelwa ukuba umntu akakwazi ukuba ngumfokazi ukuba uyabazi ngegama, xa inyaniso kukuba igama labo lifundeka kalula kwiingubo zabo okanye umntu owamva igama elitsha elikhankanywe.
Ukuqhawula phezulu
Abazali bafanele baqale ukuqinisa izi ngcebiso zokukhusela ngokukhawuleza xa inkwenkwe ikhulile ngokwaneleyo ukuyiqonda.
Bamele baqinisekise ukuba umntwana wabo uziva ekhululekile ukuxoxa ngale miba, ukukhathazeka okanye ukwesaba okanye nayiphina imicimbi ephazamisayo esele idlulile. Ukuqwashiswa kwezi ngcebiso zokukhusela kunokunceda abantwana bangabikho kancinci kwiingozi ezingaphandle.