Yintoni ongayilindela kule minyaka
Njengamaqela amaninzi okuphuhliswa kwabantwana, ixesha lokuphuhliswa kweminyaka eneminyaka eli-6 libonakaliswa yimpikiswano. Umntwana oneminyaka engama-6 uya kuba neenyawo ngokunyanisekileyo kwiminyaka emininzi yeminyaka kunokuba wenza njengomntwana onobubele; ngexesha elifanayo, uya kuhlala ekhuselekileyo okuvela ekungeneni kwilizwe elikhulu ngaphandle kokuthuthuzelwa ngumama noyise.
Njengoko ekhula ngokuphindaphindiweyo esikolweni, emidlalweni yokudlala, amaqela okuzalwa, kunye neminye imisebenzi ngaphandle komzali, unokufuna kwaye adinge ingqwalaselo kunye nokuthuthuzelwa ekhaya.
Ukwazisa Ngokomoya
Abantwana abaneminyaka emithandathu baya kuba nolwazi ngakumbi ngemvakalelo-bobabini kunye nabanye. Basenokuqonda iingcamango ezinzulu ezifana nendlela yokunyamekela ngokungazilimazi iimvakalelo zabanye, bathi, bathethe into ebalulekileyo malunga nabo ngqo loo mntu.
Ukuzithemba noKhuseleko
Kubabaninzi abaneminyaka engama-6 ubudala , i-center ye-indalo iya kuba zonke iinjongo kunye neenjongo, zikhona. Abantwana abaneminyaka emithandathu baya kugxeka abanye ngamabali, kwaye ngokuqhelekileyo balindele abanye ukuba banomdla kubo njengabo. Baya kuba nekratshi ngeentsebenzo zabo kunye neetalente kwaye baya kufuna ukwabelana ngemifanekiso yabo, amakhono okwenyama, kunye nezinye izinto malunga nabo ukuba bazive bebenza bazimelele kwaye bazikhethele.
Kuya kuba ngabazali ukukhokela abantwana baze bafundise malunga nomgca ophakathi kokuzithemba nokuziqhayisa.
Ngexesha elifanayo, baya kuziva bekhuselekile baze bafune udumo oluvela kwabanye. Uneminyaka engama-6 ubudala unokufuna ukwenza izinto ngokugqibeleleyo kwaye kunokuba nzima kubo ukuba umsebenzi wabo awulungile njengoko befuna ukuba (ukuba balahlekelwa ngumdlalo okanye abanakubonakala ngathi bafumana umfanekiso ukuba bajonge nje ngendlela ababefuna ngayo, umzekelo).
Baza kufuna ukulungelelanisa kwaye baya kufuna abahlobo babo esikolweni ukuba bavume izinto abazenzayo. Uneminyaka engama-6 ubudala unokuba nzima kunamkela ukugxeka okanye ukucebisa kwaye kwaye unokunyamekela ukuqeqeshwa.
Uninzi lwalo lukhuseleko luya kuvela kwiminyaka engama-6 ubudala yokunyuka kwendalo. Abazali banokukunceda ngokwazi ukukhupha kunye nokukhupha kwaye banokunceda umntwana wabo azive ngcono xa eqhubela phambili ngokwabo ngokubonelela ngomoya othuthuzelayo ekhaya apho abantwana banokuziva bekhuselekile kwimihla ngemihla kunye nokuqinisekiswa kothando nokuqonda.
Ukungathintekiyo kunye neenqununu
Uneminyaka engama-6 ubudala uya kubona izinto njengezimnyama nomhlophe kwaye ziza kubonisa izimvo ezinzulu ngezinto. Bangahamba besuka kwizinto ezithandekayo malunga nento engabikhoyoyo ukuba kukho into engayi kuhamba nayo. Basenokubona into enhle kwaye enye into embi kwaye iya kuba neengxaki ekuboneni umgangatho ophakathi.
Olu hlobo lokucinga luqhelekileyo kubantwana abaneminyaka engama-6, abazama ukulungelelanisa baze bahlule ihlabathi elibangqongileyo. I-Pigeon-holing into ethile kwinqanaba inokunceda abaneminyaka engama-6 ubudala banokuqonda, kwaye kunokubanceda bazive benokukwazi ukuqonda amava angaziwa kunye namava. Abazali banokukunceda ngokunyanzelisa abantwana ukuba bacinge ngendlela engacingiyo, ngokubongoza ukuba babone izinto ezivela kwezinye iimbono-isakhono abaza kuzuza ngokusemthethweni njengoko bekhula.
Ubumfihlo
Uneminyaka engama-6 ubudala unokuqala ukubonisa umnqweno wokuzimela ngasese xa begqoka okanye bethintela (nangona baninzi baya kuhlala benandipha ixesha lokuhlamba kunye nomzali osondeleyo kwaye baya kubuza umama okanye utata ukuba ahlambe iinwele). Abantwana kule minyaka bangaqala ukufuna ukwazi ngemizimba yabo, ubulili, kunye nesondo, kwaye unokulindela imibuzo malunga nokuba zivelaphi iintsana.
Ukuzimela
Abantwana abaneminyaka emithandathu ubudala banomdla ngokuqhubekayo kwimisebenzi ngaphandle kwabazali babo. Kodwa njengoko beguquka ekukhululeni ukuzimela, baya kuxhomekeka ngakumbi ekukhuseleni kwekhaya, iinkqubo, abazali kunye nabahlobo. Imizila eqikelelweyo njengemikhuba yasebusuku, imisebenzi emva kwesikolo kunye nemihla yokudlala rhoqo kunye nabahlobo iya kubaluleka kubantwana abaneminyaka engama-6 ubudala; kubo, le mi sebenzi rhoqo kunye nobudlelwane baya kunika ukhuseleko abayidingayo njengoko behlangabezana neengxaki ezingaqhelekanga namava.
Abantwana kule minyaka bangaphinda babonise umnqweno wokuzikhethela iingubo zabo, bazihlambe baze badibanise iinwele zabo. Abazali banokukunceda ukukhuthaza ukuzinakekela okuzimeleyo kwaye banikeze isikhokelo kunye nenkxaso (ngokuvumela abantwana bahlambe baze "bancede" ekugqibeleni okanye bacebise i-sweater kunye neendwangu ukuba kubanda kakhulu ukuya esikolweni nje ngeengubo ezithandayo, umzekelo).
Ukuxhalabisa ukuxhalabisa kusenokuba ngumcimbi wabantwana abaneminyaka engama-6 ubudala, kodwa kuya kuba nzima kakhulu kuba abantwana ngokwemvelo bakha ubungqina obuqinileyo kunye nabahlobo nootitshala esikolweni kwaye baqhele ukuchitha ixesha elide kude nekhaya.