Inkcazo, Ukuxilongwa, kunye Nento elandelayo
"Ngaba ndingenamntwana?"
Izibini ezininzi zizibuza le mibuzo emva kokuzama ukukhulelwa . Ezinye iziqabane ziqala ukukhathazeka xa zingakhange zikhulelwe emva kweenyanga ezimbalwa . Abanye abakhathazeki de kube ngumnyaka okanye ngaphezulu kudlule.
Nali iindaba ezilungileyo: ukuba uzama ngaphantsi konyaka, ngaphandle nje kokuba ungenayo impawu okanye umngcipheko , ungaqiniseka ukuba kuyinto evamile ukuthatha iinyanga ezininzi ukuba ukhulelwe.
Nangona kunjalo, ukuba uzama ukukhulelwa unyaka (okanye iinyanga ezintandathu, ukuba uneminyaka engama-35 okanye ngaphezulu ), ngoko kufuneka ubone ugqirha wakho. Unokuba ungenasiphelo.
Nasi isizathu.
Kuyintoni ukungahambi?
Ukungabi nalutho kuchazwa njengokungakwazi ukukhulelwa emva kokulala ngokungaxhatshali ngokwesondo.
Ngoko, ngentsingiselo, ukuba ulokhu uzama ukukhulelwa kweenyanga ezili-13, umzekelo, ubhekane nobunzima.
Kwakhona, nangona kungengekona ubuchwepheshe "ukungabi nantoni," ukuba ulahleka ezimbini okanye ngaphezulu kwezihlandlo, oku kunokuba ngumqondiso wenkinga yokuzala.
Umele ubone ugqirha ukuba ...
- Uzama ukukhulelwa iinyanga ezili-12 okanye ngaphezulu ezingaphumelelanga
- uye waba neenqwelwana ezimbini okanye ngaphezulu ngaphezulu
- uneminyaka engama-35 okanye ngaphezulu kwaye uzama ukukhulelwa iinyanga ezili-6 okanye ngaphezulu
- unempawu okanye umngcipheko wokungabikho kwengqondo (ngaphezulu kwento engezansi)
Kutheni ixesha elincinci labasetyhini 35 nangaphezulu?
Ukukhulelwa ngokwemvelo kuyancipha ngokukhawuleza ngokuqala kwiminyaka engama-35 . Ukuba kukho into engalunganga, kubalulekile ukuba umba ufunyenwe, ufumane unyango kwaye uphathwe ngokukhawuleza.
Kungakhathaliseki ukuba uneminyaka elingakanani, ukufumana uncedo ngokukhawuleza kuya kwandisa imiphumo yakho yokuphumelela ukukhulelwa.
Ukuxilongwa Kokungafihlisi Kwenziwa Njani?
Ngencazelo, ugqirha unokukufumanisa ukuba ungenasifo emva komnyaka owodwa wokuzama ukukhulelwa ungaphumeleli.
Awudingi ukuba neempawu ezithile okanye iziphumo zokuvavanya ukufumana oku kuxilongwa.
Yenzelwe kuphela ngokusekelwe kwithuba elide ukuzama ukukhulelwa.
Oko kwathiwa, ukuba unempawu ezithile okanye umngcipheko, ugqirha wakho unokuthi usengozini yokungabikho.
Umzekelo, mhlawumbi ugqirha wakho sele sele efumene ukuba ngu-PCOS . Mhlawumbi oku kuxilongwa kwenziwa ngaphambi kokuba ucinge ngokuqalisa intsapho.
Abasetyhini abane-PCOS basengozini yokungabikho.
Kodwa ngaba bayaqinisekiswa ukuba babe nobunzima bokukhulelwa? Hayi akunjalo.
Kukho abesifazana abane-PCOS abaza kuba nemiba engaphantsi konyaka kungekho ncedo lonyango. Kukho abanye abangayi kukhulelwa ngokwabo. Abanye banokuqhubeka bekhulelwe ngezobuchopho obuphantsi; abanye bangadinga i-IVF. Abambalwa abanakuze baveze.
Ingaba unobungozi bokungapheli, unempawu, okanye uzame unyaka kwaye ungenayo impawu, nceda ubone ugqirha wakho.
- Imibuzo: Ngaba Ubunzima Bakho Bungozini? Okanye Ngaba Unokuba Unobomi?
Kuthetha ukuthini Ukuba Nobuhlungu?
Ukungabi naluphi uhlobo aluyilo. Kubalulekile ukuqonda oko.
Ukuba umntu ungeyinyumba, akakwazi ukukhulelwa kwakhe. Akunakwenzeka ukuba ukukhulelwe kwenzeke ngokwemvelo. (Basenokukwazi ukufumana umntwana ngoncedo lokuncedisa ubuchwepheshe bokuzala, njenge- IVF okanye i- surrogacy .)
Ukuba umntu ongenasiphelo, banokuba nobunzima bokukhulelwa ... kodwa kusenokwenzeka ukuba kunokwenzeka ukuba ukhulelwe rhoqo.
Ngokuxhomekeke kwisibalo sokungabikho kwengqondo, inani leempawu zokukhulelwa ngokwemvelo lingaba luphantsi kakhulu. Kodwa azinjalo.
Kukho izibini ezithembele ekungabikho kwazo njengokulawulwa kokuzalwa . Bamangaliswa kukuba, bekhulelwe!
Akuqhelekanga, kwaye akufanele ulawule unyango lwezityalo ezinethemba lokuwunqoba ithikithi ye-lottery engaqhelekanga-kodwa engapheliyo. Kodwa kunokwenzeka.
Ukuxhamlaza: Ziziphi iimeko eziza kuba ndiza kuba Ndikhulelwe ukuba ndingenayo i-HIV?
Uninzi lwezibini ezithandane ziza kukhulelwa ngoncedo lwezonyango zokuzala.
Ininzi yezi zibini ziza kuba nokukhulelwa ngemithi ephantsi. Ipesenti encinci yeembhangqwana ezinokungazinzi zifuna i-IVF.
Iindaba ezimbi kukuba akukho zibalo ezilula ngokulula kwiingxaki zakho zokukhulelwa okanye ngaphandle kwonyango.
Kukho iindlela ezininzi zokuqwalasela.
Iingxaki zakho zokubetha ukungabikho komntwana, nokuba ngaba unyango lwezityalo okanye utshintsho lwendlela yokuphila, kuxhomekeke kwi ...
- lakho leminyaka kunye nomlingani wakho
- isizathu sokungabikho
- ixesha elide ulizama ngayo
- izibonelelo zakho zemali (kwimeko apho unyango olubi lufunekayo)
I-endocrinologist yokuzala inomntu oyena mntu ungcono kakhulu ukuthetha malunga nokuxela kwakho. Kodwa ke ugqirha omkhulu okhulayo akaqinisekanga ukuba unyango oluthile luya kusebenza.
Kwakhona, ukuba iklinikhi yokuzala inokukunika isifo esilungileyo okanye esenakukuphatha, soloko ufumana umbono wesibini.
Ngamanye amaxesha iklinikhi ingazama ukuphepha iimeko ezinzima. Abafuni ukunciphisa amazinga abo okuphumelela kwi-IVF . Kodwa ngokwenene usenalo ithuba elihle lokuphumelela.
- Ngaba I-Clomid Iya Kusebenza Kwam?
- Ziziphi iirhafu ze-IUI?
- Ngaba Akalokothi Unikeze Iseluleko Esihle?
Ndicinga ukuba Siphephe. Yintoni Senzayo Ngoku?
Isinyathelo sokuqala kukubona i-gynecologist yakho malunga novavanyo olusisiseko lokuvuna. Umlingani wakho kufuneka abone urologist. Ufuna uqiniseke ukuba uvavanywe ngokukhawuleza.
Ukusuka apho, ugqirha wakho unokunika unyango okanye akuthumele kwiklinikhi yokuzala.
- Asikwazi ukufumana isisu. Kwenzeka ntoni emva koko?
- Iintlobo ezi-5 nganye Iingqabane ezine-Infertility kufuneka ziyazi
- Izinketho ezili-17 zoNyango lweZonyango
Imithombo:
Zarinara A1, Zeraati H2, Kamali K1, Mohammad K2, Shahnazari P1, Akhondi MM1. "Iimodeli Ukuqikelela Ukuphumelela Kwonyango Lokungabi Namaqondo: Uhlolo Oluhlelekile." J Reprod Infertil . 2016 ngoMeyi-Juni; 17 (2): 68-81.