Indlela Yokuba Nomntwana Xa Uzama Ukuqonda Ngexesha Elide

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Musa ukuzama ukufumana uncedo

Ukuba uyazibuza ukuba unomntwana, ngakumbi ukuba uzama ukukhawuleza, le nxalenye ininzi, inqaku elingaphaya kweyona-siseko. Nangona kunjalo, ukuba uqala nje ukuzama ukukhulelwa, kufuneka ufunde eli nqaku: Indlela yokufumana isisu - I-TTC yabaqalayo

Musa ukuzama ukufumana uncedo xa ufuna

Oogqirha bancomela ukufuna uncedo lokuzala ukuba ...

• Uneminyaka engama-35 ubudala okanye umncinci kwaye awukwazi ukukhulelwa emva kokulalana okungekho mthethweni ubuncinane omnye unyaka.
• uneminyaka engaphezu kweminyaka engama-35 ubudala, kwaye awukwazi ukukhulelwa emva kweenyanga ezintandathu (kuba amathuba okuphulukana ngokukhawuleza unyango sele ehla emva kwe-35, ukuxilongwa ngokukhawuleza kunye nokunyanga kubalulekile).
• okanye, ukuba uye wakwazi ukukhulelwa, kodwa ube neengcambu ezimbini okanye ezilandelelanayo.

Ukuba unayo nayiphi na impawu yokungabikho kwengqondo ngaphambili, kunjalo, akudingeki ukuba ulinde ngaphambi kokuba uthethe ugqirha wakho.

Nangona kukho iziphakamiso, ezininzi izibini azifuni ukuhlolwa kovalo. Olunye uphando olungacwangciswanga, olwenziwa yiConcept Magazine kunye neFower LifeLines, lufumene ukuba i-38% yezibini zazama ukungaphumeleli ukuba zikhulelwe ngaphezu konyaka kwaye zange zifune uncedo.

Ndiyayiqonda isizathu sokuba unganqikaze ukufuna uncedo. Ukucela uncedo kukuvuma ukuba into enokungahambi kakuhle, kwaye mhlawumbi iya kuqinisa uxhalaba lwakho wena nomlingane wakho okhuselekileyo. Kwakhona, ukuba awuqinisekanga ukuba ngaba uya kufuna unyango lwezityalo, unokucinga ukuba ukufumana uncedo akufanelekanga inkathazo.

Nangona ndiyakuqonda oku, ndiyazi nokuba ukulinda ixesha elide kunokubuya. Kukho izimbangela zokungabikho kwempilo ezidlulileyo kunye nobudala. Kwakhona, ezinye zezizathu zokungabikho kwengxaki zingaphendululwa ngaphandle kweziyobisi zenzalo, ngoko ke nangona uqinisekile ukuba awufuni Clomid okanye IVF , ugqirha wakho unokukwazi ukuphatha ingxaki yakho ngenye indlela.

Kwaye kukho konke oku, ukungabi nantoni ngamanye amaxesha kungabakho uphawu lweyona nkinga yempilo ebalulekileyo, efuna ukuba isombulule ukuba ngaba ungekho isigqibo ekupheleni kokufuna unyango.

Kuzo zonke izizathu, kungcono ukuvavanya ngoku ngokuzama ukuzama.

Uninzi malunga neempawu zokungabikho komntwana kunye nokufumana uncedo:

• Andikwazi ukufumana isisu. Ngoku kuthweni?
• Iimpawu zokungafihliyo kunye neengozi zobunzima
• Ukukhulelwa emva kwe-35

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Fumana ugqirha wezityalo ezifanelekileyo

Emva kokuba unqume ukufuna uncedo, unokuzibuza ukuba ngubani ozakubiza. Ukubheja phambili kukuqala nge-gynecologist yakho. Unako ukuthabatha imbali ebalulekileyo, uqalise ukuhlolwa kobunzima bokuqala, kwaye ubhekise, ukuba kuyimfuneko, kwi- endocrinologist yokuzala .

Abanye ababelethwayo bezintlu bahlala bekhululekile ngokumisela unyango olusisiseko, njengoClomid. Ngakolunye uhlangothi, izazi zezilwanyana ezingenalo oogqirha bezityalo zingakhange zijonge unyango ngokukhawuleza, okanye zingenako ukuvavanya ngokucokisekileyo ngaphambi kokuba unyango.

Ukuba uhlalutyo lwesambuko aluqhelekanga, okanye kukho ezinye iimpawu okanye iimpawu zokungabikho komntwana, iqabane lamadoda kufuneka libone i-urologist.

Enye into ekumele uyigcine engqondweni: ogqirha ongcono kunazo zonke ongenakho ukuba nguyena wakho ugqirha wezilwanyana ocebisa okanye ugqirha ozala owamnceda umhlobo wakho. Kufuneka ufumane ugqirha onamava kunye neemfuno zakho zonyango.

Ngamanye amaxesha oku kuya kuthetha ukutshintshela iiklinikhi zokuzala emva kokuvavanywa kobugqirha kunye nomnye ugqirha okanye emva kokuphulukana kwamanyango amaninzi. Ungakhathazeki malunga nokulimaza imizwa yakho ugqirha ngokubona omnye umntu. Kufuneka wenze okulungileyo kuwe, kungekhona "okulungileyo."

Ukufumana ugqirha wokuzala:

• Iingcali zeZenzalo: Ngoobani kunye nabo kunye nendlela abanokukunceda ngayo
• Ukufumana iCliniki yokuThuthuka kakhulu kunawe
• Uluhlu lweDktr for the Society for Endproductive Endocrinology and Unfertility
• Indlela yokutshintsha oogqirha

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Qalisa ukulandelela iiKhosi zakho ngeenkcukacha

Ngethuba ulindele ukufumana ugqirha wokuzala (ezinyangeni ezimbalwa zilinde), ungafuna ukuqala ukulandelela imijikelezo yakho, ukuba awuzange wenze njalo. Iinyanga ezimbalwa zokulandelela izityalo ezinokuthi ziza kunceda ugqirha wakho akufumanise ukugcoba okanye ezinye iimpawu zokuzala zentombi, njengengxaki yesigaba se-luteal .

Kuya kufuneka kwakhona ukuba wazi apho ujikeleze khona iimvavanyo ezithile zokuzondla , kwaye ukulandelela umjikelo wakho kuya kukunceda ucebise iimvavanyo ngokukhululeka.

Indlela efanelekileyo yokulandelela imijikelezo yakho inesidingi somzimba osisiseko , uzalisekile ngeempawu zakho zokuya esikhathini (ezinjengeenkampu, ukuphawula kunye nokuguquka kwemizwelo) kunye neenguqu zomlomo . Kwabo abangenayo okanye abakwazi ukwenza okuchanekileyo kwi-BBT, ukugcina ingxelo engaphantsi kwexesha lokuhamba kwimihla kulunge kunokuba akukho naluphi na ulwazi.

Ungaphinda ufune ukufunda ngezinto ezibhekwa njengexesha eliqhelekileyo lempawu, ngoko unokuthetha into engavumelekanga kumgqirha wakho.

Oluthe xaxa malunga nokulandelelana nokutsalathisa:

• Iimbuzo: Ngaba ikhefu lam eliqhelekileyo?
• Njani (kwaye Kutheni) Ukugcina Ikhalenda Yenzalo
• Yonke Eyona Ngomzimba I-Basal Temperature Charting
• Indlela yoTyati iMucus yesibeleko
• Iikhompyuthela zokuBala zamaHlathi eziNinzi zeHlabathi
• Indlela yokwazi ukuba ikhefu lakho liqhelekile

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Ukuqonda i-Infertility Diagnosis kunye novavanyo

Ndiqinisekile ukuba uvile ilizwi, "Ulwazi lunamandla." Kwilizwe lezityalo, ukuqonda ukuvavanywa kunye nenkqubo yokuxilonga kunokukunceda ukuba uzikhuthaze, uqonde iziphumo zokuvavanya, wenze izigqibo ezintle malunga nokuvavanywa kunye nokonyango.

Kwakhona, xa uyazi ukuba ulindele ntoni ngexesha lokuvavanya, unokuziva uzixhalabele kakhulu malunga neemvavanyo ngokwabo. Kukho ukuxhalabisa ngokwaneleyo ukungazi isizathu sokuba ungeke ukhulelwe . Into yokugqibela oyifunayo ukukhathazeka ngenxa yokungakwazi ukuba yintoni ukuxilongwa kunye nenkqubo yokuvavanya inokubandakanya.

Enye indlela yokufumana ingcinga engcono yento enokulindela kukubuza ugqirha wakho. Ngethuba enokuthi ugxininise kuphela kwisinyathelo esilandelayo, akufanele kukugcine ungacingi malunga nomfanekiso omkhulu.

Enye into ebalulekileyo ukugcina engqondweni kukuba, ukuvavanya ukukhula, okona kuncinci, kuhlolisise amazinga e-hormone yamaqabane amabhinqa, imiba ye-ovulation, kunye nemiba engundoqo (njengokutshekisha izithintelo ezithintekayo ze-fallopian tubes ), kunye nokuvavanya ukuzala komzimba kunye nokuhlalutya kwesisu , ngokuqhelekileyo akakho ukuqonda ukufumana unyango.

Ngakolunye uhlangothi, ngamanye amaxesha iimvavanyo ezithile zokuqala zokuzala akudingeki ukuba ziqhutywe. Ngokomzekelo, ukuba uhlalutyo lwembewu lufumene ukuba i-IVF iyadingeka ngenxa yenkwenkwe yenkwenkwe yendoda, mhlawumbi akuyimfuneko ukujonga ii-tublopian tubes ezivaliweyo (ekubeni i-IVF ayifuni izibatho ezivulekile). Esi sizathu esilungileyo sokwenza uhlalutyo lwesisu phambi kweemvavanyo ezininzi ezingenayo, njengeHSG .

Esinye isizathu sokuba uqiniseke ukuba ufumana uvavanyo phambi kokuba unyango - kukho oogqirha abaza kubhala imithi yeComomid ngaphambi kokuvavanywa kokuqala kokuzala. Ngelixa unokuziva ulingwa ukuba uqalise unyango ngokukhawuleza, oku akukhethi ukukhetha. I-Clomid ayikwazi ukukunceda ukuba uye wavala iingcambu ze-fallopian okanye ukuba iqabane lakho linabantu abaphantsi besibalo.

Eninzi malunga nokuxilongwa nokuvanywa kwezilwanyana:

• Yintoni enokuyilindela ngexesha lovavanyo lwezityalo
• Ukujongana novavanyo lweZenzalo
• Izizathu zokungafihli
• Iibhulophu zeThilopian eziViweyo
• Ukugcoba
• Endometriosis
• Ukungasebenzi

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Amadoda adinga ukuvavanywa kwezilwanyana, kunjalo!

Ukuthetha ngokuhlolwa kovalo, kubalulekile ukuba bobabini amaqabane ahlolwe. Ekubeni umfazi ubona umfazi wakhe wezintlu ukuba axoxe ngemicimbi yokuzala, kuqala ukufumana ubuncinci bokuvavanya. Kodwa umlingani wesilisa unokugxotha ngokungabalulekanga, ingakumbi ukuba i-gynecologist igxile kuphela kumfazi.

Nangona kunjalo, ezinye iibini, akusilo ukugqithiswa kogqirha ukubonisa ukuvavanya okukhokelela iingxaki - ukungala komntu ukwenza uvavanyo. Kukho amadoda angayi kuvuma ukuhlaziywa kwesilwanyana, mhlawumbi ngenxa yokuba besoyika iziphumo ezimbi okanye abanenkcaso yezenkolo (abafuni "ukuchitha imbewu" okanye ukukhwabanisa ukuvelisa isampuli).

Ingxaki kukuba ukungabikho komntu kubangelwa amaqabane angama-50% azama ukukhulelwa, kunye nezinye izibini ezithandana nomntu ongeyena nto kunye nezinye izibini ezibandakanya iingxaki zokuzala. Ezinye izibonelelo zonyango zinexesha elithile lokusebenza ukuba ubuncinane beentlobo ziphantsi. Ukuba ubalo bebhinqa abukho ngokupheleleyo, unyango olungalathanga le ngqalelo luya kulahlwa.

Akukho mntu uthanda uvavanyo lokuvuna. Kodwa ngakumbi kunzima ukufumana unyango olungenakuphumelela, ngenxa yokungafumani komntu ongenakunikwa.

Ngokuphathelele abo bachasene nenkolo, unokufuna ukuthetha nomcebisi wenkolo, njengomfundisi wakho okanye umfundisi. Kukho iimeko ezingabonakaliyo, ingakumbi kwiimeko zonyango. Ngokomzekelo, ukuba ukuzivuselela kukukhupha, mhlawumbi unokukwazi ukusebenzisa iikhondom ekhethekileyo ngexesha lokulala ukuze ufumane isampuli yovavanyo okanye unyango.

Oluthe xaxa malunga nokungabikho kwamadoda kunye novavanyo:

• Ukungabikho komntu 101
• Yintoni enokuyilindela ngexesha lohlalutyo lomhla
• Ngaba Ndiyayifuna Ngempela Ukuhlaziywa Kwemvelo?
• Indlela Yokujongana Neengxaki Ezijongene Nokuhlolwa okanye Ukunyangwa

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Zixhobisa Ngokwazi Ukunyangwa Kwezityalo

Ukuba uyazi ngokuphathelele ukhetho lwezonyango, bhetele uza kuba nako ukwenza izigqibo zonyango.

Ngokomzekelo, ukuba unenkxalabo malunga nokukhulelwa nge-multiples, ungadlula kunyango lwe-IUI kwaye unyuke kwi-IVF, okanye mhlawumbi i-IVF . Okanye ukuba ufuna amaqanda anikezelayo, kodwa ungenayo imali yeendleko eziphezulu, unokufuna ukuqwalasela ama-embryo abaxhasi, axabisa kakhulu.

Into enokwaziyo kukuba, ngokuqhelekileyo, akufanelekile ukwenza okufanayo kunyango oluphindwe kathathu ngokulandelana. Ukuba iinyanga ezintathu ze-Clomid kwisilinganiselo esifanayo asikukuncedi ukuba ukhulelwe, kusenokuba ixesha lokunyusa umyinge, utshintshe inkqubo yonyango okanye uqhubeke. Ukuba imijikelezo emithathu ye-IUI ayinakunceda ukuba ukhulelwe, oko kunokuthetha ukuba lixesha lokuhamba kwi-IVF.

Andikwazi ukukuxelela ukuba mangaphi amabhinqa anditshilole amabali ngokuthatha iCommid ngaphezu kweenyanga ezintlanu kwizinga elilinganayo lemilinganiselo, okanye abafazi abazama ukufumana unyango lwe-6 okanye ngaphezulu kwe-IUI. Ngokuqinisekileyo, amathuba okuphumelela aqala ukuhlahla emva kwesine ephumelele unyango, kwaye ngokubanzi, ngaphezu kweenyanga ezintandathu zeClomid okanye iinyanga ezi-6 ze-IUI ayikhuthazwa. Awugcini nje ukuchitha ixesha nemali ngokubambelela ngonyango engasebenzi, kodwa ukutshabalalisa iindawo zokugcina iimvakalelo zakho.

Ezinye izibini zibambelela kwiimpawu ezininzi ze-IUI kuba zixhalabele ngexabiso eliphezulu le-IVF . Nangona kunjalo, ukuba unyango lwe-IUI alukwazi ukuphumelela ngenxa yobudala bakho okanye imbangela yokungabikho kwengqondo, uchitha nje imali engasindiswa kunyango lwe-IVF, olunokuthi lube nempumelelo ephezulu.

Oluthe ngakumbi malunga nophatho lokuzala:

• Iinkqubo ze-IVF, iiNngcipheko, iiNdleko kunye neNtlawulo yeNtlawulo
• Iifom zeNtsebenzo ze-IVF
• Ixabiso le-IVF lingakanani?
• Yintoni i-Mini IVF?
• Yintoni iIUI?
• IUI Impumelelo yeeRhafu
• Ziziphi i-Gonadotropins?
• FAQ yeCommid
• Uxinzelelo lwezoNyango: Ukunyamekela njani i-IVF yakho, i-IUI, okanye i-Cycle Treatment Cycle Cycle

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Cinga ngonyango oPheleleyo

Iyeza elongezelelweyo, elithetha ukusebenzisana kunye neyeza eliqhelekileyo, linokuba yinto ekufuneka uyiqwalasele xa uzama ukukhulelwa. Iikliniki ezininzi zokuzala zivula amaziko ezonyango ezongezelelweyo, ngoko ke izigulane ziyakwazi ukufumana i-yogupuncture kunye ne-yoga kwindawo efanayo kunye nokutshintshwa kwe-ultrasounds kunye ne-embryo.

Ukwenziwa kwe-Acupuncture kuyathandwa ngokukhethekileyo, kunye nezinye izifundo ezifumana umgangatho ophezulu wokuphumelela ukukhulelwa xa zihlanganiswe ne-IVF. (Ezinye izifundo, nangona kunjalo, azifumananga iziphumo zokukhulelwa okuphuculweyo.)

Iyeza-mzimba yengqondo ingaba yindlela efanelekileyo yokujongana noxinzelelo lwamayeza okuzala. Imizimba yengqondo iquka izinto ezifana nokucamngca, ukunyanga kwengqondo yokuziphatha, imifanekiso ekhokelwayo, amaqela okuxhasa, i-yoga kunye nomthandazo.

Nangona uphando alukafumananga uxhulumano oluqinileyo ukwandisa ukuzala kunye neengqondo zomzimba, uphando oluninzi luye lwafumana luncedo ekunciphiseni uxinzelelo, ukuxinezeleka kunye nokuxhalabisa. Ezinye izibini zithatha izifo zonyango ngenxa yoxinzelelo kunye nokuxhalabisa. Imizimba yengqondo ingakunceda ufumane unyango olude ukufikelela kwimpumelelo.

Njengamaxesha onke, qiniseka ukuba uvumele ugqirha wakho ukuba wazi ukuba uzama nayiphi na indlela yokulungisa, ingakumbi i-herbal okanye i-vitamin supplement. Ezinye iindlela zonyango zingasebenzisana nezidakamizwa zokuzala, ngamanye amaxesha ngeendlela eziyingozi. Ngoko gcina nje ugqirha wakho wazise.

Okunye malunga neyeza kunye neyeza ezongezelelweyo:

• I-Mind-Body Medicine Treatment for Fertility
• Iindlela ezili-10 zokuba nethemba xa uzama ukukhulelwa
• Yonke Ngokuphathelele Ukwenziwa kweMveliso kunye noButyebi
• Iingcebiso ezili-10 zokunyusa ukwanda komntu
• Izizathu zokufumana uMcebisi

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Qaphela izinto ezikhethiweyo

Kukho konke, khumbula ukuba wenza ntoni: ufuna ukuba nosana okanye ube yingxenye ebalulekileyo yobomi bomncinci. Nangona kukho isizathu sokuba nethemba-kunye ne-80% yabalingani abangenasiphelo ekugqibeleni bafumana umntwana emva kokunyanga - kungekhona wonke umntu ophumelelayo ekukhulelweni.

Awuzange ufune ukucinga ngokusebenzisa umnikeli weqanda, umnikeli wesidoda, okanye umxhasi wombindi xa uqale nje unyango, kwaye unokuba usulungele ukuwuqwalasela ngoku. Kodwa ukukwazi nje ukuba kunokwenzeka kunokunceda.

Okufanayo kuya kwi-surrogacy. Izibini ezimbalwa ziqala uhambo lwazo kubazali ngokuthi zifuna ukuba omnye umntu athathe umntwana. Nangona kunjalo, i-surrogacy iye yanceda abantu abaninzi bakha intsapho yabo.

Ukwamukelwa ngenye indlela, enye leyo amadoda kunye nabasetyhini abayiyokhetha ngaphandle kokuzama ukunyanga kwenyango kwaye abanye baya kulandela emva kokuzama konke okokuqala. Ayikho indlela engcono okanye eyingozi.

Kuthiwani Ukuba Ungeke Ube Nomntwana

Akunjalo wonke umntu ojongene nokungabikho komntwana uya kuqhubeka nokuba nomntwana okanye umntwana wakhe.

Abanye bakhetha ukuba ngumzali okhuselekileyo, uMzalwana Omkhulu okanye Omkhulu udade, okanye umvolontiya kwintlangano yolutsha, njengokujonga. Abanye banandipha ukuba " ngumama " okanye "umalume" kubantwana babo abahlobo okanye amalungu omndeni.

Hayi, akufani nokuba ngumama okanye uyihlo ngokwakho, kwaye anditsho ukuba iya kusula intlungu yokungabikho. Kodwa kubalulekile ukukhumbula ukuba akudingeki ukuba ngumzali ukuba ube ngumntu obalulekileyo ebomini bomntwana.

Abanye bayakuhlala bengenazo abantwana emva kokungabikho komntwana, bakhetha ukungamkeli okanye ukukhusela abantwana (okanye bangafumani imvume yokwamkela okanye yokukhusela abantwana.) Abanye banquma ngokuphila kwabo abantwana kwaye bangaze bazame unyango lwezityalo, ubomi bakhululekile emva kokunyanga kovavanyo. Zomibini zindlela ezifanelekileyo zokuthatha.

Ukungenzi nto kunokukhawuleza kuthatha ubomi bakho kunye nombala wonke. Ingaba ucinga ukuba ungekho umntwana ngaphandle kokuzikhethela okanye ukhululekile ngabantwana kungekhona ngokuzikhethela, kungenxa yexesha lokuphulukisa kunye nexesha lokuyeka ukuzama ukukhulelwa kunye nomzali. Yisihlandlo sokuhlaziya kwakhona ubomi bakho nekamva eliza kubakho ngaphandle kwabantwana.

Xa umntu okanye isibini sithatha isigqibo sokuyeka ukufuna unyango, yeka ukuzama ukukhulelwa, kwaye uyeke ukuzama ukuwamkela, inokuphakamisa umthwalo omkhulu ezintliziyweni zabo kwaye uvumele ukuba indawo iphilise. Oko kukuthi, ubomi buqhubeka emva kokusweleka. Kuye kwahluka kunobomi owake wacinga ukuba nawo, kodwa uyaqhubeka. Unesizathu sokuba nethemba lakho kwikamva, nangona kunjalo akuqinisekanga kubonakala ngoku.

• QHUBEKA: Iingoma malunga noBomi obungenamntwana
• Abazali nge-Egg Donation

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