Uhamba kakuhle endleleni yakho ekufundiseni umntwana wakho ukuba abe ngumntu ozimeleyo, kwaye emva kokukhawuleza, kwenzeka - wakho omncinci uya kuba yinqanaba elingu-5 lokulinganisa. Ingaba ngeveki, iiveki ezimbini okanye ngaphezulu, uyazibuza ukuba kwenzeke ntoni ukuba umntwana wakho enqabe ukushiya ecaleni lakho (okanye umemeza njenge-banshee xa kufuneka).
Njengoko kuvela, nangona kunjalo, abantwana bahamba ngezigaba zokubamba (kwaye, ekugqibeleni, abanye abantwana banamanye ama-clingier kunabanye).
Ukunyaniseka kungabonakalisa ulwalamano oluhle - lithetha ukuba umntwana wakho uzizwa ephephile kwaye ekhululekile nawe.
Ukuze ufikelele ekupheleni, gwema ukungahoywa, ukudimazeka okanye ukujezisa ukuziphatha, njengokuba kunokufumana iziphumo ezingapheliyo kulwalamano lwakho. Oko akuthethi ukuba ufanele unamathele kuyo yonke imfuno, nangona oku mhlawumbi kubekho ixesha lokuba ukhululeke ngakumbi malunga noko utshoyo ewe kwaye akukho.
Ukuba ukunyamezela kuya kuba nzima, qi ni sekise ukuba mhlawumbi isigaba (ngokukodwa ukuba siphume ngaphandle). Yenza utshintsho oluthile kwixesha lakho kwaye mhlawumbi unciphisa umnqweno womntwana wakho ukunamathela kuwe njengeglue.
Qikelela
Njengoko usenokuba uyayazi, abantwana bayaphumelela kwiziqhelo ; Nangona kunjalo, umntwana omncinci akanako ukuqonda ukuba uneshedyuli ehleliwe ngosuku lwamatye kunye nemini-bahlala ngoku. Ukubonelela ngezikhumbuzo eziqhubekayo malunga noko kwenzeke ngokuzayo kunye noko umntwana wakho oza kwenza kamva ngosuku.
Ukuba ucinga ukuba umntwana wakho uya kuqonda, yenza ikhalenda ebonakalayo esebenzisa imifanekiso ukubonisa umcimbi ngamnye ocwangciselwe usuku.
Nika izilumkiso xa kukho into efuna ukutshintsha. Ukuba ulahla umntwana wakho ekunakekeleni kwesikhosi okanye esikolweni, nikeze isilumkiso seminithi emihlanu malunga nemizuzu emihlanu ngaphambi kokuba uhlukaniswe.
Emva koko, banike isilumkiso seminithi emibini. Xa kufike ixesha lokuthetha, ubophe ukubuyela kwakho kwisiganeko sekhonkrithi, njengokuthi, "Ndiza kubuya ndikukhethe emva kwexesha lokulala."
Yithi Bhayi-Bhayi
Ukuthetha ngokuthetha, kukho indlela efanelekileyo yokuyenza kunye nendlela engafanelekanga ukuyifumana xa ifika kubantwana abathintekayo. Nciphisa uxhalabakho lomntwana ngenxa yokungabikho kwakho ngokuhamba "kwenkqubo ede kangaka:"
- Tshela umntwana wakho xa uza kubuya.
- Sebenzisa ibinzana elihambelana nokuthetha, njengokuthi "Khangela emva koko, i-alligator."
- Musa ukulala okanye ubuye xa umntwana wakho eqala ukunyusa; Oku kubonisa umntwana ukuba uya kubuya xa beqhubeka bephosa ukulungelelanisa .
- Kodwa musa ukukrazula okanye, njengokuba iphula ukuthembela komntwana wakho.
Ukwakha ukuzimela
Kakade, ukuzimela kuyona ndlela yakho yokugqibela , kodwa umntwana oxhamlayo uzuza ngokubonakala ngokucacileyo, ukuqonda kwangaphandle kwamakhono abo okuzimela. Nika imisebenzi yakho efanelekayo yengane ukugqiba ngokwabo, njengokuthatha amathoyizi okanye ukubeka itafile.
Ukunikezela indumiso xa umntwana wakho enza okuthile ngokuzimela, njengokudlala kwakhe ngexesha elikhethiweyo okanye usebenzisa indlu yokuhlambela. Oku kuthumela umyalezo kumncinane ongenakufuneka unamathele kuwe ukuze uphumelele.
Njengoko umntwana wakho akhula aze azuze ukuzimela, ukunyamezela kuya kunciphisa.
Enyanisweni, mhlawumbi uza kuba neentsuku ukuba umntwana wakho wanxusa ukuba uhambe naye!
Nangona kunjalo, ukuba unenkxalabo yokunyaniseka kwengane yakho, kwaye ingabonakali idlulayo, xelela udokotela wezilwanyana malunga nalo (kunye nomboneleli wakho wosuku, utitshala wesikolo okanye nabani na okhonza njengomkhathaleli kumntwana wakho ). Ugqirha unokuncomela ukutyelela inkcazo yezempilo yengqondo, ngelixa abanye bangakunceda kwiimeko apho kunokuthi kubangele ukuba "Ndiyakudinga ngoku, mama".