Iindlela eziPhambili zokuLawula abantwana neengcinga

Njengokuba nawuphi na umzali onomntwana ongaphezu komntwana omnye okanye umboneleli womntwana onokungqina, yintoni esebenza ngokwemigaqo yoluleko komntwana omnye engase isebenze kunye nomnye. Ukungafani nendlela abantwana abasabela ngayo ekuqeqesheni kubuye kwenzeke amathuba okwanda kwabazali ukuba babe ngaphantsi kwe-ndlela. Ngenxa yoko, akumangalisi ukuba ngaphezu kweyesithathu kubazali abacinga ukuba iindlela zabo zokuqeqesha zisebenza kakuhle, ngokutsho kovavanyo olutshanje lwabazali abayi-2,134 abanabantwana abaneminyaka engama-2-11. Nangona kunjalo, iingcali zezingane zibonisa ukuba kukho ezinye izinto eziqhelekileyo zokuqeqesha ngokufanelekileyo. Nazi iindlela zokuzama:

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Ukubambisana kubalulekile

Ekubeni wonk 'umntu unomhlobo ohlukeneyo wokuba ngumzali / umnakekeli, akusebenzi ukuba uthethe zonke iziyalo kufuneka zihambisane nazo zonke ixesha. Kodwa uzama, nangona kunjalo, ukufaka imithetho ehambelanayo , iindlela, kunye neenjongo kunye nomvuzo ngamnye ngosuku. Abantwana banokufumana utshintsho okanye ukungavumelani ukudideka, kwaye banokuvavanya imida okanye imida ukuze babone ukuba bangaphi na abantu abadala. Ukubambisana kubalulekile ekuqikeleleni xa kuziwa kubazali. Xa abazali behlala behamba ngendlela abaziphendulela ngayo kunye nemiphumo yabo, baqikelelwa kubantwana babo. Umntwana uyakwazi ukuchaza kwangaphambili indlela abaya kusabela ngayo kwiimeko ezithile

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Khangela 'Kutheni' kokungaziphathi kakubi Xa uJohnny ephosa indebe kunye nezinto eziqulethwe kuzo ziphephe kwi-taptile, kufuneka kubekho ulwalathiso. Kodwa ukuba uthatha ixesha lokufuna "isizathu" ekuziphatheni kunokuba nje isenzo ngokwawo, unokusondela ekubeni uqikelele ingxaki yengane yakho (ubuncinane le). Ukuba ufumanisa ukuba waphonsa indebe yakhe ngenxa yokuba umququ unqatshelwe, umzekelo, unokuvavanya isiphumo esahlukileyo okanye ube nencoko eyahlukileyo kunokuba uyayiphonsa ngenxa yokuba akafunanga ubisi isiselo. Mhlawumbi uhluthe kwenye into ngokupheleleyo, kwaye yile ndlela alawula ngayo. Abazali banokukhokela ukuziphatha okufanelekileyo.

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Gwema Amandla Amandla Ukukhetha iimfazwe zakho ngokucophelela, kodwa emva kokuba uthathe imfazwe ngoko umzali / omdala MELE uzuze. Njalo. Yiyo kuphela ukujongana nale micimbi ebaluleke ngokwenene (ukhuseleko luhlala luyinto ephambili yokulwa) kwaye vumela ezinye izinto zihambe. Ukuba kunokwenzeka, vela ukhetho ngelixa ubeka imida efanelekileyo. Kodwa ukuba imbambano ibalulekile, iingcali zibonisa ukuba kubalulekile ukuba umzali angacingi kwaye anikezele kumntwana, nokuba "nje oku kanye kanye." Ukuba ukwenza oku, njalo xa lo mbandela uphinda kwakhona, umntwana wakho uyazi ukuba unokutshintsha ingqondo yakho.

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Gxininisa nokuBonga Ukuziphatha okuhle

Ukuba ukuziphatha kungeke kubangele umonakalo, ngoko ke indlela yokwenza isiluleko esisebenzayo iquka ukudumisa ukuziphatha okulungileyo nokuvuyisayo ngemisebenzi ekhethekileyo (njengendlela yokuya epakini), ngelixa ulahlekelwa ukuziphatha okubi. Oku kulula ukutsho kunokuba kwenziwe, kodwa umntwana uya kufunda ukuba izenzo ezilungileyo zenza ingqwalasela eninzi kunye nodumo xa ukuziphatha kakubi kungamzuzi nto.

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Gcina Ipholile

Abantwana bahlala bevuyela ukubona ukunyuka komntu omdala; ukubethelela phezulu kwakho kunomdla wokubukela kwaye abantwana ngezinye iixesha babone ukulahleka kwakho kolawulo njengoluyisa kubo. Hlala uxolo kwaye ulawulwe , kwaye xa kuyimfuneko, xelela umntwana wakho ukuba uthathe ixesha elifutshane ukuvavanya imeko kwaye ugqibe isigqibo esifanelekileyo phambi kokuba uthathe isenzo. Abantwana baya kudla ngokuxhatshazwa ngumntu omdala, omdaka, okanye omdala; ungabaniki ithuba. Ukuba udibanisa, funda kumava, kwaye uthathe enye imilinganiselo ukugcina uxolo, upholile kwaye uqokelele ngexesha elizayo (kwaye kuya kubakho enye!). Xa unako ukuhlala upholile kwaye ukhethe ukuthatha ixesha, ubeka umzekelo kumntwana wakho. Ukwazi indlela yokuzincama kubalulekile ukuba ukwazi nokukwazi ukufundisa.

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Funa Abaxhasi Abacebisi

Xa omnye umntu ebukele umntwana wakho, qiniseka ukuba udibanisa isitayela somyalelo kwaye ucele umnakekeli ukuba athathe uhlobo olufanayo. Ngokufanayo, ukuba awukholelwa kwindlela ethile (njengokheta okanye isihlalo esikhatywayo), qi niseka ukuba ubonise ukuba kumntwana okanye umfundisi wezemfundo yokuqala. Ukuba ukhangela ukunyamekela kwintsuku okanye isikolo sangaphambili, thatha ixesha lokubuza malunga neendlela zabo zoleko. Abazali abaninzi bafumanisa ukuba xa behambelana nendlela yabo yokusebenzisa iindlela zokunyamekela komntwana, iziphumo zisebenza ngakumbi. Isizathu esinokuba kukuba abantwana basabela kwiindlela zokuziphatha ezisetyenzisiweyo kunye neontanga zabo. Ukubambisana ekufundiseni kubalulekile!

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Zifundise ngokwakho Umzali kunye neendlela zokuLawula

Kukho iintlobo ezahlukeneyo zohlobo lomzali kunye neendlela zokuqeqesha . Ukuzifundisa kwimibono eyahlukahlukeneyo kunokukunceda uzive unolwazi kwaye ulawulwa ngakumbi xa ukhetha indlela ongasabela ngayo kwimeko ngomntwana wakho. Ingaba ukhetha uqeqesho olulungileyo, uqeqesho olusekelwe kumda, uqeqesho olumnene okanye olunye uhlobo, kubalulekile ukuba ufunde ukuba yeyiphi indlela ekhethekileyo kwaye ukhethe owona mhlobo ohambelana nentsapho yakho kunye nesitayela sakho somzali.