Isikhala phakathi kwebhedi kunye neNdonga kungabulala abantwana abaselula
Abazali abatsha ngokuqhelekileyo bayazi ngokungafaki ukulala embhedeni yabo okanye ukubonelela ixesha elithile xa umntwana evukile kuba iintsana kufuneka zilale ebusweni babo. Nangona kunjalo, iintlekele zakutshanje ziye zabonisa isidingo sokukhumbuza abazali kunye nabanikezeli benkonzo yabantwana bentlalo malunga nokubeka abantwana kwiibhedi eziseduze nodongeni.
Kwaye, ingozi yomntwana ingabandakanyekanga kwiingxabano ezithandekayo okanye eziphazamisayo iintsapho zentsapho .
Iintsana kunye nabantwana abafundele ukulala ebhedeni elisondele eludongeni ngamanye amaxesha bangayikhupha ibhedi baze bahlonywe kwisithuba esiqinileyo phakathi kwebhedi nodonga. Izibhengezo zebhedlele zingafaka isandla kwisimo esingakhuselekanga ngokuthintela inqanawa yokuphefumula komntwana, okubangelwa ukuxhatshazwa. Abanye abancinci banjalo abalala bendoda abalalayo ukuze bangavuki xa besuka ebhedeni, ingakumbi ukuba baqhube kwindawo epholileyo, okwenza ukuxhamla kwandipha ngokungafi. Abazali abaneenjongo ezinokuthi bazame ukuvala isithuba ngokugaya imithwalo okanye ukulala kwindawo ephakathi kombhede nodonga. Nangona kunjalo, ukuba umntwana omncinci uya kuleyo ndawo, ukuzama ukukhusela kunokwenyusa kuphela umonakalo wokuphela kwesifo.
Ukuze ugweme ingozi yobungozi bokungabikho kwengane ephathelene nombhede, abazali kufuneka baqaphele ekukhuseleni indawo yokulala yomntwana.
Abantwana abaye baphumelela kwibhedi elincinci okanye elincinci kufuneka babe nebhedi yabo ephakamileyo kwigumbi, ukuba kunokwenzeka, okanye ubuncinane beenyawo ukusuka eludongeni. Abalindi bamacala angasecaleni banokunceda ukunciphisa umngcipheko wokukhupha umbhede, kodwa abayikhuseli ngokupheleleyo.
Abazali bafanele baqaphele ukuba bangenzi umqobo obangela umntwana ukuba aphume ebhedeni ngokukhuselekileyo okanye amaphepha kunye neembhedlele ezixhomekeke kakhulu okanye zinzima kakhulu ukudala ubungozi bokungezeleleka komntwana.
Nangona injongo yakho ukugcina umntwana wakho embhedeni ubusuku bonke , ufuna ukuqinisekiswa ukuba xa kwenzeka imeko engxamisekileyo okanye uxinzelelo, ukuba akukho nqobo yokukhusela engabangela ingozi ngokungazi.
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