Iimfazwe Zezemidlalo Zezingane Omele Uzazi Ngazo

Imidlalo yabantwana ishintshile kakhulu kwisizukulwana esidlulileyo okanye ezimbini. Ngoko nangona udlala imidlalo xa uyingumntwana, unokubheja kuninzi ukuba ufunde njengoko abantwana bakho bebandakanyeka kwimidlalo yolutsha kunye nezemidlalo. Gcina abadlali abancinci bephilile, bekhuselekile kwaye banwabe ngakumbi nale ncwadi yokudlala.

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Kukho iMidlalo kuMntu wonke

Ukubamba iqhaza kwezemidlalo kubantwana akudingeki ukuba kunqunywe kwiiklasi ezifana nebhola kunye nokubhukuda (nangona kunjalo, loo nto ikhethiweyo kakhulu kwezinye izingane). Kukho uluhlu olubanzi lwezinye iindlela ongakhetha kuzo ngaphandle: ukuchela umkhosi, ukubethelwa kwemidlalo , Ultimate, polo polo, kunye neQuidditch! Kwaye kukho ezinye iinketho ezingakumbi kunabantwana ngaphambili abaneemfuno ezizodwa . Nceda umntwana wakho enze umdlalo aze athole umdla oya kuwufumana.

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Akunakwenzeka kakhulu ukujoyina

Yinto (phantse) ayizange ifike emva kwezemidlalo entsha ! Kuyavunywa ukuba, ukuba uneminyaka engama-16 ubudala ufuna ukuba yi-Olympic gymnast, mhlawumbi ulahlekelwe yithuba lakhe lefestile. Kodwa oko akuthethi ukuba akakwazi ukuthatha i-trapeze okanye iklasi yokudanisa okanye ukuxhoma kwi-trampoline ukuzonwabisa. Abantwana bayakwazi ukuthatha okanye bazama phantse nayiphi na imidlalo nakweyiphi ubudala; awanako ukufikelela kumazinga aphezulu okukhuphisana.

Ukuba uhlala kwikomiti yinto ebaluleke kakhulu kumntwana wakho, unokujonga imidlalo ethandwayo engaphantsi kakhulu efuna inxaxheba (ithi igalufa), amaqela amakhulu akwamkela wonke umntu (umzekelo, ukuhamba kwelizwe eliphambili) okanye ukungaqhelekanga kwintlalo okanye ukubuyisana ukudlala (ngokuchasene nokuncintisana).

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Kufuneka Ube Ingxubusho-Savvy

Ngelishwa, iingqungquthela zingumngcipheko wangempela kwizemidlalo ezininzi zezingane-kwaye zingabandakanyeli ezemidlalo njengobhola bebhola kunye ne-hockey yeqho. Abantwana abadlala ibhola lebhola okanye ibhola yebhola, bakhwela amahashe, baze bafumane i-skate, bangabangela ukulimala kwengqondo xa bewela emhlabathini okanye badibene nomnye umdlali. Kwaye ekubeni ukulimala kungabonakali, abantwana (kunye nabaphathi abasesikweni) abanokuthi bahlale beqonda indlela enzima ngayo.

Abadlali ababuyela kumdlalo ngokukhawuleza emva kokuba ingqungquthela inokubeka ingozi kwiingxaki ezinkulu. Kwaye nabani na ohluphekileyo omnye umxube unokuba nelona xesha lilukhuni ukufumana ukulimala kwentloko yesibini okanye yesithathu. Ngoko kubalulekile ukuba:

• uyazi iimpawu kunye neempawu zengxubusho
• fumana ukuba yintoni isikolo somntwana okanye iprotocol yenkqubela yeligi
• kuthetha nomntwana wakho ngokubaluleka kokubika nayiphi na inzakalo yentloko okanye iimpawu zokuxubusha
• fumana uvavanyo lokuqala lomncinci kumntwana wakho ukuba ufanelekile
• landela isicwangciso sokubuyisela ngokucokisekileyo xa umntwana wakho akalimele

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Umdlalo wakho wezemidlalo i-Kid isoloko udinga i-Free Play

Njengabantu abadala, abantwana kunye nentsha badinga ubuncinane imizuzu engama-60 yokulinganisela ukwenza umsebenzi osebenzayo rhoqo ngosuku. Ungacingi ukuba ngenxa yokuba umntwana wakho udlala imidlalo yezemidlalo, udibanisa ubuncinane. Mhlawumbi akasebenzi rhoqo imihla ngemihla, kwaye i-hour-long practice ayifuni ukuthetha imizuzu engama-60 epheleleyo yokudlala.

Ngaphezu koko, abantwana badinga ukudlala okungabonakaliyo , xa bekwazi ukwenza ubuchule kwaye bangahambisani nemithetho kwaye benze izinto ezifana nokukwenza kwimidlalo. Ngoko gcina umqhubi wakho wezinga lomsebenzi kunye neendlela zokudlala ngokukhululekile kunye nokuhamba ngokusebenzayo (njengokuhamba okanye ukuhamba ngebhayisikili esikolweni).

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Ukulahlekelwa Kokuba Yizinto Ezilungileyo

Ukufunda ukulahlekelwa ngesithunzi kunye nobabalo kuyisifundo esibalulekileyo sokuphila, kunye nemidlalo enye yezona ndlela zona ndlela zilungele ukwakhiwa kwezi zakhono. Ukunceda umntwana wakho afunde ukuzonwabisa okuhle kwezemidlalo yinxalenye enkulu yomsebenzi wakho njengomzali. Abaqeqeshi bezingane zakho bangaba lakho iqabane kulo mzamo-nangoko nje unenjongo efanayo (kwaye loo njongo "ayiyikuwina yonke into").

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Ukuchonga kunye nokuBaluleka kubalulekile

Akunjalo nje ngeeveki zokulwa: Abantwana banokuhlupheka ngenxa yokulimala ngokweqile. Ukufumana iziphumo ezilungileyo kunye nempilo engcono, abantwana kufuneka bagcine imisipha kunye namalungu abo aqinile kwaye aguquke. Oko kuthetha ukuhlala ulungelelaniswe unyaka-wonke, ungagqithisi ngokubanzi okanye uqeqesho olungaphezu kwexesha , kwaye ulula emva kokusebenza kunye nemidlalo. Ukuba umqeqeshi womntwana wakho engabandakanyi ixesha elide, khuthaza umdlali wakho ukuba akwenze yedwa.

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Umntwana wakho mhlawumbi ufuna ukukhuselwa kwamehlo

Mhlawumbi wazi ukuba ukhangelele iingcamango, kwaye ugqirha wakho wamazinyo wakunika umlomo xa umntwana wakho efumana izibilini. Kodwa kuthekani ngokukhusela umbono wakhe? Ukulimala kwamehlo yimbangela ebumfama yabantwana baseMelika, kwaye ininzi yale nzakalo yenzeke xa abantwana bedlala imidlalo. Ngenhlanhla, ukukhuselwa kwamehlo kutholakala lula, kusebenza, kwaye (ngokuqhelekileyo) akubizi, kwaye ininzi yengozi inokuthintelwa. Fumana ezo ziqendu!

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Uya Kuza Kuzithandela

Qikelela ukuba? Ukuthatha inxaxheba kwezemidlalo kubantwana kuthetha ukuthatha inxaxheba kwabazali. Xa inkwenkwe yakho ihamba ngaphaya kweklasi yokubhukuda okanye ukufunda izifundo ze-skate kwaye iyaba yingxenye yeqela okanye iqela, uhlala kwinqanaba levolontiya . Oku kunokuthetha ukuhamba entsimini njengomqeqeshi okanye umsizi oncedisayo; ukubetha i-slushies kwindawo yokumela; ukulungisa i-T-shirt oda okanye amagumbi ehotele ehotele kwintambo ye-town-out.

Ewe, ngamanye amaxesha unokuthi ufake indawo yenkxaso yemali endaweni yoko. Kodwa xa ufumana ingcamango yokuba uya kuchitha kangakanani kwimidlalo, awukwazi ukufuna ukongeza kuloo nani. Ngaphezulu, ukuzithandela kubonisa ukuba ungumdlali weqela, njengokuba ufuna ukuba umntwana wakho abe.

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Akufanele ube ngumdlalo wokuba ngumdlalo womzali

Kuyafaneleka ukuba ukulungelelanisa kweso isandla kungakhange kuphuculwe ukususela ekuqaleni, okanye awuzange ufunde indlela yokukhwela ibhayisikili okanye ukugibela ibhola le-tennis. Unokwenza ube ngumzekelo kunye nomntwana wakho omkhulu! Mkhuthaze, kwaye ubuze imibuzo. Abaqeqeshi, abazali kunye nabo kunye nomntwana wakho uya kuvuyela ukuphendula, kwaye kungekudala uzakuziva njengenxalenye yeqela.