Nangona ukuba ungumboneleli womntwana ongeyona mtsha, ukufumana amadoda anamava njengengcali epheleleyo yokunakekelwa kwabantwana asekude kwaye embalwa phakathi. Nangona kunjalo, akukho sizathu sokuba indoda ayikwazi ukuba nomsebenzi ophumelelayo njengomniki- nkonzo wentsapho okanye umntu .
Njengoko iimboli zesini kunye nemisebenzi iyaqhubeka ishintshela, uluntu luyamkela ngakumbi abantu njengabaongikazi, ootitshala, abagadi beentaba, kunye neminye imisebenzi eyayiqhutywe ngabesifazane.
Kwakunjalo ngumboneleli wesondlo wabantwana. Nangona kungabamba ababelethi ekuqaleni, iintsapho ezisetyenziswa ngamadoda njengabaninikeli bokunakekelwa kwabantwana zivame ukubonisa ukwaneliseka okwaneleyo ngokunyamekela abantwana babo.
Njengawuphi na umsebenzi, ukusebenza kunye nenqanaba elipheleleyo lothungelwano lomnikeli onoxanduva lokunyamekela abantwana, kusekelwe kwiimfundo, amava, indlela umntu asebenzisana nayo kwaye aphendule ngayo abantwana, iinkonzo ezibalulekileyo zokuncedisa, kunye nokukwazi ukugcina abantwana bekhuselekile, banonwabile kwaye banempilo . Ubulili abufanelekanga ukuba kuqwalaselwe; Iimfundo eziqhelekileyo ziyimpawu eziphambili ezifanele zigwetywe xa zikhetha ababoneleli ngabaninikeli okanye abantwana.
Sekunjalo, ukunqoba nayiphi na ukungabaza kwinqanaba labazali, abanikezeli benkonzo yabantwana abanokuncedisa ukuba banokuqulunqwa ngokubanzi kunye neenkcukacha ezongezelelweyo ukubonelela ngezinga elongezelelweyo lokuthembela nabazali. Iintsapho ezinokuthi ziyazi izicwangciso zemisebenzi yemihla ngemihla; indlela umnakekeli uya kuphendula ngayo kwiimeko ezithile; indlela yokudla, amaxesha okudlala, kunye nexesha le-nap ehlanganisiweyo; iindlela zoleko; kwaye ingaba umniki-nkonzo unakho ukukwazi ukukhupha iziganeko ezahlukeneyo zokunakekela abantwana ngexesha elifanayo.
Ukongezelela, amadoda angathanda ukuqala iingxoxo malunga nabaxhamli bezesondo kwaye bavumelane nesicatshulwa sangasemva ukuze bancede nayiphi na into enokubangela ukuba umzali angenayo malunga nobulili kunye nokufaneleka kokuthintana. Abazali banokuba nengxaki yokuqala malunga nendoda eguqula umtshini womntwana wesifazane, umzekelo, ukuba banganqikazi ekukhuliseni.
(Abazali mabahlale bekhumbule ukuba abantu abesini ngokwesini banokuba ngabafazi kunye namadoda.) Ngenxa yokuba amadoda namhlanje ahlala ehlawulwa ngokuxanduva olufanayo lomzali njengabasetyhini, naluphi na ukukhathazeka kunokuthi lukhutshwe ngokuthetha ngokunyanisekileyo nangaphambili.
Abanikezeli benkonzo yokunakekela abantwana kufuneka bathathe uqeqesho olufanelekileyo lokunakekela abantwana, kwaye balungiselele ukuxoxa ngeemfuno zabo zokuqala kunye ne-CPR kwiziqinisekiso phakathi koqeqesho lokuqala kwasebuntwaneni okanye iimfundo ezizodwa ezingabakho.
Abazali basebenzisa abaniki-nkathalo bendoda bahlala bethetha malunga nokuba ubukho besilisa bunamandla kangakanani kumntwana wabo. Njengomnye umboneleli womnakekeli womntwana, isigqibo esona sigqibo sokuba ngaba abazali kunye nomntwana bahlala bekhululekile kwaye banwabile ngohlobo oluthile kunye neshedyuli kwaye bazive bexhamle nomxhasi (inkunzi okanye insikazi) abayikhethayo.
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