I-Juggling School, Work, kunye neMisebenzi ingaba ngumngeni
Ukuba ukuphepha kwakho ebusuku kukuthi ukhathele kangakanani na bantwana, mhlawumbi intsapho yakho iyakhathalela indlela yokulinganisela umsebenzi, isikolo kunye nemisebenzi yomntu ngamnye. Nazi ezinye iingcebiso ezikhawulezayo zokugubungela iishedyuli ezahlukeneyo kwaye uchithe ixesha elifanelekileyo lomgangatho kunye kunye nosapho:
1. Yakha Ubusuku Bentsapho
Ukudala ubusuku bentsapho bulula kwaye kunokudala imemori ukuze iphile ixesha lokuphila.
Ingaba ubusuku bhanya-moya, ubusuku obuphumayo (cinga i-pizza okanye isiTshayina, umzekelo), ubusuku bemidlalo , okanye ubusuku bokuhamba kwintsapho, isitshixo kukuba ubusuku beveki nganye ikhethwe ixesha elilodwa. Hlaziya ... kwaye uthethe omnye nomnye! Usenokumangaliswa izinto ozifundayo kubantwana bakho ngobusuku obukhethekileyo.
2. Yazi Uhlobo Lwabantwana Bakho
Sebenzisa ixesha ukwazi abahlobo bakho. Ukuvumela abantwana ukuba "baphumelele" kwindawo yakho kukunika ingqiqo ebalulekileyo kwiminqweno kunye nokukhuthaza umntwana wakho kunye nokuqonda "isihlwele" edibana naye. Kubantwana abancinci, iyure okanye ezimbini kunye nomhlobo unokufundisa ukwabelana, uxanduva, ukuguquka, kunye nezinye iimpawu ngokufunda kunye namava. Futhi ungakulibali ukuba iingcali ezininzi zezingane zibonisa ukuba ixesha lokudlala kunye nentlalontlalontlalontlalontlalontlalontlalontle ingaba ngcono ekuphuculeni komntwana kuninzi imisebenzi ehleliweyo okanye ehleliweyo.
3. Vumela Umntwana Wakho Khetha Imisebenzi Yakhe Nezintshisekelo
Ungabi ngumama we-helicopter! Uninzi lwabazali abanentsingiselo enokuthi batyikitye abantwana babo kwimisebenzi abayiyo yonk 'inomdla okanye bahle, ngoko kubambisana neengxabano zamandla ngenxa yoko. Enye ingxaki yonke-ndawonye xa umntwana wakho ecela ukuba angene ngemvume kwimisebenzi aze afune ukuyeka, kodwa abantwana abaselula banokuvelisa iimfuno namaphupha athile abafuna ukuzenza.
Kwaye, mhlawumbi abayi kuba namaphupha afanayo oye waba nawo! Qaphela ukuba ukhethe iimfazwe zakho kwaye ufumane izicelo zezicelo apho usebenza khona.
4. Cinga ngokuzibophezela xa wenza izigqibo
Cinga ukuba umntwana wakho uphelelwe ngaphezulu. Imisebenzi emininzi igxininisa iinkqubo ezongezelelweyo kunye neemfuneko zexesha kwihlabathi elinokukhuphisana namhlanje. Wena njengomzali kufuneka unqume ukuba umsebenzi othile ufanelekile kumntwana wakho. Izinketho zeentsapho ezixinzelelwe ixesha kukusayinela abantwana kwiqonga lokuzonwabisa kunye nexesha elikhethiweyo.
5. Hlaziya kwaye Misela iNqanaba lokuzibophezela kwabantwana bakho
Ukuba umntwana wakho uthi umcimbi "unokumonwaba, ungaphepheli ukuya kwixesha elipheleleyo okanye kunyaka. Akunakwenzeka nje ukuba kubonakale ingxaki kumntwana wakho ukuba akayithandi, kodwa uza kuphulaphula abanye abadlali / amalungu athatha inxaxheba kulo msebenzi. Amaninzi amaninzi athembele kwinani elithile labadlali okanye abantwana ukuba baqulunqe iqela, kwaye ukukhutshwa komzuzu wokugqibela kungabangela impembelelo kubo bonke abantu. Ukuba awuqinisekanga, qwa lasela umqondiso wakho kumntwana kwikampu encinane okanye kwiseshoni emfutshane okanye ngesithuba esifutshane. Ukuba umntwana wakho uyayithanda, ngoko unokuhlala ufuna into engakumbi kwixesha elizayo.
6. Ukunikezela uxanduva lweNtsapho
Ukuba wonk 'ubani kwintsapho uthatha inxaxheba kwintlobo ethile yomsebenzi, ngoko ke imisebenzi yendlu yasemgangathweni ingaba nzima ukufezekisa ngenxa yokungabi nako kwexesha.
Hlangana nentlanganiso yentsapho kwaye uchaze ukuba ukuze wenze le mi sebenzi / ezemidlalo / umculo, wonk 'ubani uya kufuneka angene ekuzaliseni imisebenzi yasekhaya. Ukuba ubeka ulindele phambili, naluphi na ukukhwaza kuya kuncitshiswa. Nangona abantwana abancinci banokukunceda ukuseta itafile, izitya ezicacileyo, okanye ukuthabatha amathanga enkunkuma kwindawo yokuloba.
7. Jonga izibonakaliso zokuThuthukiswa
Khangela imiqondiso yokuba umntwana wakho usuphelile. Ukuba ibakala lakho lebhokhwe liqala ukuphosa okanye ufumana inqaku elithi uEmmma uvame ukulala emva komzuzu wokusa, kusenokwenzeka ukuba ucela ezininzi. Hlalani nikhumbule ubudala bomntwana, ubuntu kunye nomdla wokwenene wokwenza izigqibo.
8. Khuthaza amaLungu eNtsapho ukuba abe yiQela
Intsapho edlala kunye, ihlala kunye ngumyalezo kwaye ikhuthaze abantwana bakho ukuba baxhase imisebenzi kunye nemigudu yomnye nomnye.
9. Gcina Uhlobo lweNtsapho
Uhlobo lobomi bentsapho locwangciso luya kunceda ukugcina izinto eziza kuqala kukuqinisekisa ukuba usapho olonwabileyo, olungcono.