Iintsana zivakalelwa ngomculo ngeendlela ezibonakala ngathi abanye abadala baye balibala. Basebenzisa imizimba yabo ukuveza imvakalelo kwaye bahlolisise iindlela zabo ezihamba ngayo. Nazi ezinye iimbono zokukunceda uhlolisise umdaniso kunye nomntwana wakho omncinci.
Nika Umntwana Wakho Ukufikelela kuMculo uze ubone Oko kwenzekayo
Usenokuba uqaphele ukuba akuthathi nantoni na ukufumana umntwana wakho omdanso.
Mane ubeke ingoma ephathekayo kunye nesigqi esiphezulu kwaye uya kuqala ukuhamba. Akunakho ukuqonda ukuba imilenze yakhe ibetha ngokubethwa kwisihlalo sakhe semoto njengoko uqhuba kunye nomculo ohamba kwimoto. Kwabancinane abantwana abaselula baqonda izandi ezahlukeneyo kunye neemvakalelo abazenzayo. Uyakwazi ukubona oku kusebenze ukuba ubeka emfutshane, umculo weklasikhi kwaye ubuze umncinci wakho ukuba adlale (angase ahambe ngokukhawuleza okanye ahlambe) ngokugqithiselela into ethile ngokubetha ngokukhawuleza. Indawo enokuqala ukuqala, ke, ukuqinisekisa ukuba umntwana wakho unokufikelela kwimimandla eyahlukeneyo yomculo yonke imini. Mhlawumbi uya kwenza umlinganiselo ofanelekileyo wokudansa ngokwakhe.
Kubazali Abanamacala Amabini Akhohlo
Ukuba ungumntu omdala onandipha umculo kwaye udansa, mhlawumbi akunakululwa kakhulu xa kufikelelwe ekucwangciseni nasekuphunyezweni imisebenzi yokudanisa kunye nomntwana wakho omncinci. Kodwa abantu abadala abadala banokuziva bexakekile okanye bengakhululeki ngokudansa kwaye bakuthola kunzima ukudibana naloo nxalenye yabo.
Ukuba nguwe, ke uzama ukungagxininiseli nawuphi na uhlobo olusesikweni lomdaniso kodwa ugxininise endaweni ephosakeleyo yokuhamba kumculo. Zama ukukhumbula oko kwakunjani xa usengumntwana. Uyakhumbula zonke iingoma ezingenangqondo kunye nokuhamba okuhamba nabo?
Qala ngeemvumi eziqhelekileyo ezinomdaniso ezinomdaniso onjenge-dance-like.
Ungakhathazeki ngokukwenza ngokugqibeleleyo, kunjalo. (Enye yezinto ezininzi ezininzi malunga nabantwana abaselula. Abazange bazi ukuba imbi kangakanani umculi okanye umdaniso onjalo ngokwenene.)
Ngokomzekelo, "I-London Bridge" ingoma ephantse ukuba wonke umntu akhumbule ebuntwaneni bayo. Kulula ukuhlaziya nokuba ngaba nguwe kunye nomntwana wakho omncinci. Zibambe izandla uze uziphakamise ukwenza ibhuloho uze uqhube xa uhlabelela. Ukuba ukongeza umntu wesithathu kumxube, unako ukujika ujikeleze ngaphantsi kwebhuloho kwaye, ngokuqinisekileyo, ukuvalela kwindoda enhle (okanye umfana njengoko kunjalo).
Ngaba akufanelekanga abantwana ukuba bavelele kwaye badlale kuMculo weNtshontsho?
Kukho neendawo ezininzi zeMCD kunye neeDVD zokuhlola abantwana. Ngomdaniso ogqwesileyo, hamba iingoma ezingenangqondo, ezingabonakaliyo zeengoma okanye ukuveza umntwana wakho kumculo othanda kakhulu ngoku okanye umculo owawuthandayo xa uselula.
Akuyona into embi ukuvumela abancinci ukuba baphulaphule ila, ilizwe, isinyithi okanye i-rap. Sisebenzise nje isigwebo sakho esona sihle xa kuvela ekuvezeni umntwana wakho ukuba achaze amazwi okanye enye into engekho ukulungelelaniswa nexabiso lentsapho yakho. Umntwana wakho uya kukuxelela ngokukhawuleza ukuba uyayithiya into oyidlalayo. Usenokumangaliswa xa ubona ekhupha i-punk rock.
Ukwandisa iNtsapho Yakho Yomdla Ngomdaniso
Ngaba uke wavumela umntwana wakho ukuba ahlale ekhitshini kunye nezinye iipuni zeengodo kunye neebhotile? Ngaphandle kwesikhuthazo esivela kumzali, umntwana usenokuguqula izinto ezimbalwa ezilula kwiseshoni ye-jam epheleleyo. Iintsana zikwazi njani ukwenza oku? Nika umntwana encinane ityitra yokudlala kwaye ubeke omnye umculo uze ubone ukuba akaqali ukwenza ukudlala. Iiprogram ziyakongeza ukonwaba okukhulu ukudanisa. Cinga ukunika umntwana wakho ukufikelela kwiimpahla zomculo (akukho nto inqabileyo ekuqaleni, unokwenza izixhobo zomculo ekhaya), izambatho ezonwabisayo (njengeengubo ezivuthayo xa inkwenkwe yakho ihamba okanye izicathulo ezenza ingxolo eninzi kumgangatho onzima), imakrofoni kunye neyona nto ibhetele kuyo yonke i-mirror-length full-time ukuze ihlole.
Musa ukumisa iingcamango malunga nendlela yokwenza ubuninzi bomntu wakho wokuthambekela kwemvelo ukudansa. Fumana umculo odlalwa ngumbutho wokuhamba kunye nesiteji umgca kwi-yard yangasemva. Dlala umdlalo apho umntwana wakho edlala xa umculo ukhona kwaye ukhululeka xa umisa umculo. Qhubeka uqala kwaye umise umculo kwaye uhlekise kwizikhundla ezihlekisayo ozogqitywa ngazo kokubili. Nangona nje unomculo, akukho mda kumnandi ongaba nomdaniso.