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Imisebenzi yeHlabathi yamahhala yamaHlabathiUkuzonwabisa okubhaliweyo kwehlobo akudingeki ukuba kube lula. Masijongene nayo, ukuba ikhululekile , mhlawumbi ilula kakhulu. Abantwana abaqhelekanga ngengqondo into elula ukuba yinto engaphandle kweso sihlandlo esifanayo, esifanayo.
Yintoni eyenza "ukuzonwabisa" kwezi ngcamango kubandakanyeka kwabazali. Abazali basekhaya basebenze badinga imicimbi yemihla ngemihla yehlobo ukugcina abantwana bexakeke ngelixa besasebenza, kaninzi ngaphezu kwexesha lokunyamekela abantwana . Kodwa uyazi ukuba bathetha ntoni ngawo wonke umsebenzi kwaye akukho mdlalo. Kwaye abantwana baqala ukukhwabanisa emva kokufumana ukuzonwabisa kwabo ixesha elide.
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Fumana iWindows (okanye i-Cheap Cheap)Uninzi lweetrakethi zentengiso zinikela ngokukhululeka okanye okuncitshiswa kakhulu (oko kukuthi i-$ 1 okanye i-$ 2 yokungeniswa) iifilimu ngexesha leveki kusasa ehlobo. Kule mizila efanayo, i-movie-in-movie, nangona ikhululekile, yindlela engaphantsi kweendleko ukuba akukho nawa mafilimu ekhululekile kufuphi nawe.
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Phuma kwiindawo zokudlala kunye neePakiHayi kuphela iipaki zendawo kunye neendawo zokudlala, ngeendlela zabo, indawo evulekile kunye nezinto zokudlala; esimweni esimangalisayo, abaninzi banamaphulo amahle kakhulu ehlobo asele abantwana. Ngoko sebenzisa iipaki kwindawo yakho. Yaye qiniseka ukuba uyigcine inomdla. Musa ukuhlala uhlala epakini elula kakhulu. Hlanganisa. Ngenye imini kuhamba ngokukhawuleza ukuya kwindawo yokudlala kwindawo yokuhlala, kodwa ngexesha elizayo, zama ipaki yelizwe kwindawo.
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Yiya kwiiNgqungquthela zangaphandle, iiFilimu kunye neMikhosiIidolophu ezininzi kunye namacandelo axhasa amakhonsathi akhulu, amafilimu kwiipaki kunye nemikhosi yonke ixesha elide. Gcina iso kwiphepha lendawo. Ngamafilimu kunye namakhonsathi, misela isidlo sakusihlwa uze umeme abahlobo kwaye uba ngumcimbi (awunayo imicimbi)! Uninzi lwezi ziganeko zexesha langokuhlwa, ngoko aziyi kugawula ixesha lokusebenza.
Kuzo zonke iziganeko ungagqiba ukuchitha imali, kodwa akudingeki. Iimithendeleko zikuninzi ngamathuba amaninzi okulahla imali, kodwa ezininzi zinemisebenzi eninzi yamahhala kunye nokunikezelwa kwezingane.
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Yiya kwiPiknicUkuba awufumani nawaphi na amakhonsathi zamahhala kwindawo yakho, phakamisa isidlo sakusihlwa kwaye uze nomculo wakho wepikiniki epaki. Iipikiniki zinokuba zilula okanye zilula njengoko uthanda. Unokuphosa kunye namasityuwa uze udle isidlo sasemini phantsi komthi kwindlu yangasese okanye inkukhu yetshisi kwaye uchithe usuku elunxwemeni. (Okanye mhlawumbi kwindawo ethile phakathi kokuthenga inkukhu ethosiweyo nokuya epakini yendawo.) Nama-picnics asekudleni emva kweeyure eziqhelekileyo zoshishino, kunye kunye banike abantwana ithuba lokubheka phambili.
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Ukugijima ngokusebenzisa i-Sprinkler kunye ne-Get WetUkufumana umanzi ngenye yezinto ezilula (kunye nezikhululekile) ezivuyisayo zobuntwaneni. Njengomzali, umele ukwamkele ukuphazamiseka komdlalo wamanzi wamanzi , kodwa inzuzo yeeyure zokuzonwabisa. Kwaye oku kuyona mnandi xa umama ejoyina, kodwa ukuba uthanda, unokuhlala umile kwaye usebenze ngefestile apho unokubukela umnandi. Iibhaluni zamanzi, iibhotile, i-pool kunye neembhobho zamanzi zonke zidibanisa kumnandi. Vumela abantwana baxakeke kule hlotyana!
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Ukutyelela iiMyuziyamu, iZoos kunye neZakhiwo zeMbaliUninzi lwezi zixhobo ezikhangayo alunanto (nangona zimbalwa), kodwa abaninzi "baneentsuku zamahhala" xa bevuma ukungena. Ngokuqhelekileyo, ihlala rhoqo, njengeLibini Lwelokuqala lwenyanga, kodwa ngamanye amaxesha isisiganeko sonyaka kuphela. Izindlu zeembali kunye nezinye izibheno zembali ziza kuba ziphantsi kwexabiso labantu abadala kwaye zihlala zikhululekile kubantwana. Abantwana baya kumangaliswa zizinto ezininzi abantu abahlala kuzo ngaphandle!
Yiya kwiiwebhusayithi ezikhangayo kwindawo yakho kwaye uphendule usebenzisa igama elingundoqo "ukhulule" kwaye ubone oko kuza. Yenza uluhlu lwezinto ezikhululekile kwaye xa uhlala kwindawo yakho kwaye ubeke imihla kwikhalenda yakho ukuze ungalibali.
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Ride Your Bikes Iibhayisikili zikufumana ukuba uphume kwiindawo ezingaphandle kwesiqhelo sakho kwaye uvumele ukuba uhlanganise indawo engaphezulu. Ukuba umntwana wakho usemncinci (kodwa udala kunomnyaka omnye), cinga ukuthenga umthengi womntwana uze umkhuphe ngaphandle kwebhayisikili. Ukuba uhlala kwindawo ethile unokuphepha ngesithuthuthu kwizitrato okanye ngeendlela zokuhamba ngebhayisikili, sebenzisa i-bike yakho ukuze usebenze izinto kunye nezingane zakho. Uya kufumana umzimba; umntwana wakho uya kuphuma ngaphandle, kwaye iifayile ziya kwenziwa. Ukuthatha uhambo oluya kwinqanaba lomzila ongasemgangathweni lungaba lukhetho oluhle, ngakumbi kubaqalayo, kuba ngokuqhelekileyo bahlala behle.
Njengoko abantwana bekhula, banokukhwela amabhayisikili abo, kodwa kuthatha ixesha elide ngaphambi kokuba bafikelele kwiimitha ezide kwaye bahambe ngokuphepha ezindleleni. Ukuhamba ngebhayisikili kunye nezingane zakho kukunika ithuba lokubafundisa imithetho yokuphepha yebhayisikili ekhuselekileyo ngosuku apho baya kuhamba ngebhayisikili ngaphandle kwakho.
Kwaye ukuba oko kungonelisekile kwentshwankethi yehlobo kuhlolisise ezi ngcamango ezili-100 zezingane kunye nabazali ukuba benze kunye.