Funda indlela yokulawula ukungalungi ngokuziphatha
Xa kuziwa ekulungiseni ukuziphatha kakubi komntwana wakho, kukho umda omkhulu phakathi kwesiluleko kunye nokuziphatha. Nangona isijeziso sigxile ekwenzeni umntwana ahlupheke ngenxa yokuphula imithetho, uqeqesho malunga nokumfundisa indlela yokwenza ngcono ixesha elizayo.
Yintoni i sohlwayo?
Isijeziso sithumela isohlwayo sokuphulwa komntwana. Kungokumenza umntwana "ahlawule" iimpazamo zakhe.
Ngamanye amaxesha, umnqweno wokuba ujeziso uvela kwimvakalelo yomzali yokukhathazeka.
Ngamanye amaxesha, kubangelwa ukuphelelwa lithemba. Umzali unokuziva enyanzelekile ukuba akhonkce, athabathe, okanye asuse wonke amalungelo anikezelwe ngumntwana emzameni wokuthumela umyalezo ocacileyo ukuba ukuziphatha kwakhe kukutshintsha kangcono "okanye mhlawumbi."
Isijeziso ngokuphathelele ukulawula umntwana, kunokufundisa umntwana ukuba aziphathe njani. Kwaye ngokuqhelekileyo, isijeziso sitshintsha indlela umntwana acinga ngayo.
Umntwana onyamezela isijeziso esinzulu unokuqala ukucinga, "Ndiyingozi." Esikhundleni sokucinga ukuba wenze ukhetho olubi, unokukholelwa ukuba ngumntu ongekho.
Abazali basemthethweni banokuthi bavelele abantwana. Ukuhlwaywa, njengento yokutshiza, kuthethwa ukuba kubangele intlungu kunye nosizi. Eminye imizekelo yokujeziswa ingabandakanya ukunyanzelisa intombazana ukuba ibambe isibonakaliso esithi, "Ndiba kwiivenkile," okanye ndibiza amagama omntwana.
Iingxaki ngezohlwayo
Izijeziso azifundisi abantwana ukuba baziphathe njani.
Umntwana ofumana i-spanking ngokubetha umzalwana wakhe akafundi ukufunda indlela yokulungisa ingxabano ngokuthula. Kunoko, uya kushiywa edidekile malunga nokuba kutheni ukulungele ukuba umbethe kodwa akulungile ukuba ambethe umntakwabo.
Isijeziso sifundisa abantwana ukuba abanako ukuzilawula.
Bafunda abazali babo kufuneka baphathe ukuziphatha kwabo ngenxa yokuba abanako ukwenza ngokwabo.
Isijeziso sobungozi sinokubangela ukuba abantwana bahlale bevutha umsindo wabo kumntu obangela intlungu, kunokuba bafumane ingxaki. Ngoko kunokuba uhlale kwaye ucinge ngendlela angayenza ngayo ixesha elizayo, umntwana ophoqeleka ukuba ahlale ekhoneni iiyure angasebenzisa ixesha lakhe ecinga ngendlela yokuziphindezela kumncedi ombeka khona.
Yintoni Ulungiso?
Uqeqesho lufundisa abantwana izakhono ezintsha, ezifana nendlela yokulawula ukuziphatha kwabo, ukuxazulula iingxaki, nokujongana neemvakalelo ezingenakukhathazeka . Isiyalo sinceda abantwana bafunde kwiimpazamo zabo kwaye bafundise iindlela ezifanelekileyo zoluntu zokujongana neemvakalelo, njengengqumbo nokudumala.
Amasu okuqeqesha aquka izicwangciso ezifana nokuphuma kwexesha okanye ukususwa kwamalungelo. Injongo kukunika abantwana isiphumo esicacileyo esiya kumnceda enze isigqibo esilungileyo kwixesha elizayo.
Isiyalo sithatha indlela egunyazisiweyo . Ukuqeqeshwa okunempilo kubandakanya ukunika abantwana imigaqo ecacileyo kunye nemiphumo emibi xa iphula imithetho.
Iziphumo nazo zithatha ixesha elibukhali. Ngoko ngoxa isijeziso singabandakanya umzali ukususa yonke i-electronics ngokungenammiselo, uqeqesho lungabandakanya ukuthatha iTV ngeeyure ezingama-24 xa umntwana enqaba ukuwuvala.
Izinzuzo zoMyalelo
Uqeqesho luyasebenza, kunokusebenza. Ithintela iingxaki ezininzi zokuziphatha kunye nokuqinisekisa ukuba abantwana bayafunda ngokuzimeleyo kwiimpazamo zabo.
Iindlela ezininzi zokuziphatha ziquka iindlela ezintle, njengendlela yokudumisa kunye nemivuzo . Ukuqiniswa okulungileyo kukukhuthaza ukuziphatha okuhle ukuqhubeka nokubonelela abantwana ngokukhuthaza ngokufanelekileyo ukulandela imigaqo.
Uqeqesho lubuye lukhuthaze ubudlelwane obuhle phakathi kwabazali kunye nezingane. Kwaye ngokuqhelekileyo, olo budlelwane obuhle luyanciphisa ukuziphatha okhathalelayo kwaye lukhuthaza abantwana ukuba baziphathe.
Nangona uqeqesho luvumela iimali ezifanelekileyo zetyala, akukona malunga neentloni zezingane.
Kwaye kubalulekile. Umntwana oziva ulungile ngaye ngokwakhe akanako ukwenza ukhetho olubi. Kunoko, uya kuba nethemba lokukwazi ukulawula ukuziphatha kwakhe.