Yintoni Abazali Okufanele Bayayazi Ngomdlavuza kunye noTywala
Njengomzali, unokuba ukhathazekile malunga neyona nto umntwana wakho evelele ngayo ngokwemichiza kunye notywala, nokuba ngaba bahlala kwizinto ezi okanye bengenayo. Uloyiko olufanelekileyo. Emva kwakho konke, abatsha abasebenzisa iziyobisi kunye notywala banokuthi bangene kwiindlela ezahlukahlukeneyo zokuziphatha okubi, okuza kuholele ekunyuseni ukuziphatha ngokwesini (kunye nokukhulelwa, izifo ezithathelwana ngesondo, okanye ukuhlaselwa ngokwesondo), izingozi zeemoto, kunye nezinye iziganeko zokwenza izigqibo ezinzulu.
Kuzo zonke izizathu, ukusetyenziswa kweziyobisi kunye notywala kubeka ingxaki enkulu kwimpilo yengane yakho.
Ziyintoni eziqhelekileyo iziphumo ezibi?
Ngokutsho kwamaziko okuLawula nokuLawula (i-CDC), utywala yiyona ndlela isetyenziswa kakhulu kwaye isetyenziswa kakubi phakathi kolutsha e-United States. Ngokubhekiselele ekuziphatheni kengozi kuhamba:
- Ukusela ngokugqithiseleyo kunoxanduva lokufa kwabangaphezu kwama-4 300 phakathi kolutsha olungaphantsi konyaka.
- Ngo-2010, kwakukho ukuvakatyezwa kwamagumbi angxamisekileyo angama-189,000 ngabantu abangaphantsi kweminyaka engama-21 ukwenzela ukulimala kunye nezinye iimeko ezinxulumene notywala.
Ukongezelela, uphando loLutsha loLutsha lwe-2013 lufumene ukuba, phakathi kwabafundi besikolo esiphakamileyo, ngexesha leentsuku ezingama-30:
- Iipesenti ezingama-35 zisela amanzi athile
- Iipesenti ezingama-21 zokusela
- Iipesenti ezili-10 zahamba emva kokusela utywala
- Iipesenti ezingama-22 zahamba nomqhubi owayesela utywala
Ulutsha oluselayo utywala luyakwazi ukufumana:
- iingxaki zesikolo, ezifana nokungabikho okuphezulu kunye namanqanaba ahluphekileyo okanye ahlulekayo
- iingxaki zentlalo, ezifana nokulwa nokungabikho kokuthatha inxaxheba kwimisebenzi yolutsha
- iingxaki zomthetho, ezifana nokubanjwa ngokushayela okanye ukulimaza umntu xa utywala
- imisebenzi yesondo engafunekiyo, engacwangciswanga, kunye nokungavikelekanga
- ukuhlaselwa ngokwesondo nangokwezesondo
- umngcipheko ophezulu wokuzibulala nokubulala
- ukuphazamiseka kweemoto ezinxulumene notywala kunye nokulimala okungenakuzenzela, njengokutshisa, ukuwa, nokuguqula
- ukusetyenziswa kakubi kwezinye iziyobisi
- ukufa ngenxa yobuthi obunxilisayo
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Ulutsha oluqala ukusela ngaphambi kokuba uneminyaka eyi-15 linamathuba ayisithandathu okufumana ukuxhomekeka kotywala okanye ukusetyenziswa kakubi ebudeni kunabo baqala ukusela okanye emva kweminyaka eyi-21.
Yintoni Abazali Bangayenza Ngomsebenzi Wokusetyenziswa Kwezidakamizwa Nokusetyenziswa Kwemithi Okungekho Mthethweni?
Abaninzi abaselula bakhetha ukusela. Bayakwazi ukuzikhethela ngokwabo kwaye banokumelana naluphi na uxinzelelo lwabaontanga abanokuva malunga nokusela okanye ukusebenzisa iziyobisi.
Naluphi na uhlobo, nangona kunjalo, ukubandakanyeka kwabazali kungenye yezitshixo zokuthintela intsha ekusela. Thatha amanyathelo okufundisa umntwana wakho malunga neengozi zokusela nokuqhuba iingxoxo eziqhubekayo ngotywala.
Okungakumbi malunga nentsha kunye nokusetyenziswa kakubi kweziyobisi
Iintsholongwane kunye noTywala: Oko Abazali Abafuna Ukuzi . Ukongeza kwimibare, funda ngakumbi malunga nokuba kutheni abatsha bakhetha ukusela nokusebenzisa iziyobisi. Ukuhlakulela ubunzulu kwizinto ezibangela ulutsha kunye nokusetyenziswa kweziyobisi, njengokufuna umdla, ukufuna ukwazi, imvelo, ubume, kunye nempilo yengqondo.
Iindlela ezili-7 Abazali banokukhusela intsha ekujongeni noTywala. Uninzi lwabafana abancinane ubuncinane bazama utywala ngelixa bephumelele esikolweni esiphakamileyo, ngokubhekiselele kwi-2011 Monitoring Future Survey.
Abazali badlala indima enkulu kwisigqibo esithatha isigidimi malunga nokuba ungasayi kusela utywala. Ezi zihlongo ezi sixhenxe zinokunceda ukunciphisa amathuba okuba umntwana wakho oza kubandakanyeka ekuphuzeni kwangaphantsi.