Ngaba Unokukhathazeka?
Ukutshatyalaliswa kwithuba lophuhliso lomzimba ngokukhawuleza, apho umzimba wakho webhola ukhuba ukuvelisa. Kuba babini namantombazana kunye namantombazana, kukho iipateni eziphambili zokuphuhliswa. Kodwa zombini ukubonakala kwexesha kunye nokubonakala kwangaphandle kokutshatyalaliswa kuyahlukahluka kumantombazana. Oku kuthetha ukuba abazali kunye namantombazana banokuziva bedidekile ngezinye zezinto eziqhelekileyo.
Nazi ezinye ze mibuzo ehlala ibuzwa malunga nokukhulelwa kwamantombazana.
Imibuzo Ngokuphathelele Ubuninzi Bomzimba kunye Neenwele Zomzimba
Intombi yam eneminyaka engama-7 ubudala inezinwele zomlenze omnyama kunye neenwele ze-underarm. Ngaba utshaya ubusana ekuqaleni?
Mhlawumbi, mhlawumbi akunjalo. Ukuba wakho umntwana usemnyameni omnyama, kusenokuba nje ukuba iinwele ziqala ukufumana mnyama. Amantombazana aseAfrika-American, amaSpanishi kunye namaNdiya, kunye namantombazana avela kwimimandla ethile yaseYurophu, ngamanye amaxesha angaba ne-underarm okanye inwele yeenyawo ngaphandle kokugqitha.
Ukuba umntwana wakho unomlenze omnyama kunye neenwele ezincinci kunye neenwele ze- pubic okanye ukuphuculwa kwebele, nangona kunjalo, loo nto ingaba ibali ehlukileyo. Naliphi na isetyhini kunye neenwele ze-pubic okanye ukuphuculwa kwebele phambi kweminyaka eyi-8 kunokuba nobushushu obunobuncwane okanye ukutshatyalaliswa okwenzekayo kusasa. Ukuba uyika ukuba intombi yakho ihamba ngokukhawuleza kakhulu, qhagamshelana nomntwana wezilwanyana okanye unonophelo lwenkonzo yentsapho ukuze uqeshwe ukuba uxubushe ngezinto ozikhathazayo.
Intombi yam yentombazana ifumana iinwele zomzimba, kwanezinwele ze-pubic, kodwa akukho phuhliso lwebele. Ngaba oku kuqhelekileyo?
Ingaba. I-15 ekhulwini yamantombazana ihlakulela izinwele ze-pubic ngaphambi kokuphuculwa kwebele. Oku kuyinto eqhelekileyo kwaye ayikho isizathu sokukhathazeka. Ukuba amabele aqala ukuhlakulela kwiinyanga ezintandathu ezizayo unyaka, qhagamshelana nodokotela wezilwanyana.
Imibuzo malunga neBreast kunye neSikhusi sokuSesikweni
Intombi yam eneminyaka engama-8 inezinto ezibukeka njengebele. Akunjalo oku kusasa?
Ukuba umntwana wakho ukhuluphele, kunokubonakala ngathi uhlakulela amabele. Amabele akhe angenakwenziwa ngezicubu zesifuba sangempela kodwa, kodwa ngeestipose (fat). Nangona kunjalo, ukuba oko kubonakala ngathi amabele aqala ukuhlakulela nayiphi na ixesha ukususela ekuzalweni ukuya kwi-7 okanye 8, qhagamshelana nodokotela wezilwanyana. Ngamanye amaxesha kubekho imeko yobunzima, kodwa amabele okuqala angabonisa ingxaki. Umnikezeli wonyango kuphela onokukuxelela ngokuqinisekileyo.
Ukuphuhliswa kwengqondo yentombazana kuhambelana njani nexesha lakhe?
Xa intombazana iqala ukuhlakulela "iifom" zebele (isifuba esisekuqaleni kwesibhokhwe), ungaqala ukulindela ixesha leentombazana ukuba liqalise. Ukuya esikhathini kusetyenziswa iminyaka emibili ukuya kwisiqingatha kwiminyaka emva kokubonakala kwamabele.
Bonke abahlobo bam beselula baye bafumana ixesha labo kodwa bakhe. Ngaba kukho into engalunganga?
Ukuba umntwana wakho oneminyaka engama-15 okanye omncinci kwaye uneminye imiqondiso yobushushu (njengentuthuko yesifuba kunye neenwele ze-pubic), ngoko unokuthi ube "i-bloom late." Ukuba akanalo iimpawu zangaphandle zokusasa , kwaye sele ekhulile ngaphezu kwe-15, kubalulekile ukucela uncedo lonyango lwabantwana bakho.
Ingane yakho iya kufuna imisebenzi yegazi kunye nezinye iimvavanyo zebhabhi ukuqinisekisa ukuba ziphuhlisa kwishedyuli.
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Ubushushu bubona ixesha elonwabisayo kunye neloyikisayo labaselula kunye nabazali ngokufanayo. Izinto ezininzi zitshintsha ngokukhawuleza kwaye zidideke. Ngenxa yobuninzi bemantombazana asetsheni, ukukhulelwa kwenzeka ngokukodwa njengoko kufuneka ukuba kwenzeke. Buza umboneleli wakho wonyango lwempilo ukuba kukho nantoni na engabonakali.
> Imithombo:
> Kliegman, RM. et. al. Ncwadana yeeNzululwazi . Elsevier; 2016.
> Neinstein LS, Katzman DK. I-Neinsteins I-Adincial and Young Adult Health Care: Isikhokelo esiSebenzayo . Philadelphia: iWolters Kluwer; 2016.