Ukufumana ibhalansi phakathi kokunyanzelisa nokusebenza njengomcebisi
Xa kuziwa ekuqeqesheni, iingcali zabazali zijolise kwizinto eziguqula abazali xa umntwana eqala ukukhula. Oku kubangelwa ukuba intsha iqale ukufaka ubungqina babo kwaye idinga ukuzimela. Ngoko ke, umsebenzi womsebenzi utshintsha ekubeni ngumntu ophetheyo ixesha lonke lokuba ngaphezulu kwesosa kunye nomcebisi.
Njengoko uqaphela ukuguqulwa komsebenzi wakho wokuba ngumzali, kunokubonakala ngathi amalungelo akho kunye neemfanelo njengoko umzali utshintsha.
Enyanisweni, amanye amalungelo kunye noxanduva lokutshintshela kwintsapho yakho. Oku kubanika inkululeko enkulu yokwenza izigqibo zabo baze bazimelele ngakumbi.
Nangona kunjalo, kukho ezinye eziza kuhlala zingaguquki ngexesha lokukhula komntwana wakho. Makhe sihlolisise ilishumi zamalungelo obalulekileyo kunye noxanduva lwabazali abaselula.
Ukuphathwa Ngenhlonipho
Abazali, kunye nabo bonke abantu kwintsapho, banelungelo lokuphathwa ngenhlonipho. Oku akubandakanyi nje kuphela abazali kunye nentsha, kodwa kunye nabantwana bakowenu kunye namalungu entsapho abongezelelekileyo anokuhlala ekhaya.
Misela iMithetho kunye neLungelo lokuLungisa
Abazali banelungelo lokubeka imithetho kwaye banciphise amalungelo xa imithetho ingalandelwa. Oku kuquka imithetho yendlu kunye neentsapho ezilandelwayo ngenhlonipho kubo bonke abahlala ekhaya.
Eminye imizekelo yimiyalelo ngemisebenzi, iindwendwe, ii- curfews , kunye nezinto ezingekho mthethweni okanye imisebenzi ngaphakathi ekhaya. Abazali banokuthi 'hayi', nangona bacinga ukuba into ephosakeleyo.
Ithemba linomba omkhulu phakathi kwabazali kunye nentsha. Nangona abantwana bevunyelwe ukwenza iimpazamo-kwaye abazali kufuneka banikele abantwana babo ithuba lokubuyisela ithemba labo-elingathathi umthwalo womzali wokugcina umntwana wabo omncinci angazilimazi ngokubeka imithetho kwaye athi 'cha' xa kufuneka .
Yazi i nyaniso
Abazali banelungelo lokubuza imibuzo kwaye balindele ukuba baya kuphendulwa ngokunyanisekileyo. Abazali bamele baqaphele intswelo ekhulayo yabasese xa bevakalisa eli lungelo.
Kwakhona, khumbula ukubuza imibuzo xa iimvakalelo zingapheliyo ukuphepha ukuphikisana nentombazana enomsindo. Oko kuya kwengeza kuphela kwingxaki kunokuba isombulule.
Ngubani, yintoni na kuphi
Abazali banelungelo lokukwazi ukuba bahlalaphi abantwana babo, ababenabo kwaye ngokuqhelekileyo abakwenzayo. Nangona abantwaba bengenayo inkcazelo malunga nemicimbi yabucala, njengengcamango yabo malunga nomntu abathandana naye , umzekelo, kufuneka bavumele abazali bazi izinto ezifana neendawo abaza kuba nazo kwaye ngubani oya kukhangela iqela .
Xoxa Ngomntwana Wakho Olutsha
Abazali banelungelo lokuthetha nabani na ochaphazelekayo ebomini babo. Oku kubandakanya, kodwa akukhawulelwanga kootitshala, oogqirha, abaqeqeshi, abacebisi, abahlobo kunye nabazali babahlobo.
Abazali banokulindela ukuba baya kufumana iimpendulo eziyimpendulo kwimibandela yabo xa bethetha nabo bantu.
Mna, ndibona kunzima ukujongana nabazali bam bahlobo bam beselula xa ndiyazi ukuba banomkhuba wokuxoxela umntwana wabo.
Yintoni eyobenza bahlale bengamanga ngami xa beva ukuba kuya kunceda umntwana wam ukuba ahlale engxakini? Akukho nto.
Ukwazi indlela eyenza abanye abazali bazive ngayo isizathu sokuba ndihlale ndinyaniseka xa abazali bam bahlobo bakho bebuza imibuzo. Ndiyakukhuthaza ukuba wenze okufanayo.
Ukugcina Ubunye Bentsapho
Abazali banelungelo lokukhuthaza ubunye bentsapho. Bangalindela ukuba onke amalungu entsapho athathe inxaxheba kwizithethe zentsapho, iindwendwe zentsapho, iintlanganiso zeentsapho, kunye neminye imisebenzi eyenza unxulumano olomeleleyo lweentsapho.
UkuLawulwa koLwazi
Abazali banelungelo lokujonga ukufikelela kwabo abantwana kwilizwe langaphandle. Oku kuyinyaniso nokuba ngaba ufikelelo luvela ekuziphatheni ngokwenyama okanye ngeteknoloji yeselfowuni okanye intanethi.
Khuthaza iindlela zexesha elizayo
Abazali banelungelo lokukhuthaza nokubeka ingqalelo imbono yengane yekamva labo. Nangona abatsha banikwa ukhetho oluphezulu lwezinto abafuna ukuzenza ngokuphila kwabo kwixesha elizayo, abazali banokukuchaphazela ngokusebenzisa iindlela zokukhuthaza, kodwa kungekhona ngokuqeqesha.
Umzekelo, khuthaza umntwana wakho ukuba afune isayensi ngokuyithumela kwiinkampu, kodwa ungawususeli amalungelo ngenxa yokuba awazange ayifunde incwadi kwi-system yezilanga owanike yona.
Yenza iimpazamo
Abazali banelungelo lokwenza iimpazamo nokuguqula iingqondo zabo. Ukuphosa kwenzeka, ukufunda ukulungisa impazamo nokuxolisa kubalulekile.
Akukho mntu uphelele kwaye isigqibo osenzileyo asiyi kuba yinto efanelekileyo xa ubujonga emva kwayo. Kungase kube ixesha lokubuyela kwaye udibanise. Ngelixa umntwana wakho engasayi kukuqonda ukutshintsha kwakho ngokukhawuleza, ukuzimisela kwakho ukuxolisa nokulungisa impazamo kukulungele ukulufanisa.
Bonisa Ukunyamekela
Abazali banelungelo lokuvumela abantwana babo ukuba bathande baze banakekele. Ngethuba ukunika umntwana wakho intombazana enkulu phambi kohlobo lwabahlobo bakho xa ushiya ikhefu kungeyiyo ixesha, uvumele umntwana wakho ukuba azi ukuba uyamkhathalela imihla yonke ukuba uyabakhathalela kubalulekile ukuthetha, itekisi, i-imeyile, njl. Umyalezo olula usebenza kakuhle, uqaphele ukuba bangabahlazisi ngeentanga zabo.
Iingcamango Zokugqibela
Uya kuphawula ukuba xa ubuya kuloluhlu kwaye utshintshana ibinzana elithi 'Abazali banembopheleleko' kwibinzana elithi 'Abazali banelungelo', uya kubona ukuba kuhambelana. Njengomzali, ndivakalelwa kukuba kubalulekile ukuba ndikhumbule ukuba oko kusinika ilungelo lomzali nalo lilindele ukuba sithwale uxanduva lomzali.
Ukuthatha umzuzu ukukhumbula amalungelo akho omzali njengoko uxanduva luya kukuthobeka nanini na xa uqala ukuziva unobulungisa xa uqeqesho. Yizame.
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