Indlela Umntwana Wakho Echaphazelekayo Ngayo Isinqumo Sakho Soqhawulo
Xa abazali beqhawula umtshato, kunzima yonke intsapho. Abantwana kufuneka babhekane nokuxhamla kobomi babo kwaye basebenzise ubungqina obutsha bemihla ngemihla. Ukuba uhamba nomtshato, kubalulekile ukwazi ukuba yiyiphi into enokuyibona kumntwana wakho.
Iingxaki zobutsha emva koqhawulo
I-20% ukuya ku-25% yabaselula abaqhawula umtshato bafumana iingxaki ezibangelwa utshintsho kwintsapho.
Nantsi indlela umtshato wakho ochaphazela ngayo intsha yakho:
- Iingxaki zezemfundo, njengamazinga ahluphekileyo
- Ingxaki yokulala
- Ukunyuka kwengcinezelo
- Usizi okanye umsindo kumzali omnye okanye zombini
- Ukuthembeka nokungahambisani
- Ukuhlukunyezwa kwesiyobisi
- Ukuxinezeleka
- Iinjongo zokuzibulala kunye nokuzama
- Iingxaki zokuziphatha esikolweni
- Ingxaki ekuhambeni kunye nabantakwabo, oontanga kunye nabazali
- Ukubandakanya kwimisebenzi yesondo yokuqala
- Unzima ukudala ubudlelwano obusondeleyo.
Intsha Yakho Iyayenza Njani Isehlukaniso?
Eyona nto ibaluleke ngayo ukuba abantwana bayakwenza njani xa abazali babo beqhawula umtshato, ngaba abazali babo bahamba njani. Sebenzisana neqabane lakho ekuphuhliseni isicwangciso-sobuzali sokusebenzisana.
Xoxa nentombazana yakho kunye nokukhuthaza umntwana wakho ukuba ahlanganyele iingxaki, ukwesaba, kunye nokukhathazeka. Ukuba awuqinisekanga kwindlela izinto eziza kuvela, vumelani ukungaqiniseki kwintsapho yakho. Ukuba uthengisa indlu, okanye awuqinisekanga ukuba uza kuhamba phi, qaphela ukuba kunzima kangakanani ukungaqiniseki.
Yilungiselele ukunyuka kwengqondo nokuziphatha. Misela imida eqinile kwaye ulandele nemiphumo xa kuyimfuneko. Yenza kucacise ukuba umntwana wakho uya kukwenza oko kuyimfuneko ukugcina ukhusele kwaye uncede enze ukhetho oluphilileyo.
Yiba Ngokufanayo NjengamaTshaba Asemntwaneni Weqabane
Nangona uqhawulo lomtshato luya kuba nzima kuwe nakwebanye abantu kwintsapho, yenza konke okusemandleni akho ukuba ube khona nentombazana yakho.
Oko kuthetha ukuthetha, ukubeka esweni, nokubonisa umdla kwimisebenzi yakho yeselula. Kubalulekile ukuba intombazana yakho ivelele kuwe xa uhamba ngexesha elibi.
Nangona umtshato uqhawuleza, intombazana yakho iya kubuhlungu ngenxa yokulahlekelwa kwintsapho yakho kunye. Lindela ukuba ubone amava ahlukahlukeneyo, ephuma entliziyweni ukuya ekudakaleni. Mxelele ukuba kunempilo ukuva loo mvakalelo, kodwa yenza ukuba kucace ukuba kubalulekile ukuvakalisa loo mvakalelo ngendlela ephilileyo.
Ukuba umntwana wakho ubonakalisa iingxaki zokuziphatha okanye uhlangabezana nokutshintsha kwimeko yakhe, funa uncedo lochwepheshe. Unokuzuza ngokuthetha nomfundi wezempilo yengqondo malunga noshintsho olukhuthazayo. Ngamanye amaxesha, iiseshoni ezimbalwa nje zonyango zinokuba luncedo ekuncediseni umntwana ukuba achukumise iimvakalelo zakhe ngombandela omkhulu njengokuqhawula umtshato.
Umthombo
Patten, Peggy. (1999). Uqhawulo kunye nabantwana INgxenye I: Udliwano-ndlebe noRobert Hughes, Jr., Ph.D. AbazaliNews.